Ingaba kuthengwa ngokugqithiseleyo ngokwenene?

Ukuthengwa kwezinto ezithengiweyo, okubizwa ngokuba yintengiso yokunyanzelisa, ukusetyenziswa ngokunyanzeliswayo, ukuthenga ngokunyanzelisayo okanye i-oniomania, kudla ngokunyanisekileyo kumajelo. Kubonakaliswa njengendlela yokuziphatha kwamaxhoba angamafowuni - ngokungaqhelekanga amabhinqa - kwaye afanekisiwe ngabadumi bezityebi abangenakuncinane ukukwenza kunye nexesha labo kunokuthenga izicathulo. Kulo mongo, ukuthenga ngokuzenzekelayo ngokwayo akubonakali ukuba yingxaki.

I-movie "Ukuvuma kwe-Shopaholic" ngeendlela ezithile kwomeleza le ngcamango, nangona iqulethe izinto ezithile ezichaphazelekayo kubantu abajongene neengxaki zokuthenga ngokunyanisekileyo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuthengwa ngokunyanzelekayo kuthathwa ngokungathandekiyo njengemilutha yezinto ezifana notywala kunye neziyobisi okanye ezinye izinto zokuziphatha , ezifana nokugembula . Ngaba le nto kuba akuyena umlutha osemthethweni?

Uphuhliso olutshanje

Nangona kukho umzimba ophangaleleyo okhulayo wokuthenga, ngokungafani nophando olwenziwe kwezinye izilingo, uphando oluninzi lokuphanda lugqityiwe kumajelo athengisa uphando kunye nophando lwabathengi. Ezi phephancwadi zineentlobo ezahlukeneyo zabaphulaphuli, ezibandakanya kakhulu abaqeqeshi bokuthengisa ngaphandle kweengcali zekliniki. Ngokucacileyo, iinjongo zalabo abanomdla ekuthengiseni nasekuqondeni ukuziphatha kwabathengi zihluke kakhulu kwabo banomdla wokuthintela nokunyanga izilingo.

Ngoko, ukuba kuthengwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba kubonakale njengengxaki ngokwayo, kuyakufuneka kuthathelwe njengesihloko esifanelekileyo yophando ngolu hlobo kunye neengcali zezokwelapha kwaye zifundwe ngolu hlobo.

Enye yezinto zakutsha zophando ngokunyanisekileyo kukufumana ukuba ukuthenga i-intanethi kubangel 'umdla kubantu' abanomlutha 'ekuthengiseni.

Oku kungenxa yokuba ukuthengwa kwe-intanethi kumabheno amaninzi anamandla ngakumbi kubathengi abaphoqeleleneyo, kubandakanywa isidingo sokufuna iindidi kunye nolwazi malunga nemveliso; ukuthenga ngaphandle kokubonwa; ukuphepha ukuthintana kwezentlalo xa uthengela; kwaye ujabule xa uthengisa.

Njengemfihlo ekufezeni umsebenzi wokuthenga ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nolonwabo olukhulu xa ukubandakanyeka kulo msebenzi kuqhelekileyo kuzo zonke izilingo zokulahla, olu uphando luxhasa imbono yokuba ukuthenga ngokunyanisekileyo kuyinqobo.

Ukuthengwa kwe-intanethi ngowomnye wemisebenzi emininzi ekhompyutheni enesici somlutha; Abanye baquka ukugembula kwi-intanethi , i- intanethi ye-intanethi kunye nokudlala umdlalo wevidiyo . Nangona kunjalo, le mi sebenzi ayifakiwe kwi-DSM njengemingcipheko yokulutha yodwa.

Ngeli xesha le "i-cyber-addictions" ayifumanekanga ngokupheleleyo, oko kubangelwa kukungabikho kwirekhodi elomeleleyo lophando apho kufuneka kusekelwe iinkcukacha ezifunekayo ekuphuhliseni imigaqo-nkqubo esemthethweni yeemeko zempilo yengqondo. Akulubonakali ukuba izilingo ze-cyber azikho, ziyingxaki okanye ukuba zithathwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo ngentsingiselo yoluntu.

Kukho nolwazi olukhulayo malunga nesidingo sokunceda abantu abahluphekileyo ngenxa yobunzima bezemali ngenxa yokuthenga ngokunyanisekileyo.

Ukufana kunye nokungafani nezinye izifo

Ukuthenga ngokugqithiseleyo kuye kwaqatshelwa iminyaka eyi-100 idlulileyo, kwaye abantu abaneengxaki zokulawula ukuchitha imali abafumaneki ukuba banokuthengwa kwintengiso, nangona banokuthi bafumaneke phantsi kwengxaki yokulawula ingqondo, kungekucaciswe ngenye indlela. Nangona ukuthenga ngokunyanzelisayo, kunye nezinye izilingo zokuziphatha, bekucetywa ukuba kufakwe kwi-DSM 5, okwangoku kungabonakaliswa njengengxaki yokulutha, okanye njengengxaki yokulawulwa kwemizwa yokuzimela.

Ezinye iingcali zicebise ukuba ukuthenga ngokunyanzelekayo kuyindlela yokukhathazeka ngokugqithiseleyo, okanye i- OCD , okanye ukuba luhlobo lwe- bipolar disorder.

Nangona kukho ukugqithiswa, akukho namanqaku athatywayo okwangoku.

Ngoko ke, nangona ukuthengwa kwezinto ezithengiswayo kunomlando omude, udibana neemeko zempilo yengqondo, ayibonakali ngokubanzi njengokuba umlutha wedwa wodwa kwiindawo zonyango. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ukuqonda okuqhubekayo kokufana nokuthengwa kwezinto zokuthengwa kunye nezinye izidakamizwa, kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba unokufumana uncedo lwezokwelapha, ngenxa yokungahambi kwezinye iimeko. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuthenga ngokunyanisekileyo yinto into yokuba isazi sengqondo singakunceda ukuba uphathe.

Imithombo

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