Umxholo obonakalayo wephupha ngumxholo wangempela kunye nomxholo wephupha. Oku kudla ngokuthelekiswa nento ekubhekiswa kuyo njengento efihliweyo okanye intsimi efihliweyo yephupha.
Ngokomzekelo, cinga ukuba unephupha elicacileyo ukuba uphuma kwiwindow yakho yokulala uze ujikeleze kwisixeko sakho. Iimpawu, izandi, kunye nomxholo wephupha ngumxholo wobonakaliso.
Isitoliki sephupha sinokubonisa ukuba iphupha lakho libonakalisa umnqweno ofihliweyo wokufuna inkululeko kwimpilo yakho yemihla ngemihla. Le ntsi ngiselo engumxholo wephupha uyaziwa njengomxholo osiweyo .
Uqwalasele ngokugqithiseleyo iindidi ezimbini zeengxolo
Ngokutsho kwengqondo ye-psychoanalyst uSigmund Freud , umxholo wembali wephupha uquka imifanekiso, iingcamango, kunye nomxholo okwenziwe kwiphupha. Umxholo wembonakalo yimiba yephupha okhumbuzayo xa uvuse.
Kwincwadi yakhe ethi Interpretation of Dreams , uSigmund Freud wacebisa ukuba umxholo wamaphupha unxulumene nokufuna ukuzaliseka . UFrud wayekholelwa ukuba umxholo wobonakaliso wephupha, okanye imifanekiso engokoqobo kunye neziganeko zephupha, wakhonza ukuguqula umxholo osiweyo okanye unqwenela umnqweno.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uphupha ukuba uxoshwa ngesidalwa esisiqhumayo kwizitrato ezimnyama zedolophu engaqhelekanga, loo nto yayiza kuba ngumxholo wobonakaliso wephupha.
Yiyiphi iphupha enokuthi lithetha, okanye ukutolika kwentsingiselo yalo, kuya kuthathwa njengento ephucukileyo. Kule meko, umhlalutyi wephupha angaphakamisa ukuba umxholo wobonakaliso wephupha lakho ubonisa ukuba usebenza kwinto ethile ebomini bakho okanye ukhathazekile ngenguqu ezayo ebomini bakho.
Indlela Ingqondo Edibanisa Ngayo Ingqiqo
Ngoko kutheni umxholo ophucukileyo wephupha uphela ufihliwe ngumxholo wendalo? UFrud wayekholelwa ukuba ingqondo engenangqondo yayineenkanuko, izibongozo kunye neengcamango ezingavumelekanga kwengqondo . Ezi zinokubandakanya izikhumbuzo ezibuhlungu, iiminqweno ezifihlakeleyo, okanye izibongozo ezingavumelekanga zentlalo ezinokubangela uxinzelelo ukuba zaziswa.
Njengoko ukhumbuza, uFrud wayekholelwa ukuba amaphupha asebenza njengendlela yokuzaliseka kwenqweno. Ekubeni asinakukwazi ukwenza izinto ezinqwenelekayo ebomini bethu, siyakwazi ukuvavanya ezi mphupha ngamaphupha. Nangona kunjalo, sivame ukwenza oku kufihliweyo, iifom zefayile. NgokukaFrud, ingqondo isebenzisa inamba yezicwangciso ezahlukeneyo zokujonga umxholo ophucukileyo wephupha. Ngokugxininisa izifiso ezingenanto kunye nokuziguqula kwi-content content, sinokuzihlola iingcamango zethu ezifihliweyo ngendlela ekhusela i-ego kwixhala.
Ngokomzekelo, cinga umntu omtsha waqala ukusebenza eofisi yakho. Wonke umntu ubonakala ethanda lo mntu, kodwa uziva unengqondo engaqhelekanga yokungahambi. Ngobunye ubusuku, uphupha ukuba umqeshi omtsha osebenza naye uyamthiya kwaye uphuma endleleni yakhe yokuchitha inzame kwaye usebenze ngenjongo yokukukhupha.
Kulo phupha, usasaza inkohliso engeyonyani ngawe kwiofisi kwaye uqale uthabathe inkokhelo ngomsebenzi wakho. Nangona iphupha licaca lucinezelekile, alubonakali ngokuqinisekileyo izenzo zontsebenziswano. Iziganeko zephupha zimelela umxholo wendalo, kodwa ngokucacileyo into enye emva kweli phupha eliqhelekileyo nelesabisayo.
UFrud unokubonisa ukuba usebenzisa isicwangciso sengqondo esaziwa njengesilungele ukuguqula iimvakalelo zakho zokwenene malunga nomsebenzi omtsha. Le ndlela yokukhusela ibandakanya ukufaka iimvakalelo zakho komnye umntu. Ukunyaniseka kukuba awuyithandi kakhulu loo mlingani-ntsebenziswano omtsha, kodwa uyaqonda ukuba le mvakalelo ayikwabelwanga ngabaphathi bakho kwaye iza kuthathwa njengabantu abangamkelekanga.
Ngoko endaweni yoko uvelise le mvakalelo kumsebenzi osebenza naye, uphupha ukuba uyakuzonda xa kunjalo ngokwenene ngenye indlela. Ngokwenza oku, ungazihlola iimvakalelo zakho ezingenakuqonda ngendlela ebonakalayo eyamkelekileyo.
Ezinye iindlela eziqhelekileyo ukuba iingqondo ezicatshulwayo ziqulethe ukuhamba, ukubonakaliswa, ukulinganisa, kunye nokunciphisa.
> Imithombo:
Freud, S. (1900). Ukutolika kweeNkanuko.