Ukujonga ngokubanzi iintlobo zeengxaki zokuxhalaba eziqhelekileyo kubantwana
Ukuxhalabisa kuyingxenye evamile kwaye iyaqhelekileyo yobuntwana. Kwiimeko ezininzi, uxhalabisayo kwabantwana lusexeshana kwaye lunokubangelwa ngumcimbi othize. Umzekelo, umntwana omncinci unokufumana uxhalaba lokuhlukana xa eqala ukuya esikolweni okanye enkulisa. Okanye umntwana angabona i-movie eyoyikisayo okanye afunde malunga nesiganeko esibi kunye neengxaki zokulala.
Kwezinye iimeko, ke, ukuxhalabisayo kubantwana kunokuhlala kunzima kwaye kunokuphazamisana nemihla ngemihla yenkqubo yomntwana kunye nemisebenzi enjengokuya esikolweni, ukwenza abahlobo okanye ukulala.
Xa uxhalabisayo kubantwana luhlala luqhubeka kwaye lukhulu kwaye aluhambi kunye nokuqinisekiswa kunye noluthuzelo, lukwahlula njengengxaki yokuxhalabisa.
Iintlobo zeengxaki zokukhathazeka kwabantwana
Ukukhathazeka okuqhelekileyo. Abantwana abaye bafumana ingxaki yokukhathazeka , okanye i-GAD, bahlala behlala besaba, bexinzeleleka, kwaye banakho ukulawuleka ukwesaba malunga naliphi inani lezinto zansuku zonke ezifana namabakala, imiba yentsapho, ukwenza kakuhle kwimidlalo, ngexesha elifanelekileyo, okanye kwintlekele zemvelo. Abantwana abanenkinga yokuxhalabisa ngokubanzi banokuthi babe ngabaphelelisi. Basenokuba neengxaki zokulala, ukucaphuka, okanye ukufumana nzima ukugxila esikolweni.
Ingxaki yokuxhalabisa. Iintsana zihlala zifumana uxhalaba lokuhlukana xa umzali okanye umkhathaleli ephuma egumbini. Njengoko abantwana bekhulile baze baye kwiinkathalo zontanga, i-school school okanye i-kindergarten, banokuxhalabisa xa behlaselwa ngumama okanye uyise.
Ukuxhalabisa ngokuqhelekileyo kuya kuhamba njengoko abantwana bexhamla kummandla wabo omtsha kunye nomncedisi okanye utitshala. Kodwa nangona ngaphaya komntwana, umntwana unokufumana ingxaki yokuhlukana nomzali kwaye unokufumana uxinzelelo oluninzi okanye uxhalabisayo. Abafundi beBakala abafumana ingxaki yokuhlukana ngokwexeshana banokungafuni ukuya esikolweni okanye balele bodwa.
Abantwana abanesifo sokuxhalabisa abanokuxhalabisa ukuba into enokuthi iya kwenzeka kubazali babo okanye ngokwawo xa bengabikho.
Ingxaki yokunyamezela . Abantwana abanenkinga yokunyamezela, okanye i-OCD, banengcamango engapheliyo yokulawula ukubizwa ngokuba yi-obsessions. Basenokuziva bephoqelelwe ukuba benze iinkqubo kunye nemigangatho, ebizwa ngokuba yiminyanzelo, ukuzama ukulawula iingcamango zabo nokunciphisa uxhalabo lwabo. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana ophethe i-OCD unokuchitha ixesha elide enza amasiko aquka ukuhlamba izandla, ukubala, ukuphindaphinda amagama, okanye ukutshekisha ngokuphindaphindiweyo izinto nokugcina izinto ezingamnandi, imifanekiso okanye iimvakalelo.
Ingxaki yoxinzelelo emva kwesifo. Abantwana bangakwazi ukuhlaziya ingxaki yoxinzelelo emva kokudandatheka, okanye i-PTSD, emva kokufaka ubungqina okanye ukufumana isiganeko esisongela ubomi okanye esichukumisayo esinjengokuphanga okanye ingozi yemoto . Nangona kuqhelekile ukuba ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka, okanye ukubuhlungu emva kokufumana isiganeko esinoyikisayo, abantwana abaninzi banokufumana ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantwana-ngakumbi abo bafumana isiganeko esibuhlungu ngokuthe ngqo okanye abangenayo inkqubo efanelekileyo yokuxhasa ekhaya-bangakha i-PTSD. Aba bantwana banokuqhubeka befumana ama-flashbacks, nightmares, ukulala, ukuxinezeleka, kunye noloyiko olukhulu kunye nokuxhalaba, kwaye bahlaziye isiganeko esibuhlungu xa bedlala.
Basenokurhoxisa baze baphephe abantu, indawo kunye nemisebenzi emva kwexesha lesiganeko esibuhlungu.
Phobias. Abantwana abane-phobia banesibindi esinzulu, esingqongqo, nangengqiqo sento ethile, njengenja, iinaliti, okanye emnyama. Ezinye izifo eziqhelekileyo kubantwana zibandakanya ukwesaba kweendudumo zezulu, ukundiza, amanzi, iindawo eziphezulu kunye negazi. Abantwana abane-phobias abanamathuba amaninzi kunokuba abantu abadala bakwazi ukubeka uloyiko lwabo kwinani okanye baqonde ukuba ukwesaba kwabo akunangqiqo.
Ukuba uyakrokreka ukuba umntwana wakho unokufumana ingxaki yokuxhalabisa, khuluma nomntwana wezingane okanye ufumane ukuhanjiswa kwengcali yengqondo yengqondo yengane.
Ukuxilongwa kwangaphambili kunye nokonyango kubalulekile ukuba unyango olufanelekileyo lweengxaki zokuxhalaba kwabantwana. Ukuphazamiseka kwengxaki ezingabonakaliyo kubantwana kunokuba nefuthe elibi ekuphuhliseni ubuhlobo kwaye kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki esikolweni kunye nokuzithoba .