Amanani ahlaziyiweyo emva kwe-Adolescent Suicides and Attempts
Ngokwe-American College Health Association (ACHA) izinga lokuzibulala kubantu abadala, eliphakathi kweminyaka eyi-15-24, liye laphindaphindwa kathathu ukususela ngo-1950 kwaye ukuzibulala okwangoku kubangelwa yimbangela yesibili yokufa kwabafundi beekholeji. Aba bantu abaselula bahlala besuka kwikhaya nabangane okokuqala. Bahlala nabantu abangaziwayo, kude neenkqubo zabo zokuxhasa, kunye nokusebenza phantsi kwengxinzelelo enzulu-ngokuphazamisa ukulala, ukutya kunye nokusebenzisa iipateni.
Awunakuyivelisa ubunzulu obunxinzeleko, ngakumbi xa uxinzelelo okanye ezinye iinkalo zempilo yengqondo zingena emfanekisweni. Nantsi i-snapshot yezibalo ezinobungozi kwiikholeji zeekholeji kunye nemizamo yokuzibulala kwentsha, kunye neyiphi iikholeji ezenzayo ukunceda.
Inombolo ejongayo
Ukuzibulala phakathi kwamantombazana aneminyaka eyi-15 ukuya kwe-19 kuphinda kabili ukusuka ngo-2007 ukuya ku-2015, xa ifikelele kwindawo ephakamileyo kwiminyaka engama-40.
Inani lokuzibulala kubafana abaneminyaka eli-15 ukuya kwe-19 banda ngamaphesenti angama-30 ukususela ngo-2007 ukuya ku-2015.
- Amadoda amabini amaninzi, aphakathi kweminyaka engama-20 ukuya ku-24, ayazibulala, xa kuthelekiswa nabasetyhini abaselula. Ngomntwana, oneminyaka eyi-17 ukuya kweye-19, umlinganiselo uphelelwa ngakumbi, ngokuzibulala kuthiwa phantse amahlanu ngamaqela amantombazana.
- Izinto ezinobungozi obongeziweyo zibandakanya iziganeko ezibuhlungu okanye ezixinzelelekileyo zobomi; yokuzama ukuzibulala; umqondo wokuzihlalisa kunye nokungabi ncedi; imiba yokungakhuselekanga; imiba yokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi; izakhono zokuhlukumeza; kunye nokufikelela kwindlela yokuzibulala.
- Amadoda amancinci amaxesha ethu okufa ngokuzibulala kunabantwana abaselula. Nangona kunjalo, kwinqanaba elifanayo, amabhinqa angaphezu kwamadoda ukuba azame ukuzibulala.
Yintoni okumele ijonge kunye nokukhusela
- Imiqondiso yokuxwayisa iquka iingxaki zemfundo, ukuxinezeleka, ukuguquka kwemizwelo, ukuhoxiswa, ukuvalelwa yithemba, ukungaziboni ukubonakala komntu siqu, ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi ezandisiweyo, ukunyuka kweengozi kunye / okanye ukuphazamiseka kokufa.
- Izinto ezinokukunceda, ngokweengcebiso zempilo yengqondo kwiYunivesithi yase-Arizona State, zibandakanya: ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nabahlobo, intsapho, ubuchule okanye abasebenzi; izakhono zokuqina; imikhuba enempilo, kubandakanya ukulala ngokwaneleyo, ukutya kunye nokuzivocavoca umzimba; kunye nokufumana iinkonzo zempilo kunye neengcebiso ngokulula.
- Zonke iikholeji zandise iinkonzo zengcebiso zengqondo, kunye nokuzibulala kunye neenkqubo zokuqwashisa ukunyamekela kwiminyaka yamuva. Le mizamo iquka ukuqeqeshwa kwabahlali bee-dormitory - i-Cornell iye yaqeqesha abahlali be-dorm-custody-ukuba bajonge abafundi abahluphekileyo. Kwaye kwiinkampu ezininzi, ziye zandisa ngokunyanisekileyo iinkqubo zokunciphisa uxinzelelo ekuncedeni abafundi ukuba baphathe kwaye banciphise izinto ezixinzelelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba bangakwazi ukunyamezela.
Indlela Abazali Nentsapho Abanceda Ngayo Abantwana Abaxinzelelekileyo
- Hlalani nibandakanyeka nabafundi bakho besikolo esiphakeme kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Yiya kwimicimbi yabo yezemidlalo, imisebenzi kunye neminye imisebenzi. Thetha ootitshala kunye nobuchule xa uvakalelwa kukuba umsebenzi wabo wesikolo usiva, amabakala abo ahla okanye ayeke amaqela okanye imibutho kwi-campus.
- Hlalana nokuthintana nekholeji yakho. Abatshatsha ngokukhethekileyo bafuna ukwazi ukuba inkxaso yentsapho abathembele ngayo kubuntwaneni kusekho, nokuba kude. Sebenzisa nayiphi na indlela abakhululekile ngayo ukuthetha rhoqo-itekisi, ifowuni, ingxoxo ye-Facebook okanye i-Facetime.
- Ukuba ucinga ukuba ingxaki ibangela ukuba umntwana wakho okanye umntwana wekholeji ahlupheke, musa ukucima okanye ukusazela. Buza imibuzo evulekileyo, phulaphulaphula iimpendulo zabo, ilizwi labo kunye nekulungele ukwabelana nabo. Gwema ukugxeka, ukuthetha kakubi okanye ukungapheli.
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho okanye umntwana omdala ukuba athathe ixesha lokuzinyamekela, nokuba oko kuthetha ukufunda incwadi enhle, ukubukela i-movie okanye ukuthatha i-nap nsuku zonke. Thumela iiphakheji zokunyamekela enempilo kwiziko lakho lekholeji kwaye uqinisekise ukuba izikolo zakho eziphakamileyo zidla ukutya okunomsoco kunye neentlanzi ezifumanekayo.
- Yabelana ngezinye zeengxaki obenayo xa uselula. Ukuthi "ndibe khona" kunokuthi kubekho umda phakathi kwentombazana yakho okanye intshukumo emdala yabantu evewe kwaye ibonwa kunye neengxaki ezingabonakaliyo. Baya kwenza njengokuba bengakhathali malunga nento oyithethayo okanye bangabonakali nantoni, kodwa baya kuwuva.
- Ukujonga umsebenzi wabo weendaba zoluntu ukuba kufanelekile ukuba wenze njalo. Oku kubhekiselele kubancinci abaselula abangenakukwazi ukuqonda impembelelo yengqondo enokuthi i-media media ifumaneke kubo, kubandakanya ukuqhubela i-cyberbullying, iimvakalelo zokungafaneleki nokufumanisa ukuba baye bakhankanywa kwimisebenzi yentlalo. Izifundo zibonise ulungelelwano oluchanekileyo phakathi kokunyuka kokusetyenziswa kweendaba zoluntu kunye nokunyuka kwengcinezelo yabantwana.