I-ADH ingaba nzima kuma-siblings; Nantsi indlela yokunceda
Ukuzala umntwana ngengxaki yokungena / ukungathandabuzeki kwempilo ( ADHD ) kunokufuna umonde omkhulu kunye nokuqonda kumzali, kodwa kuthiwani ngabantakwabo? Ukuba nomzalwana okanye udade nge-ADHD kunokuba ngumceli mngeni.
Abantwana banokuhlangabezana nazo zonke iintlobo zeemvakalelo zokuhlala kunye nomntakwabo ene-ADHD. Basenokuziva bexhalabile, bexhalabile, bexakeke ngokuziphatha kwabo babantwana babo.
Iintsuku ekhaya zingabonakala zixhala kwaye zingenakulinganiswa. Kungaba nomona ngabo bonke abazalwana babo abafumanayo. Iimpawu zokuziphatha ze-ADHD ziyakuchukumisa kwaye zihlakulele.
Iimfazwe, iingxabano kunye nokulwa kunokukhawuleza kubakho njengoko umntakwabo ongeyena-ADHD ufumanisa nzima ngakumbi ukugcina ukuzithiba kwaye unqabe ukuphendula ngendlela engalunganga yena ngokwakhe. Umntakwabo ongeyena-ADHD angaba nomsindo ukuba ulindeleke ukuba aziphathe kwaye angazibandakanyi ngendlela engafanelekanga. Unokuvakalelwa kukuba umntakwabo ufumana amathuba amaninzi okanye umvuzo ongaphezulu.
Abanye abantakwabo banokuthi bathathe uxanduva oluninzi, njengokwenza izinto ezongezelelweyo kubantwana babo kwizame zokuncedisa nokuphepha iingxabano baze bazive benomsindo kwaye bebuhlungu xa umntakwabo engavumi okanye avelise ukubonga. Basenokuzama ukuthabatha indima "yomntwana omhle," ukuzama ukugqibelela kuyo yonke into - inxaxheba ephambili kunye nengenangqiqo yokuthatha!
Kwezinye iintsapho aba bazalwana banokuphela beziva bengabonakali kwaye bengabalulekanga, bahoxise kwabanye baze bakwazi ukucela uncedo.
Ngezantsi zikho iingcebiso ezininzi zokunceda umntwana wakho ongeyena-ADHD ahlangabezane nomntakwabo kunye ne-ADHD.
Ukunceda abantakwabo
- Shedyuli rhoqo ngeyodwa kunye nomntwana wakho ongengowona-ADHD. Qinisekisa ukuba lo mntwana ufumana ingqwalasela elungileyo kunye nokunyusa yena (okanye yena) ufuna.
Makhe lo mntwana azi ukuba uyayiqonda inzima ukujongana nomntakwabo we-ADHD xa yena (okanye) ephethe ixesha elinzima lokulawula iimpawu ze-ADHD . Nika umntwana wakho indawo ekhuselekileyo yokuvota kwaye uve.
Sebenzisana nomntwana ongeyena-ADHD ukumnika ubuchule bokujongana ngokufanelekileyo neempembelelo ezinengxaki kwi-ADHD siblings. Ukuqhaqhaqhafaza, ukudlala indima kwaye usebenzise ezi zicwangciso zokuphatha ukwenzela ukuba iimpendulo ziqale ukuziva zizenzekelayo kwaye zendalo kumntwana wakho.
Yiba novelwano kunye nokuqonda kunye nomntwana ongeyena-ADHD xa enenkathazo yokusebenzisana nomntakwabo we-ADHD. Qonda ukuba kunokuba nzima ukuba umntwana wakho ongeyena-ADHD angamelana nokuzibamba ngokwakhe xa umzalwana wakhe we-ADHD ebandakanyeka ekuziphatheni.
Qinisekisa ukusekela ikhaya kwiindlela ze-ADHD ezinobungane (kunye nemithetho yezindlu ecacileyo nemiphumo, imizila ethile, ukujonga ngenyameko, ingxelo rhoqo, ininzi indumiso, njl.). Oku kunceda bonke abantwana kwaye kuyindlela efanelekileyo yokuncedisa umntwana wakho we-ADHD ukulawula iimpawu ezinzima.
> Umthombo:
> URussell Barkley. Ukunyanzelisa i-ADD: I-Guide Complete, Authoritative for Parents. Guilford Press. 2005.
> Patricia Quinn noKathleen Nadeau. Xa amaMom nabantwana beza. Iincwadi eziNzuzo. 2004.