Xa umntwana wakho ene-ADHD, abaxinzelelo kunye nokungaqiniseki malunga nemiba yomzali bangakhula ngokukhawuleza, beshiya umzali ukuba angaqinisekanga, akhungatheke, agxininiswe - kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ayedwa. Ukuqhagamshelana nabanye abaqondayo kwaye baye bafumana imingeni efanayo banokukunceda. Iqela elinjalo lingabonelela nje ngengqiqo ebalulekileyo yoluntu kunye nenkxaso, kodwa inika neenkcukacha ezichanekileyo kunye nemfundo malunga ne-ADHD nendlela yokuyiphatha kakuhle.
Kodwa yintoni umzali onokuyenza ukuba akukho ncedisi ye-ADHD kwingingqi yakhe? USusan Collins waseGreensboro, NC wazifumanisa kule meko emva kokuba unyana wakhe afunyaniswe ukuba ene-ADHD esemncinane. "Ndaqala ukubuza malunga nokuba kukho nawaphi na amaqela enkxaso yendawo kubazali bezingane abane-ADHD," ukhumbula uColins. Impendulo yayifanayo - 'Hayi, kodwa loo nto ingumxholo omkhulu! Ufanele uqale enye.' Kwaye wenza njalo, kunye nomzali kunye naye uBlair Churchill.
Ukuqala kweNgingqi yeGreensboro I-ADHD Yenkxaso Yenkxaso Yomzali
U-Collins noChurchill badibana ngokuwa kwe-2007 kwintetho ethi "Ukuqonda i-ADHD" enikezwe yintliziyo yengqondo kwaye ixhaswe sisibhedlele sendawo, uMoses Cone. "Ndakhuthazwa kakhulu kwigumbi elizele ngabazali bonke abajongene nemiba efanayo," ukhumbula uColins. "Ndahlala kufuphi noBlair kwaye saqonda ukuba abafana bethu babeminyaka efanayo kunye ne-ADHD." USherri McMillen (ovela kwisebe lokuthengisa kuMphathiswa wezeMpilo kaMoses) wenza ukuba ubusuku bube lula.
Emva kwendibano, uBrair kunye noSherri sathetha noSherri malunga nokuba kuya kuba luncedo njani ukukwazi ukudibana nabazali basekhaya ukuba babelane ngamabali, kunye nokufunda ulwazi oluvela kumacandelo ochwepheshe. "U-Collins noChurchill bahlangana noMcMillen kwiiveki ezilandelayo kwaye umsebenzi wokuqalisa iqela loxhaso lwengingqi kubazali babantwana abane-ADHD ngokusemthethweni baqala.
Iimithombo zoLuntu ukuxhasa iQela
Ukongeza kuMcMillen kuMoses Cone, uCollins noChurchill bafikelela kuDkt. Arthur Anastopoulos, umsunguli, kunye nomlawuli weklinikhi ye-ADHD kwipyunivesithi yendawo, kwiYunivesithi yaseNorth Carolina-Greensboro. UDkt. Anastopoulos, ingcali eyaziwayo kwi-ADHD kunye noprofesa kwisebe yeengqondo, ixhasa ngokusisigxina umyalelo weqela elixhasa abazali, eliqaliswe ngabazali. Wanikela ngesikhokelo sakhe sobugcisa kwaye wasayinwa njengomcebisi weklinikhi yeqela.
U-Collins noChurchill badibana noBrooke Juniau kwiNkxaso yeNtsapho yeNkxaso. Inethiwekhi yeNkxaso yeNtsapho yaseCentral Carolina ikhonza iintsapho ezinabantwana abaye bafumanisa ukuba banesidingo esikhethekileyo okanye isigulo esingapheliyo, okanye bazalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi. "Bayixhasa kakhulu indlela yokuqalisa iqela loxhasano loluntu njengoko bancedisa kwezinye iindidi zenkxaso yabazali kuloo ndawo," kuchaza uCollins.
Yonke into yaqala ukuhlangana kunye nomcebisi weklinikhi kunye neengcali zokubakhokela (uDkt. Anastopoulos), uncedo malunga nendlela yokuqalisa iqela lokuxhasa uluntu (ngokusebenzisa iNkxaso yeNtsapho yeNkxaso), kwaye uncede ekuthengiseni nasekufumaneni ilizwi ngeliqela ( ngokusebenzisa iMpilo yeMpilo yeCone).
"Kwakuyiyona nto ihamba ngokugqibeleleyo kule ntlangano emithathu yoluntu kunye namama omabini. Ubungcali bomntu wonke buyanconywa kwaye sonke sasisebenza kunye kakuhle," kusho uColins. Iintlanganiso zethu zocwangciso zaba yinto esasiyilindele ngayo kwaye ubuhlobo obuqinileyo bakha. "
Emva kwenyanga ecwangcisiweyo, umhlangano wokuqala weqela loxhaso lwentlalo lwenziwe ngoSeptemba 2008 kwibandla lendawo, iSonto Lintathu (oqhubeka ngokumnceda ngokubonelela ngeqela leqela ngaphandle kwentlawulo). "UMoses Cone wanikela ngeentambo zokukhuthaza iintlanganiso, ukuba uBlair kunye nathi sithatha iidolophu zonke, kwiiofisi zezilwanyana, kwizengqondo zengqondo, kwizikolo, ezitolo zokutya, iilayibhrari, njl njl.", Ukhumbula uColins.
"UMoses Cone Ukuziphatha kwezeMpilo kunye neNkxaso yeNtsapho yeNkxaso yeNkxaso yeeNkcukacha ine-imeyile ye-ListServ kwaye iyakwazi ukuthumela i-flyer kuzo zonke izikolo ezikuloo ndawo, kunye nakwiiofisi zoogqirha, ii-psychologists. kwiqela lethu lokuqala lokuxhasa kwaye savuya kakhulu! "
Ugxininiso lweQela leNkxaso
Iintlanganiso zeqela leenkxaso zakhiwe ngokuqala ngexesha lezentlalo ezingama-30 kunye nentlawulelo, emva kokubakho ngeeyure kwisethulo okanye ipaneli yeengcali ze-ADHD, ilandelwa yimizuzu engama-30 yemibuzo neempendulo. Abathethi baye baquka iingcali zeengqondo zengingqi, oogqirha bezilwanyana zophuhliso, ootitshala beengqondo, iingcali zezemfundo, abameli beprogram ye-Children's Exceptional Programme, kunye neengcali eziziwa ngamazwe kwi-ADHD. Iintlanganiso nganye zeqela leenkxaso zineesithethi esiphezulu sinobuchule kwintsimi ye-ADHD.
"Ndicinga ukuba ubugcisa beqela lethu ludonsa abantu abaninzi," utsho uCollins ochaza ukuba igxininiso leqela kukubonelela ngolwazi olusekelwe kubungqina malunga ne-ADHD kubazali kunye nabanakekeli. "Sasifuna ulwazi lwezesayensi, olusemthethweni olunikezwa ngabathethi bethu. Kubonakala kuninzi ulwazi olutholakala nge-intanethi, njl.
Uphando lwabazali kwiiNtloko zenzala
I-Collins neChurchill nayo yavelisa uphando oluye lwasasazwa kubazali ukufumanisa ukuba zeziphi izihloko ezinxulumene ne-ADHD zinomdla. Izihloko zonyaka zazisusela kwisabelo sophando. Izihloko ezibandakanyiweyo zibandakanya i- ADHD 101 , ukulawulwa kwamachiza , izicwangciso zabazali, ukuhlala kwamagumbi okufundela , ukungenelela ezikolweni , ukulawula utshintsho kunye nokuziphatha kanzima kwekhaya , ukuphucula ulwalamano lwabahlobo kunye ne- ADHD kubantu abadala .
U-Collins uqaphela ukuba ukubukeka kweqela kunokutshintshwa ngokuhamba kwexesha, kodwa umbono wokuqala ufanele uqhubeke nodibaniso lwentetho yokufundisa kunye ne-Q & A ekupheleni. Le fom ibonakala isebenza kakuhle, inika imfundo ye-ADHD kwaye ikhululekile kubazali abatsha. Kulo mqathango, akukho mntu 'ubeke kwindawo' okanye enze inxaxheba, nakuba abazali banokukhetha ukuthatha inxaxheba. Umoya uhlonipha, uyamxhasa, uyamkela kwaye awuqinisekanga.
"Olu luhlobo oluxilongo kwaye luye lunceda kakhulu ukuhlangabezana nabanye abazali abahamba ngeendlela ezifanayo. Kwenze ukubahluko omkhulu kuthi sonke siziva sisekelwe," kusho uColins. "Ngenene, ndicinga ukuba iiplanethi zethu zilungelelaniswe ngokufanelekileyo ukuba iqela liqulunqwe." Ndicinga ukuba onke la maqela - uDkt. Anastopoulos kunye neKlinikhi ye-UNCG ADHD, iMpilo yeZizwe zokuziphatha, iNkxaso yeNtsapho yeNkxaso, kunye neCawa yeZiqu-zintathu - yabona Kufuneka kubekho uluntu kwaye wonke umntu uncedise into ayenako kwaye yasebenza nje. "
Umthombo:
UMolly Sentell Haile, iNxibelelwano nge-imeyile. Julayi 14 no-27, 2011
USusan Parker, Unxibelelwano nge-imeyile. Matshi 22, 2011, kunye noJulayi 7, 2011.