Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukhula komntu. UFriedrich Nietzsche ucatshulwa esithi, "Oko kungasibulali kusenza sibe namandla," kwaye oku kunokuba yinyaniso. Kodwa imingeni ephantse isitshabalalise asiyiyo yodwa indlela yokuphuhlisa umntu.
Ukubeka iinjongo zokuphuhliswa kwakho siqu kungabonakala ngendlela ephumelelayo (kunye neyokuxininisa) yokukhula emoyeni nangengqondo.
Ukubeka iinjongo ezinokukunceda ukuba uphumelele njengomntu ngeendlela ezibalulekileyo kuwe kunokukunceda ukuba uhlalutye ubomi bakho, unciphise uxinzelelo, kwaye ube ngumntu oye wenzelwe ukuba ube nako ixesha elingaphantsi. Banokukunceda ukuba uhlale ukhaliphe ngengqondo njengoko umfundi onokuphila anokukuxelela.
Iinjongo ezifanele ukuhamba emva
Ukukhula komntu siqu kuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abahlukeneyo, kodwa ezi njongo zilandelayo zinokukunceda kakhulu ekudaleni ubomi obuzaliswe nemikhwa enempilo , yolonwabo olukhulu kunye nenjongo ebomini .
Funda okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe
Sonke sinamagugu enxalenye ebalulekileyo yintoni esiyiyo. Kwabanye abantu, ibonakaliso lobugcisa liyinxalenye ebalulekileyo kubani, kwaye bahamba bhetele ngakumbi xa bakha, ubuncinane ixesha elithile, ebomini babo. Kwabanye, ukuncedisa abanye yinto ekufuneka bayenze, kwaye intsingiselo ebenza kubo kunye nabanye yintoni eyenza ubomi buxabiseke.
Abanye kufuneka bazisombulule iingxaki zokuziva bephila.
Isizathu sokuba kubalulekile ukuqonda oku kukuba abantu abaninzi bazalise ixesha labo ngezinto ezibalulekileyo kodwa abahambelani nexabiso labo, kunye nezinto abazixabisa kakhulu ebomini. Ukuba uhlalutya oko kubalulekile kuwe, unokusekela iinjongo zokuqinisekisa ukuba wenze le nxalenye enkulu yobomi bakho.
Ukukhomba apho Uzinqanda khona
Abantu abaninzi bazihlamba ngendlela enye ngaphandle kokuyiqonda. Mhlawumbi awukholelwa ukuba unokukwazi ukufezekisa izinto ofuna ukuzifezekisa ngokwenene, kwaye uzikhawuleze ungazami. Mhlawumbi awuvumelekanga ukuba unikele ixesha elaneleyo kwiinjongo zakho kuba ufumana ezinye izinto kwishedyuli yakho engabalulekanga kodwa ukuba ufanele ukuba "kufuneka". Mhlawumbi uchithe ixesha elininzi kwiidibano zentlalo kwaye akwanele ekulandeleni oko kubalulekile kuwe ebomini.
Enye indlela yokufumanisa ukuzihlawulela okuzifihlakeleyo kukugxila ekuhlaleni imihla ngemihla ngokungathi ibaluleke kakhulu kwimpumelelo yakho ebomini. Ngaba konke okwenzayo kubalulekile, kwaye unomdla kwimpumelelo yakho? Ukuba ujonga izinto ngokusebenzisa le lensi, kulula ukufumanisa imithombo yamanzi kunye nabaphathi bexesha, kunye nezo zinto ezikukhuselayo.
Ukunyamekela Impilo Yakho
Xa impilo yakho ithatyathwa, kunzima kakhulu ukugxila kwiinjongo zakho ebomini. Oku kuyinyaniso xa ijongene neemeko zempilo ezinzulu, kodwa kunjalo kunjalo neentlobo ezincinci zempilo.
Ngokomzekelo, uninzi lwethu luziva luxineke ngakumbi kwaye alukho kakuhle xa singenalo ubuthongo obaneleyo ngobusuku obuthile kumqolo okanye sidle ukutya okungenampilo iintsuku ezimbalwa.
Ukugxininisa ekunyamekelweni kwempilo yakho kungenza impembelelo enkulu ebomini bakho bonke.
Sebenzisa Ixesha Lakho Ngokuhlakanipha
Ulawulo lwexesha luyinjongo ebalulekileyo ngokwayo. Xa ulawula ixesha lakho ngokuhlakanipha, unamandla amakhulu kunye nokukwazi ukuqhuba ezinye izinto ebomini ebalulekileyo kuwe. Ulawulo lwexesha lwenza ukuba ukwandise ixesha elichithwe kwimisebenzi ekunika ukutya, kukukhuthaza, kwaye kukunceda ukuba uhlakulele njengomntu.
Ukuphuhlisa enye iHlabathi inyanga
Ngeke ukwazi ukuguqula kwiiveki ezimbalwa, kodwa ukugxila kakhulu ekudaleni imikhwa emitsha rhoqo kunokuguqulwa kwiinyanga eziliqela okanye iminyaka.
Iqhinga kukufumana umkhwa wokwenza imikhwa. Gxininisa ubuninzi bamandla akho ekwenzeni into entsha into ebalulekileyo yobomi bakho , uze uhambe xa ukhululekile nalo. Eli lixesha lokudala umkhuba omtsha.
Zizungeze ngeModeli YemiSebenzi
Yiba nomhlobo omnye nje ohamba phambili endleleni othemba ngayo ukuhamba. Abaqeqeshi boBomi babhekisela kula bantu ngokuthi "ngabahlobo beengcali" kwaye banokuguqula ubomi njengoko baya kuba neengcebiso kunye nokuphefumlelwa onokuyithatha nje ngokuzijonga. Ngalaba bahlobo, ukubukela kuya kwenza. Oku kuxhaswa yinkcazo yokufunda yentlalo , ichaza indlela eyenza izinto zibe lula xa unomhlobo ukuncedisa endleleni.
Ukuphuhlisa iqela elixhasayo
Ukusebenzisa ukukhula kweqela kunokukunceda ukuba ufikelele kwiinjongo zakho. Oku kungenxa yokuba uxinzelelo lwabaontanga lunokuba yimpembelelo enamandla, ngoko ke ukuyisebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo kunobulumko. Ukuba nabantu abanokukuvuyisa xa uphumelela kwaye kukunceda ukuba uzive ungcono xa ulahlekelwa yinto enokuyenza yonke impazamo kunye nempumelelo yakho.
Ngelishwa, akubona bonke abahlobo abakwazi ukukuxhasa ngale ndlela. Abanye abantu bavakala ukuba nomona xa abahlobo babo bephumelela kakhulu,. Ngoko ukuba ubona umhlobo engaphantsi kokuxhaswa xa ufinyelela injongo (kwaye uye wawaxhasa), unokufuna ukuphepha nje ukwabelana ngempumelelo yakho kunye nalo mhlobo kwaye uqhubele phambili kubahlobo abavuyisayo ngokwenene impumelelo yakho kwaye uyakwazi ukukuxhasa xa ungaphumeleli ngendlela onokuthanda ngayo.
Khumbula ukuba lohlobo lomhlobo ngokunjalo. Enye ingcinga enkulu kukufumana iqela sele ligxile kwiinjongo ozama ukuzenza. Uza kunika inkxaso, inzondelelo kunye neengcebiso ezifanelekileyo.
Funda into entsha Ngenyanga nganye (okanye ngonyaka)
Ukuzikhusela ngokuzenzekelayo kuthatha ingqalelo. Ukufunda ulwimi olutsha, umzekelo, okanye ukuphuhlisa isakhono esitsha kunokuthatha ixesha, kwaye ugxininisa ubuninzi bamandla akho ekuzibopheleleni ekuphinjweni kwenjongo yindlela enkulu yokufikelela kuyo. Oku kulungile xa ufuna ukunyaniseka ngokubanzi nolwazi lwakho kunye nolwazi .
Landela umonde wakho
Akukufanele uqhubekele izinto zokuzilibazisa njengengqesho ukuze uhlolisise ngokupheleleyo. Kuyamangalisa ukuba unokwenza imali ukwenza oko uyithandayo, kodwa akufanele ube ngumsebenzi wokuba ufanele ixesha lakho. Imisebenzi enjengale ikuvumela ukuba ube nemvakalelo "yokugeleza," okunokwandisa amanqanaba akho yolonwabo nokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Oku kuthetha ukuba uya kuba neenzuzo ngaphaya kokufunyanwa kwexesha elitsha.
Indlela yokugcina iinjongo
Ukuchonga iinjongo zokuhamba emva kweyona nto ibalulekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokuqhuba iinjongo zakho. Kukho amaqhinga ambalwa okugcina iinjongo okanye ukuthatha imikhwa enempilo.
- Beka iinjongo ezifanelekileyo
- Thatha amanyathelo amancinci, amanyathelo
- Zizuze ngendlela
- Cinga nge-slip-ups ukuba yinxalenye yenkqubo
Ukugcina iinjongo kungabandakanyeka ngakumbi kunjalo, kodwa le yinkqubo eyintloko. Ubuninzi babantu abazama ukubeka iinjongo zokukhula ngokwabo bavame ukuwashiya ngenxa yokuba babeka iinjongo zabo eziphezulu (okanye iinjongo ezingafanelekanga zokuphila kwabo), zama ukuzenza utshintsho olukhulu ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu, bavuyisele ngokwenza inkqubela kwiinjongo zabo, kwaye bayeke xa benesiphelo. Impumelelo yangempela ivela ekuphuleleni iinjongo zakho ukuya kumanyathelo amancinci, ukuvuyisa inkqubela yakho kwaye, mhlawumbi kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuzama kwakhona xa ufumanisa ukuba uphume.
Ukubeka iinjongo zobuqu ezinokuphucula ubomi bakho, kwaye ukuzinamathela kuzo kunokukunceda uphile ubomi obunethemba lokuba nalo.