Funda ukuxelela xa ukutshatyalaliswa kweempawu zokuxina
Abantwana kunye nabantwana abasakhulayo bangabonisa iimpawu zokudandatheka . Nangona kuqhelekile ukuba umntwana aqale ukukrazula kubazali bakhe aze achaze ngakumbi kunye noontanga njengoko efikelela ebusheni, ukuxothwa kwintlalo kunye nabahlobo kunye noontanga kunokuba ngumqondiso wento ethile.
Funda ukujonga iimpawu ze-telltale ezibonisa umntwana okanye intombazana ecinezelekileyo ngolu hlaziyo.
Kutheni abantwana abacinezelekileyo bangadlululwa
Abantwana abadandathekileyo banokuziva bengacatshangwanga, bekrakra , bangenanto okanye bangenathemba. Bangavakalelwa kukuba akukho mntu onokuyiqonda okanye oncede-ngoko kutheni bafanele bahlale behlala okanye bebe ngabahlobo?
Ukuba neenhlobo zokuthetha kunye nokuzithemba kucinga ukuba kunceda kakhulu emoyeni, ingakumbi kulabo bahluphekileyo. Ngaphandle kobudlelwano boluntu, abanye abantwana kunye nentsha banokuqala ukuziva benesizungu kwaye bengabikho, imivo emibini idla ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni yingozi yokuzibulala .
Ukongezelela, abantwana abadandathekileyo abanakho ukukwazi ukufumana injabulo kwimisebenzi yoluntu, njengesikolo, imisebenzi yeqela okanye ukuphuma kwentlalo. Ngoko, banokuphepha ezi meko.
UkuSuswa kweNtlalo kunye nezinye izifo
Ukuhoxiswa kwezenhlalakahle akuphelelanga ekudakaleni kwaye kucatshangelwa ukuba kudibaniswe nezinye izifo, ezifana nokuxhalaba, i- schizophrenia , kunye neengxaki ezithile zobuntu .
Nangona kunjalo, ukuhoxiswa kwezenhlalakahle kwafunyaniswa ukuba kukho uphawu oluhle lweengxaki zokudakumba kwabantwana abane- ADHD esebenzayo, ngokubhekiselele kwisifundo esazama ukwahlula ukuba yimaphi amanqaku ahlukunyeleyo amacala enkinga enkulu yokudakumba kwabantwana abanenkinga yokukhathazeka.
Yintoni ongayenza Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala ekhutshwa
Njengoko abantwana bahamba ngokubuntwaba kunye nobuntwaba, banokubetha ezinye iimvumba endleleni, kwaye abazali bahlala bebuza ukuba yiyiphi into evamile kwaye xa kufuneka bangenelele.
Okokuqala, thetha nomntwana wakho. Mhlawumbi wayenengxabano nomhlobo okanye ulwaphulo lokulahlekelwa ngumtshato ngokuzigcina ehamba ezimbalwa iintsuku. Oku kusenokusabela okwethutyana nokuqhelekileyo kwisiganeko esingathandekiyo.
Mhlawumbi ujongene nolunye ulwahlulo esikolweni ezifana nokuxhatshazwa. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba wayexoshwe kwiqela loluntu elaliqhelekileyo ngenxa yesizathu esithile. Iziganeko ezifana nalezi zingachaza ukuba kutheni umntwana wakho ubonakala ekhutshiswe kuluntu.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umhlala-phantsi wengane yakho ihlala kwiiveki ezingaphezu kweenyanga ezimbini, khuluma nomntwana wezingane okanye abanye ababonelela ngempilo yengqondo malunga nokuvavanya nokonyango . Qhagamshelana nomboneleli wonyango ngokukhawuleza ukuba iimpawu zakhe zikhula okanye zijongene:
- Iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo zokudakumba kwabantwana
- Iingcamango okanye izenzo zokuzilimaza okanye ukuzibulala
- Ukungakwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla okanye imisebenzi
ILizwi
Isicwangciso sonyango esiphumeleleyo sinokukunceda ukuxinezeleka kwengane yakho kwaye imbeke endleleni ukuze ujabule ebuntwaneni bakhe kunye nabo bajikelezayo. Musa ukulibala ukufumana unyango. Nika umntwana wakho uncedo olufunekayo lokugcina impilo engqondweni. Ukuba umntwana wakho okanye omnye umntu owaziyo unokuzibulala, qhagamshelana neNational Prevention Prevention Prevention 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255).
> Imithombo:
> Ukuxinezeleka nokuzibulala kwabantwana kunye nentsha. Impilo Yengqondo: Ingxelo Yogqirha Jikelele.
> Abantwana kunye nabantwana abakhulileyo bafumana njani ukuxinezeleka? Isizwe seSizwe kwiMpilo yengqondo.
> URasim Somer Diler, MD, W. Burleson Daviss, MD, uAriana Lopez, MSc, BSc, et al. Ukuhlukana koxinzelelo olukhulu oluxakekileyo kwiintsha ngeentlupheko zokunqongophala kweengxaki. Umbhalo weengxaki ezichaphazelekayo. NgoSeptemba 2007. 102 (1-3): 125-130.