Ukufumana umntu onomlutha kunokushatyiswa ngabahlobo kunye nezihlobo ezininzi . Kodwa ukuba umlutha uthathe iqabane lakho, umntwana osemtsha, okanye umntwana omnye ohlala naye, unokuzibuza nokuba kukho na ingozi ukuba umlutha unokuzizisa wena nabathandekayo bakho
Kwindlela yokufaka iNdoda eyingozi , incwadi yokuncedisa abafazi abathandana ukukhanga amadoda ahlukumezayo, " umlutha " unikwe njengelinye leentlobo ezisibhozo zomntu onobungozi.
Utywala kunye nezidakamizwa eziyingozi kunye nezoxinzelelo ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha , kuquka ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, ukuxilwa kokutya , ingxaki yokugembula , kunye nokufezekisa, ukuvunywa, ukufuna umdla, kunye nenkolo, kubalwa njengabantu abanobungozi.
Ukongezelela, ezininzi zezinye iindidi zabantu abanobungozi zihamba kunye nomlutha, kuquka umntu ogula ngengqondo, indoda egxekayo okanye enobudlova, kunye nomntu ongeyonto engabonakaliyo. Nangona le ncwadi iphathelele amadoda anobungozi kunye namadoda amaninzi kunabesetyhini abachongiweyo njengokuba banamalathiso, abafazi kunye nabantwana banakho ukuhlakulela izidakamizwa kwaye kube yingozi.
Iintlobo Zokuba Nokuba Ziyingozi
Nangona unomlutha awukwenzi ukuba ube yingozi ngokuzenzekelayo, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezinobungozi kwabanye abantu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umlingo unobungozi kuncike kwiimeko ezininzi, kubandakanywa ubunzima bokuxhatshazwa, imiphumo yesilwanyana okanye ukuziphatha ngokwawo, impilo yabo yengqondo kunye nempilo, imeko zabo zobomi, nokuba ingaba zibona nayiphi na isongelo okanye ukufikelela kwazo kwisicatshulwa okanye ukuziphatha kwabo.
Xa abantu bebuza ukuba ngaba izilingo ziyingozi, zisoloko zixhala malunga nosongelo lobundlobongela. Ngokubanzi, umngcipheko wobundlobongela uphezulu kubantu abanomlutha, kwaye ngokukodwa, xa umlutha unobungozi obuphambene nokulawula umgudu, unganciphisa isigwebo, kwaye ubangele ukuba umntu alahlekelwe yinyani.
Izinto ezinobungozi ngokukhethekileyo ziyobisi, i- meth kunye ne- cocaine . Abantu abanokuxhatshazwa njengabantwana, abantu abadala kunye nabakhubazekile akufanele bashiywe ekunyamekelweni kwabantu ngabanye phantsi kweempembelelo zezi zinto, njengoko ingozi yobundlobongela kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwandisa.
Ezinye izingozi zibandakanya umngcipheko woba - into ekuthiwa ukweba imali kunye nempahla yokukhupha i-akhawunti yakho yasebhanki ukuze uhlawule iindleko zeziyobisi, ukugembula, kunye nokuthengwa kwezinto zokuthengisa , kunye nokuxhaphazwa ngokwesini , okuqhutyelwa kaninzi ngabantu abaphantsi kotywala okanye iziyobisi, okanye izilonda zesini. Wena okanye abathandekayo bakho banokudandatheka ngenxa yokuzilimaza, ukufumana umlwelwe ogula okanye ungenakukwazi ukugqithisa , okanye uhlaselwa ngababoleki okanye abathengisi beziyobisi .
Nangona ukuthembela kubalulekile ubudlelwane, ukufihlakele nokuxoka nokuqamba amanga kuqhelekileyo phakathi kwezilutha, ngoko ke uphazamise kwicala lokulumkisa ukuba awuqinisekanga nantoni na into yokuba umlutha wabo uquka. Ukwakhiwa kokuthembela kudinga ixesha kunye nomzamo, kwaye inyathelo lokuqala liyingozi yokuvuma ukuba unenkinga kwaye ufuna uncedo.
Ukuba abanako okanye abanqwenela ukungena kunyango, kubalulekile ukusetha imida ukukhusela wena kunye nabathandekayo bakho.