Ulawulo olukhulu loxinzelelo lujolise ekuphepheni uxinzelelo , ukujongana nempendulo yomzimba kwixinzelelo , nokufunda iindlela zokusebenza ngokuphumelelayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphucula imikhuba enempilo yokwakha ukunyamezeka kwengqondo kunokunyusa ukongiwa kwemvakalelo yakho kwaye kukunikeze amandla okwazi ukujamelana neengcinezelo ozijamelana nazo ebomini. Izicwangciso zokuzinakekela ezifana nokufumana ubuthongo obaneleyo kunye nokuzityhalela ngeenethiwekhi zabahlobo banokwenza impembelelo enkulu kwiindlela ozenzayo xa uxinzelelekileyo, ukukunceda ukuba usebenze ngokusemandleni akho kwaye uphumelele ngokukhawuleza. Ukudala amava amava kunye nokuziva iimvakalelo ezintle ebomini bakho nako kunokwenza impembelelo yangempela.
I-Psychological Positive yisebe yeengqondo ezenza uphapheme ngokwabo, izinto ezenza sibe nolonwabo kwaye sizalisekise, kwaye ngokwenene, oko kwenza ubomi bufaneleke. Le ntsimi iye yazisa uphando oluthembisa ukuba lunokusikhomba kwindlela ekufuneka sichithe ngayo ixesha lethu ukuba sifuna ukuvuya , ukwakha ukuzinza, nokulawula ukunyamezeleka. Uphando malunga nokubaluleka kokuphila okunambithekayo kucacile: akusiyo nje ingcamango eyonwabileyo, kunokuzisa inzuzo yangempela.
Abo banandipha amava abo bangakwazi ukunxulumanisa intsingiselo kubo, baqaphele iinqununu zesilivere phakathi kwamafu amnyama, kwaye nandipha le minqwenga yesilivere ngokupheleleyo. Ukugcina iphephandaba lokubonga nokuphuhlisa indawo yangaphakathi yokulawula kunokukunceda ukwandise amandla akho okuzonwabisa amava amahle, kwaye ufumane intsingiselo ebomini.
Funda ukuze ufunde indlela yakho yangaphambili idlala ngayo kwizinto, nendlela yokwenza uninzi lwayo.
I-1 - Yamkela Ixesha Lakho Elidlulileyo
Unokonwaba ngobomi ngokuvuma imbali yakho yangaphambili kwaye usebenzisa ezo zihlandlo ukudala ubomi obulungele ubomi bakho. Ngokuphulukisa okudlulileyo kunye nokugcoba iinkumbulo zakho ezilungileyo, unako ukwandisa ixesha lakho elidlulileyo ukuze ujabulele ubomi ngakumbi okwangoku. Ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo zinokukunceda ufumane ubomi obuninzi kwaye usebenzise ixesha lakho elidlulileyo njenge-springboard:
- Khumbula Uze Ukhumbule : Ukukhumbula iinkumbulo zakho ezimnandi kunokunceda ukuzisa okulungileyo kwixesha elidlulileyo kwixesha langoku. Hamba ngaphaya nje kokukhumbula izinto ezintle ezenzekile, kwaye ucinge ngezo zonke iinkcukacha. Yiva indlela ozive ngayo ngexesha elihle. Khangela indlela ezo ziganeko ezintle ezinokuthi zifane ngayo kumaxesha amahle aqhubekayo namhlanje.
- Yabelana Ngezikhumbuzo : Unokuzisa iingcinga zakho ezintle ngokuzixoxa nabanye. Ukukhumbuza kunye nabathandekayo ngeenkumbulo owabelana ngazo. Tshela abanye amabali akho amnandi, kwaye ujonge ukuva. Yaye ungakulibali ukunandipha okwenzekayo ngoku , ukuze ukwazi ukulikhumbula kwikamva.
- Ukufunda kwakhona iiNdaba zamaDala endala : Ukuba ungumntu oye wagcina ii-journals kwixesha elidlulileyo, unokonwabela ngokuphinda ufunde kwakhona ngoku, ngokukodwa ukuba ngaba iincwadi zokubonga. Unokufumana imemori ecacileyo yamaxesha amahle, kwaye kuya kuba neendlela ezintsha zokuqonda njengoko ucinga malunga nexesha elidlulileyo ngokusebenzisa i-lens yento oyaziyo ngoku. Nantsi indlela endiyifumana ngayo ukuzonwabisa ngokufunda iphepha elidala lokubonga.) Le fomu ekhethekileyo yokuxhuma kwi-yakho yangaphambili eyakho inokukunceda ukuba uqonde nakwizinto eziqhelekileyo, ngaphandle koko ukhohliweyo iinkcukacha zobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, kwaye ujonge oko kuhamba ebomini bakho ngoku.
- Ukuhamba kwiiNkcazo zemiSebenzi yangaphambili : Enye yeenzuzo zokupapashwa kukuba kunokukunceda ukuba uphinde uhlolisise imicimbi kwixesha elidlulileyo. Unokukhetha iindawo ezidlulileyo eziye zazisa uxinzelelo, kwaye uzihlolisise kwiphepha lakho, ukuze ufumane imboniselo entsha ngoku. Xa uzama ukuguqula umbono wakho kwizinto ezintle, unokwazi ukubheka kwiimeko zeemeko ezifana nokukhula okungenzeka kukulethe, iziganeko ezihle ezinokuthi ziphume kwizinto ezimbi, kunye nempumelelo efanisayo ngoku. Ngaloo ndlela, unako ukuhambelana neengxenye zakho zangaphambili eziye zahlala zikukhathazayo, kwaye zenze iikhumbuzo ezingcono kunabo owakhumbula ngaphantsi kokuthanda.
- Makuye kwiiNkcazo ezidlulileyo: Njengoko uhlolisisa lakho elidlulileyo, ungathatha amathuba okubaxolela abo ungaba nomsindo okanye imiba engaphendululwanga. Ukuxolela akusoloko kulula, kodwa kuzisa iinzuzo ngakumbi kumntu oxolela ngakumbi kunabo abafumana ukuxolelwa. Ukubambelela kwixesha elidlulileyo kunokuba ngumthwalo onzima, kwaye usebenze kuwo, mhlawumbi ngoncedo lweengcebiso zokuxolela ezinjengalezi okanye onguchwepheshe, unokukhululeka.
2 - Uvuyo lobomi ngokuvuma i-Present
Kwimfuno yokunandipha ubomi, ayikho ixesha elinjengoku. Ukuzonwabisa ubomi ngokumnandi okwenzekayo kumzuzu wangoku mhlawumbi indlela elula kunye neyona ndlela ilula kakhulu yokufumana ezininzi kwiimeko zakho zangoku kwaye ujonge ubomi ngokuzeleyo. Ezi ngcebiso kunye nezixhobo ezilandelayo ziyakunceda ukuba ungene kwiindawo ezinamava akho okwangoku anokuzisa uvuyo olukhulu.
- Ziqhelise Ingqiqo : Ukusebenza kwengqondo kukubandakanya ukugxila ingqalelo kwixesha elikhoyo. Oku kunokwenziwa ngendlela yokucamngca, okanye kunokubandakanya ukuqonda okuphakamileyo kwimiva kunye namava njengoko uqhuba imisebenzi yansuku zonke. Funda kabanzi malunga neenzuzo zokukhumbula kunye nendlela yokucamngca ngengqondo , kwaye wenze le nto ibe yinto ebalulekileyo yobomi bakho.
- Hlakulela Ukubulela: Ukuvakalelwa ngezinto ezilungileyo ebomini kunokudala uvuyo olungakumbi. Unokwandisa iimvakalelo zakho zokubulela ngokubonga abantu ngokuqhelekileyo, ukugcoba umzuzu wamanje , nokugcina iphepha lokubonga. Jonga ezi ngcebiso malunga nokuhlamba umbulelo ngamasu amaninzi asebenzayo.
- Fumana Iimnandi Ezininzi Kwizinto Eziphilayo : Iingcali zengqondo ziye zachonga imisebenzi eyenza imizwa ephawuleza ngokukhawuleza njengenjabulo "kwaye iyakwazi ukuphakamisa ngokukhawuleza imvakalelo. Nantsi ingakumbi kwimiba yolonwabo, kunye nendlela yokufumana izinto ezinandiphayo ebomini.
- Ukuhleka ngakumbi kunye novuyo lobomi : Ukufumana ukuhleka, ukuzonwabisa, kunye nexesha kunye nabahlobo bakho ebomini bakho kuyindlela eqinisekileyo yokwandisa ukuzonwabisa kwakho kwimihla ngemihla.
3 - Yenza ikusasa elinenjongo
Isinyathelo esibalulekileyo sokugqibela ekufundeni indlela yokonwabela ubomi kukufunda ukwenza ikusasa elinenjongo elibandakanya iimpawu zakho, kubonisa izinto eziphambili, kwaye kubandakanya imisebenzi eyenza ujabule ebomini. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu bayazifumana bezisebenza nzima, kodwa bangafumani apho bafuna ukuba khona, okanye bafumanisa ukuba iinjongo zabo azibaniki iimvakalelo ezintle abacinga ukuba ziya kuzizisa. Ezi zixhobo zingakunceda ukuba ungene kwizinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe , zibeke izinto eziphambili , kwaye wenze ikusasa lakho eliya kukunandipha. Ukuba uzibuza ukuba ungonwabela njani ubomi, ugxile kwizinto eziza kukunwabile ngokwenene, kwaye ufumane uvuyo kwimihla ngemihla, isicwangciso esisebenzayo.