Amathuba kukuba ubuncinane enye ikhompyutha kunye nokufikelela kwi-intanethi ekhaya lakho, eliyisebenzisayo ngumntwana wakho ukuzonwabisa kunye nokufunda. Nangona unokuba uqaphele ngokubeka esweni ukusetyenziswa komntwana kunye nokukhawulela ukufikelela kumxholo ongafanelekanga, unokuba ungaqapheli ukuba ukuxhaphazwa kwe-intanethi - i-cyberbullying - inokuthi ivele nge-imeyile elula, imilayezo esheshayo okanye izithuba ezenziwe ngabanye.
Njengezinye iindlela zokuxhatshazwa, iimiphumo ezinzima ezifana nokudandatheka kunye neengcinga zokuzibulala kunye nokuziphatha ziye zaxhunywa kwi-cyberbullying, ngokutsho kukaDkt. Jeff Hutchinson, onguchwepheshe wezonyango eWashington, DC.
Ngethamsanqa, ukuqonda kwakho nokulinda kunokugcina umntwana wakho ukhuselekile kwi-cyberbullying.
Indlela Ukuxhatshazwa Kwentlupheko kuchaphazela njani abantwana
Amaxhoba e-cyberbullying anokufumana iimpawu zokudandatheka, kuquka ukudakumba, ukuzodwa, ukungaqiniseki, ukuzithemba, ukuhla kwezemfundo, iimvakalelo zokungabikho kunye nokuzibulala nokuziphatha. U-Nancy Willard, umbhali we- Cyberbullying and Cyberthreats: Ukuphendula Umngeni we-Intanethi yokuThuthukiswa kweNtlalo, iNsongelo kunye nokuPhathwa kweNtlupheko , ubonisa ukuba iimpembelelo ze-cyberbullying zingabangela ukonakalisa ukwedlula ukuxhatshazwa esikolweni ngenxa yokuba abantwana abanama-cyberbullied abanalo ithuba lokubalekela ukuxhatshazwa . Ngenxa yobume obungabonakali bokuxhatshazwa kwe-intanethi, amaxhoba angenakukwazi ukuchonga abahlukumezayo kwaye banomuvo wokuthi wonke umntu ulwa nabo.
Ziyintoni Eziqhelekileyo Ukuxhatshazwa Kweengxabano?
UDkt. Michele Ybarra kunye nabalingane bakhe banyathelisa isifundo kwi-intanethi yokuhlukumeza phakathi kwabantwana kwi- Pediatrics ngo-2007; malunga ne-9% yabantwana ekufundeni kwabo abasebenzisa i-Intanethi babeyixhoba lenye indlela yokuhlukunyezwa kwe-Intanethi.
Ekuqhutyweni kwabo, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba kuphela ihafu yamaxhoba ayazi ukuba bahlukumeza kwaye abafana kunye namantombazana babandakanyeka ngokufanayo.
Phantse i-25% yabantwana abaye baxhaswa nge-cyberbullied baxhatshazwa kwimeko ehlukile. Okuthakazelisayo, bafumanisa ukuba iingxaki zokuxhatshazwa kwi-intanethi zanda kakhulu kulabo baxhaphaza abanye.
Ukuhlaselwa kwe-Cyberbully
Ukuhlaselwa kwe-Intanethi ngokukhawuleza kwenzeka xa umntu onokuxhaphaza ebonisa ukugqithisa komnye umntu ngokuthe ngqo nge-imeyile, umyalezo osheshayo, amagumbi okuxoxa okanye izithuba zodonga. Oku kungabelana nokugxeka amazwana kwiisongelo zobundlobongela emzimbeni.
Ukuxhaswa nge-Cyberbullying yiProxy
Ukuxhaswa nge-cyberbullying nge proxy kwenzeka xa umntu esebenzisa idilesi ye-imeyile yomntu okanye igama lomsebenzisi okanye udala i-akhawunti ye-imposter ukuhlukumeza ixhoba. Umxhaphazi unokuqhagamshelana nomntu ngamnye kwincwadi yakhe yee dilesi aze asasaze ubuxoki, imilayezo enenzondo, okanye abhengeze uqhagamshelwano okanye ulwazi lwakhe malunga nexhoba. Kwezinye iimeko, iiwebhusayithi ezinikezelwe ukuhlukumeza nokuhlamba umntu zenziwe. Kwimeko ye-cyberbullying by proxy, ixhoba lingenako ukuchonga ukuba ngubani ohlukumezayo.
Yintoni Abazali Bangayenza
Thetha nabantwana bakho malunga nokuziphatha kwe-Intanethi, kwaye uxoxe ngemiphumo yokusetyenziswa kakubi. Qaphela ukusetyenziswa komntwana kunye nexesha elichithwe kwi-intanethi. Ukugcina ikhompyutha kwindawo eqhelekileyo kunokunciphisa isilingo sokwenza umsebenzi ongalunganga.
UDkt. Parry Aftab, ugqwetha kunye nabantwana abasetyenziselwa ukusetyenziswa kwe-intanethi ngokukhuselekileyo, kubonisa ukucinga igama lomntanakho kwi-intanethi ukuqinisekisa ukuba ulwazi olubi okanye olungamanga alithunyelwanga, okanye ukuba umntwana wakho akaxhunyiwe kumxholo ohlukumezayo.
Ukuba ukuxhatshazwa, ukuxhatshazwa okanye ukusetyenziswa kakubi, kukwazisa iwebhusayithi okanye ulawulo lwenkqubo ngokukhawuleza ukuba ubone ukuba banokukunceda ukuqalisa uphando kweso siganeko. Qhagamshelana namapolisa ukuba umntwana wakho uthintana naye okanye uxhatshazwa ngumntu omdala, ukuba kukho nayiphi na isongelo kumntwana wakho, okanye ukuba iinzame zokumisa ukuhlukunyezwa ziye zahluleka.
Ukwazisa isikolo somntwana wakho malunga nokusebenzisa i-cyberbullying kunokusebenza ngempumelelo xa umntu onokuxhaphazwa.
Ukuba ubona iimpawu zokudandatheka kumntwana wakho, qhagamshelana nodokotela wakhe. Ugqirha unokukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho unenkxwaleko kwaye uncomela unyango olufanelekileyo.
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