Unyango kunye nemfundo lunokunceda
Xa abantwana behamba ngeengozi zemoto bengenakunzima, abazali bayazibona benethamsanqa kodwa banokuthi bangawuboni umonakalo weengqondo zokuphazamiseka kweemoto, ezifana nokudakumba. Kanye njengoko iimpembelelo zempilo yengozi yemoto zihlala ixesha elide, ngokunjalo nazo zinokuthi ingqondweni. Kungokwemvelo ukuba umntwana athathe ixesha elithile ukuba abuyisele kwisiganeko emva kwesiganeko esinjalo, kodwa ukudandatheka emva kwengozi yemoto kunokwenzeka kwabanye.
Ukuqonda iindlela zokuthintela uxinzelelo kubantwana abalandela izingozi zeemoto kunokunika abazali induduzo yokuba benza konke abakwaziyo.
Izingozi Zeenqwelo Zezimoto Ziyingozi Kwabantwana
Olunye uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba ingozi yemoto ingabandezeleka kakhulu kubantwana. Phantse kwi-15 ukuya kuma-25 ekhulwini yabantwana abandakanyeka kwiingozi zeemoto bavelisa iimpawu zokudandatheka kunye neenyanga emva kwengozi.
Uphando olupapashwe kwi -Journal of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry kunye neMpilo yengqondo yabona ukuba abantwana abasengaphambili babethole ukungenelela kwengqondo enye ukuya kwiintsuku ezili-10 emva kokuba ingozi yemoto ibe neempawu ezincinci ezinokukhathazeka kunye neengxaki zokuziphatha ezinokulandelwa kweenyanga ezimbini kunye neyesithandathu. abo bangenako ukungenelela. Ukungenelela, okubandakanya umzali omnye, ukubandakanya ukuvuselela ingozi ngokusebenzisa imidwebo kunye nemidlalo, kunye nemfundo malunga nemiphumo yengqondo yesiganeko esibuhlungu.
Ababhali beli phofu baphelise ukuba ukungenelela kwangaphambili kunceda ekukhuseleni abantwana abasakhulayo ukuba bangabikho ukuxinezeleka kunye neengxaki zokuziphatha ngenxa yengozi yemoto. Nangona kunjalo, kwakungenakusebenza kubantwana abaselula, abanokufuna ukungenelela rhoqo.
Ukunikezelwa kwezi ziphumo, kubalulekile ukufumana uncedo kumntwana wakho emva kwesiganeko esibuhlungu, njengengozi yemoto, kwaye ungalindelanga umntwana wakho abonise iimpawu zokudakumba .
Abanye Abantwana Abaninzi Ngengozi
Ngokutsho kukaDkt. Avshalom Caspi kunye nabalingane, abashicilele isifundo kwiSayensi , abanye abantwana banelungelo lokudandatheka ngenxa yeziganeko zokubandezeleka. Ukongezelela, abantwana abaneengqungquthela ezidlulileyo zokudakumba basengozini enkulu yokuphuhliswa kwakhona. Kubantwana, kunokubaluleka ngokukhethekileyo ukufuna unyango olusemva kwengozi okanye ezinye iimeko ezibuhlungu .
Emva kokuba ugqirha uye wabangela ukulimala emzimbeni wakho kumntwana wakho, ungesabi ukubuza ukuba isifo sengqondo somsebenzi osesikweni, isifo sengqondo okanye intlalontle uthetha nomntwana wakho. Ukuba iimeko ziyakuthintela ukubonisana ngokukhawuleza, yenza iqesha lokubuyela uze ubone umntu kwiveki ezayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho sele ebona uchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo, qhagamshelana nalowo mntu ukuba azi ukuba ngengozi.
Khumbula ukuba umntwana wakho usandula isiganeko esibuhlungu kwaye mhlawumbi ufuna ukunyamekela kunye nokuqinisekiswa okuvela kuwe okwesikhashana. Umntwana wakho unokwesaba ukuba angene kwimoto kwakhona okanye abe yedwa. Qiniseka ukuthetha nomntwana wakho malunga noko kwenzekayo kwaye unganciphisi ukwesaba kwakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uqaphela ukuba iimpawu zakhe zibi kakhulu, utshintshe okanye uhlale ixesha elide kuneeveki ezimbalwa, qhagamshelana nodokotela okanye umsebenzi wezempilo yengqondo.
Iimpawu zoxinzelelo zokugcina iso
Iimpawu zokuxinezeleka kubantwana zingabandakanya:
- Ukutshatyalaliswa
- Intukuthelo
- Ukuthotywa
- Uvakalelwa ukungaqondi
- Ukuphepha izinto zentlalo; ukuhoxiswa kubahlobo kunye nosapho
- Ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwizinto zangaphambili
- Ukuhla kwezemfundo
- Iingxaki zokulala
- Ukutya nokuguquka kwesisindo
- Izikhalazo ezingakhange zichazwe
- Ukukhala ngokweqile
Ukuba ubona naziphi iimpawu zokudakumba okanye ezinye izinto ezingachazi kakuhle kumntwana wakho, zibazise ngugqirha okanye kwizengcali zempilo yengqondo . Ukuxinezeleka kubantwana kufuneka bafumane unyango kwaye baphathwe kwangaphambili ithuba elihle lokubuyiselwa.
Imithombo:
UAvshalom Caspi, uKaren Sugden, uTerrie E. Moffitt, uAlan Taylor, u-Ian W. Craig, uHonaLee Harrington, uJoseph McClay, uJonathan Mill, uJudy Martin, u-Anthony Braithwaite, uRichie Poulton. "Impembelelo yoxinzelelo lobomi ekuxinezelekeni: Ukumodareyitha yi-Polymorphism kwi-5-HTT Gene." INzululwazi kaJulayi 18, 2003, 301: 386-389.
UDaniel Zehnder, uMartin Meuli, uMarkus A Landolt. "Ukuphumelela kweSahlulo esisodwa seNkqubo yokuPhathwa kweNtsholongwane kwaBantwana emva kweengozi zendlela zendlela: I-Trial Controls Trial Trial." Umbhalo we-Child & Adolescent Psychiatry kunye neMpilo yengqondo , ngoFebruwari 10, 2010. 4 (7)
Ziziphi iimpawu kunye neempawu zoxinzelelo? Isizwe seSizwe kwiMpilo yengqondo.