Ukwenza isicwangciso soBomi kubalulekile - kwaye kulula kunokuba ungacinga
Ngaba uye wakha waziva ukuba ufuna ukucima ezinye iingcinezelo ebomini bakho, usebenzise okunye, okanye utshintshe ukutya kwakho? Okanye ungathanda ukudala utshintsho olubalulekileyo ebomini bakho njengokwenza umsebenzi wokutshintsha umsebenzi okanye ukungena (okanye ngaphandle) nolwalamano? Abantu abaninzi banezinto abangathanda ukutshintsha kuzo ebomini babo kwiindawo zokuxinwa kwengcinezelo kunye nokuphila kakuhle, kwaye bazibuze indlela yokwenza isicwangciso sobomi .
Sisoloko singenzi ukwenza utshintsho ngenxa ye-inertia, ukungabikho kokugxila, okanye ezinye izinto; Ukutshintsha ubomi kubonakala kulula ukuphupha kunokuba kwenziwe. Ngokudala isicwangciso esithile senkqubo kwaye uyilandele, inkqubo yakho iya kuba lula kwaye ingaphantsi koxinzelelo kwaye amathuba akho okuphumelela aya kuba mkhulu kakhulu. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uphume, uvele uphinde uzame kwakhona. Nazi iindlela ezinokuthi zisebenzise ukuthatha isitoreji ebomini bakho kwaye ziqalise kwisicwangciso esitsha sokuphila.
Khangela oko akusebenziyo
Xa uqikelela indlela yokwenza isicwangciso sobomi, kunceda ukwazi oko ufuna ukutshintsha, kwaye kwiziphi iinkalo zobomi bakho. Nanku apho kusiza ukuphuma kwiphepha uze uhlole indawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakho. Oku kungenziwa kwifom yefom, ifomu elandelwayo, eyenziwe njengemephu yengqondo, okanye kwenye ifomathi, kodwa kufuneka ibhekiselele kwiindawo zobomi ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Kubantu abaninzi, oko kuthetha umsebenzi, intsapho, impilo, iimali, ezinye iindawo zokuxinezeleka, kunye neendawo zasemakhaya.
Cinga ngezinto ezixabisekileyo ngayo ebomini, kwaye uvavanye indlela ezo ndawo zisebenza ngayo ngoku.
Hlola iimilinganiselo zakho
Xa wenza isicwangciso sobomi, kufuneka usebenze malunga neenqobo zakho - oko kubalulekile kuwe, kwaye yintoni othemba ukuyigcina ebomini bakho. Ngaba uyayixabisa intsapho, kodwa uzenze uchithe ixesha elincinci kunye nosapho lwakho kuba usebenza ixesha elingaphezu kwexesha emsebenzini owamthiyo?
Ngaba uxabisa impilo, kodwa ufumanisa ukuba ukhangele kakhulu ithelevishini? Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu baquka imisebenzi ebomini babo abangenaxabiso kubo ngaphandle kokuyiqonda. Ukuze uqiniseke ukuba usebenzisa ixesha lakho ngokuhlakanipha, vavanya oko uxabisa kakhulu ebomini, kwaye uqaphele indlela oziphatha ngayo ngokubhekiselele kubonakaliso bala maxabiso kubomi bakho boqobo; qiniseka ukuba uquka imisebenzi ezalisekisa ezo zithethe.
Khangela kwiKamva
Njengoko wenza isicwangciso sobomi, kunceda ukucwangcisa kungekuphela kweenyanga kwixesha elizayo kodwa iminyaka. Ukujonga kwiimpawu zakho kunye nokucinga ngendlela ofuna ngayo iinyanga ezimbalwa ezizayo, unyaka kunye neminyaka emihlanu ukuba ube (de ukuya kwiminyaka elishumi!) Kwaye usebenze ngasemva unokucacisa ukuba yeyiphi inyathelo elizayo eliza kukunika umvuzo, kwaye unokukunceda sigqibo sokuba uza kufaka ixesha lakho. Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukusebenzela kwintsimi entsha, mhlawumbi ngoku yisikhathi sokwenza uxhumano kwaye ujonge amava osebenzayo onokuyifumana kwiiyure zakho; ungathatha amanyathelo amancinci wokwakha ukuba utshintshe olukhulu kwixesha elizayo.
Cwangcisa Iimpawu Zakho
Ukukhangela apho ungathanda khona, kwaye apho ukhona khona, unokuyiphula indlela esuka "apha" ukuya "khona" ukuya kumanyathelo amancinci, anokulawulayo ongayithatha kalula.
Ngale ndlela, unokukwazi ukufumana lula impumelelo ekwazi ukuqhubeka nokukhuthaza, unokujonga apho ungadinga ukutshintsha isicwangciso sakho njengoko uhamba, kwaye unokuhlala ubeka isinyathelo esinye phambi komnye kwaye uqhubeke phambili. (Jonga oku ngaphezulu malunga nokusekela iinjongo .)
Ukuphelisa iibhloko zeNdlela
Njengoko uceba amanyathelo okuqhubela phambili, hlaziya uluhlu lwakho "olungasebenziyo" kwaye ucinge ngento ekukubambelayo kwiinjongo zakho, ekubeni uziva uxinzelelo oluncinci , ekubeni uzive ukuba ufuna ukuphi. Emva koko wenze ukusika. Nciphisa izibophelelo, ubudlelwane, kunye nezinye iinkalo zobomi bakho ezikukhuphayo kwaye ezingekho mfuneko.
Ncipha into ongenakuyenza. Khangela zonke i "drain" njenge-trade-off - ngaba ufuna ezi zinto ebomini bakho, okanye ufuna ukukwazi ukuthatha amanyathelo kwizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe? Xa ubona ezi zigqibo ezibonakalayo, utshintsho lulula.
Hlela izakhiwo
Yenza iinkqubo ebomini bakho eziza kuxhasa ukutshintsha kwakho okufunwayo, ngoko ke akudingeki ukuba unikezele konke okusemandleni akho. Ukuba ufuna ukuqala ukusebenza ngokuqhelekileyo, funda i-gym, fumana umqeqeshi wokuzonwabisa, kwaye wenze inxalenye yeshedyuli yakho. Ukuba ufuna ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, zibophezele kwisenzo sokuphucula uxinzelelo rhoqo kwaye ungeze kwixesha lakho. Ukuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye neqabane lakho, qalisa ubusuku bomhla oqhelekileyo. Ukubeka izakhiwo ebomini bakho kukunceda ukuba ulandele kuloo nto, "Ndimele ndiqale ..." izicwangciso entlokweni yakho, kwaye zenze inxalenye yento oyiyo.
Fumana inkxaso eqhubekayo
Ukucela uncedo lwabanye ukuze uhlale ulandelelwano, ukunikezela imisebenzi enokukukhulula, nokuba usayinele iiflethi zamaphepha-ntanethi okanye ujoyine amaphepha eendaba ezentlalo kwisigxina soxinzelelo (njengalezo ezinikezelwa kule sayithi) iindlela zokufumana inkxaso kunye nezinguqu onokuthanda ukuzenza nokuzigcina ebomini bakho. Zibuze ukuba iziphi izixhobo ozifunayo ukwenza izicwangciso zakho zinyamekele, wenze okusemandleni akho ukufumana ezo zixhobo ebomini bakho. Hlola kunye nawe rhoqo ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ubambelela endleleni oyibeke ngayo kunye neenjongo zakho, kwaye ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uvumele ukuhamba kwezinye zezinto ozixabisayo, zikhokele ngenyameko kwindawo yokubeka oko xabisa kakhulu kwizenzo ebomini bakho. Yile ndlela yokwenza utshintsho luphelileyo.