Akubona bonke abasebenzisa i-intanethi ye-intanethi abayingozi
Imibuzo eninzi ivela malunga ne-cybersex. Yintoni i-cyber zesini? Ziziphi iingozi ze-cybersex? Sinokukhusela njani abantwana kwi- cyberstalkers? Nangona unokuba ucinge ngeendlela ezithile zokuxhatshazwa kwe-cybersex, inyaniso kukuba ukuxhatshazwa kwe-inthanethi kulwabantu abaninzi, kuquka amadoda namabhinqa, abatsha kunye nabadala. Nangona uphando oluninzi lufunekayo ukuchonga amaqela ngokuchanekileyo, kukho iindidi ezithile ze-intanethi yomsebenzisi esazi ngayo.
Abasebenzisi be-Cybersex bahluke kwindlela abaziphatha ngayo kwi-intanethi yokuziphatha ngokwesini, kunye nezizathu zabo zokwenza njalo. Njengoko kuchazwe kwincwadi ethi, "Kwii Shadows ze-Net: Ukuqhawulwa kweNkululeko yokuThatheka kweNtlobano yokuThatsha kwi-intanethi" ngoPatrick Carnes et al, enye indlela yokuhlukanisa iindidi zabasebenzisi be-inthanethi ngokubhekiselele kwi-intanethi ngokwemiqathango yamalungu amahlanu amakhulu.
Iqela 1: Abasebenzisi bokuzonwabisa - ezifanelekileyo
Eli qela labasebenzisi be-cybersex bayakwazi ukuhlola ngesondo nge-intanethi ngaphandle kweengxaki. Basenokusebenzisa i-cybersex ukuphucula amava abo esondo. Bayakwazi ukunandipha ubudlelwane obusondelene ngesondo kwihlabathi lenene, kwaye babe nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwisini.
Iqela 2: Abasebenzisi bokuzonwabisa - abafanelekanga
Eli qela labasebenzisi be-cybersex banokufikelela kwi-intanethi ngesondo ngaphandle kokunyanzeliswa kodwa bangasebenzisa le nto ngokungafanelekanga. Oku kungabandakanya ukuthunyelwa kwe-post okanye ukubonisa imifanekiso yezocansi kwabanye abantu ukuzonwabisa okanye ukuphazamiseka, kubangela ukuphoxeka okungenakuzenzela.
Abasebenzisi abanjalo abayigcinanga imisebenzi yabo ngasese, kwaye mhlawumbi banokuba nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwisini kunye nobudlelwane.
Iqela 3: Abasebenzisi beengxaki - Iqela lokuFumana
Eli qela alinayo nayiphi na ingxaki edlulileyo kwi-Intanethi okanye enye indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Basenokusebenzisa i-intanethi njengendlela yokuhlola ubulili ngendlela engavumelekanga ngayo.
Imizekelo yabasebenzisi abanengxaki kwiqela lokufumanisa ngabantu abanobuqili bokutyelela amaziko omntu abadala abathandana nabo ngethemba lokuhlangana nomlingane, ngelixa bephepha amathuba okuphila kwangempela ukuhlangabezana nabantu; okanye abantu abasebenzisa i-intanethi ngomzamo wokuhlangabezana nomlingani omncinci wesini, nangona kungekho mlando wangaphambili wokwenza njalo.
Iqela 4: Abasebenzisi beengxaki - Iqela elidlulileyo
Eli qela libandakanya abantu abanokuba nembali yokucabisa ngokubhekiselele kwisondo, kodwa abangazange benze okokuba bafikelele kwi-intanethi yezinto eziphathekayo zesini. Basenokuba bacinga ukuza kubamba iiklabhu okanye ukufumana ubuhenyu besini, kodwa bengathathi nantoni na ukuyenza, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokwesaba ukuqashelwa okanye ezinye iziphumo. Ukusetyenziswa kwabo kungenziwa rhoqo kodwa kungabikho ngokweqile, nangona ingqwalasela isuswa ebuhlotsheni bokwenene, ubomi bomsebenzi bunokuba bunzima okanye ukungathembeki kwenzeka.
Iqela le-5: Abasebenzisi beengxaki - IQela eliPhezulu lokuLawula i-Sexual Compulsive Group
Abantu abakweli qela baphelele ekupheleni kweengxaki zesini. Isenzo sabo sezesondo senzeke ngaphandle okanye singenakho ukufikelela kwi-intanethi - ihlabathi le-intanethi lanezela enye indlela yokuhlola izinto ezingafanelekanga zesini. Aba basebenzi be-intanethi banokufikelela kwimifanekiso engamanyala, njengengxenye yenkqubo eqhubekayo yokuziphatha okubi ngokwesondo.
Nangona bonke abasebenzisi be-cybersex bangasebenzisa ingxaki, bonke bathatha umngcipheko wokuba ukusebenzisa kwabo kunokuba yingxaki. Enye ubunzima kwihlabathi le-inthanethi yesondo kukuba ngelixa abasebenzisi baxhaswa kwiindawo ezikuzo, bavusa ngesondo, kwaye bafakela umnatha, banokubonakaliswa kwimifanekiso abangayi kuyenza ngokuqhelekileyo. Oku kunokukhokelela ekuhloliseni izinto eziphathekayo zesondo ngendlela engazange ihloselwe, ngamanye amaxesha ngemiphumo eqondile yomthetho kunye nemibandela.
Umthombo:
Amacwecwe, Ph.D., uPatrick, Delmonico, Ph.D., David, Griffin, MA, uElizabeth, kunye noMoriarty, uJoseph. Kwizithunzi zeNet: Ukuqhawulwa kweNkululeko yokuziphatha ngoBuchule kwi-Intanethi. Iziko leSixeko, uMN: Hazelden. 2001.