Funda iziSeko zoxinzelelo kunye nokuLawula uxinzelelo
Siva isigama esithi 'uxinzelelo' luphonswa ngokukhawuleza, asinakuqonda ukuba abantu bathetha izinto ezahlukeneyo xa bexubusha uxinzelelo. Yintoni nje ingxaki, kwaye abantu bathetha ntoni ngelixesha?
Yintoni ixinezelekile?
Okokuqala, impendulo yombuzo othi, 'Yintoni ukuxinezeleka?' Igama elithi 'uxinzelelo' libhekisela kwimpendulo onayo xa ijongene neemeko ezinokunyanzela ukuba wenze, utshintshe okanye utshintshe ngandlela-thile ukugcina unyawo okanye ukugcina izinto zilinganise.
(Iimeko ziyaziwa ngokuba ' ngabaxinzeleleli ', kodwa siya kuba nezona zinto kamva.)
Le mpendulo yokuxininisa , eyaziwa nangokuthi impendulo yokulwa-okanye ye-flight , ibangela ukuba utshintsho oluninzi oluthatha umzimba wakho, olukunika amandla angakumbi ukuze ukwazi ukulwa okanye ukubalekela izinto ezisongelayo. Oku kwakuyimpendulo eyincedo kuthi kumaxesha adlulileyo xa ubuninzi beengcinezelo esajamelana nazo babemzimba. Le ntshukumo yamandla okwenyama yayidinga ukugcina sisaphila kwiimeko ezininzi. Namhlanje, nangona kunjalo, ukwanda kwezinto zethu ezisongelayo zengqondo - uxinzelelo lomsebenzi , ukungquzulana kwabantu, njl njl. - kwaye le mpendulo ekuxinezelekeni, eyona nto ingasenza sicinge ngokucacileyo, akusoloko ifuneka okanye iyanceda.
Inkxalabo engapheliyo
Xa ujamelana noxinzelelo rhoqo kwaye ufumanisa ukuba unganalo kula maxesha, usengozini yokufumana uxinzelelo olungapheliyo olunokuchaphazela impilo yakho kwiindlela ezininzi ezimbi.
Ukuba uphendule uxinzelelo lwexesha elide kwaye ungafumani umzimba wakho kwiimeko zokuphumla unokwenza irhafu kwinkqubo yakho, ukushiye ukhululeke kwaye uphelelwe ngexesha elifanayo. Uphando lwezempilo kunye noxinzelelo lubonise ukuba uxinzelelo lunokuba yinto ebangela ukuba zonke izigulane ezinkulu zibangelwa zizifo ezinzima ngenxa yokunyamezela okungapheliyo.
Ulawulo lweZiseko zoLawulo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imvelaphi yoxinzelelo kuwe, kukho amanyathelo amundoqo onokuyithatha ukulawula uxinzelelo olufumanayo. Zama ukujamelana noxinzelelo oluvela kwii-angles ezintathu:
- Uxinzelelo olukhawulezayo lweengxaki
Nangona ukuxinwa ngokukhawuleza okuxinzelelekileyo akuyiyo iplani yokulawula uxinzelelo oluzimeleyo ngokwabo, ziyimpawu zokuqala zokukhusela ngokumalunga nemiphumo yengcinezelo engapheliyo. Oku kungenxa yokuba banokukunceda ukucima impendulo yomzimba wakho kwaye uphendule kwiingcinezelo ozijongene nazo (ezolileyo) okanye indawo ekhululekile. Oku kukukunceda ngokukhawuleza ukujongana nokunyamezela, kwaye uzigcine unempiliso ngexesha elifanayo. Izicwangciso eziqhelekileyo zokuphucula uxinzelelo ngokukhawuleza zibandakanya ukuphefumula okanye ukusebenzisa amahlaya. - Idilesi imeko
Eli nyathelo lincinane kakhulu, kodwa ukulawula uxinzelelo kubalulekile. Njengoko kuthethwa ngaye ngaphambili, abantu abagxininisekile, abaxinzelelekileyo abasoloko beyona ndawo ikulungele ukulungisa iingxaki. Emva kokuba ufumene kwindawo ekhulile, unokusebenza ekujonganeni nezinto ezibangela uxinzelelo ebomini bakho. Uxinzelelo lobudlelwane? Zama ukufunda izicwangciso ezinxibelelwano ezinempilo okanye izakhono zokunxibelelana . Uxinzelelo lukaYobhi? Funda ukufumana ukwaneliseka komsebenzi kumsebenzi wakho wangoku, okanye uthathe amanyathelo ekuthutheleleni kwenye entsha. Uxinzelelo lwemali? Unokusingatha oku, ngokunjalo, kunye neendlela zokulawula uxinzelelo kunye nezibonelelo zengcebiso zezimali. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuzilahla kudlalwa kwaye kufuneka ufunde ezinye izicwangciso zokuyeka ukutshaba kwakho .)
- Uxinzelelo lwexesha elide
Enye inxalenye ebalulekileyo yesicwangciso sokulawula uxinzelelo kukuba nemisebenzi ethile rhoqo ebomini bakho eyokuzalisa kwaye ikuncede ukuba ube namandla xa ujamelana nokubhekisana nobunzima bakho bemihla ngemihla. Esikhundleni sokulinda uze utyhafiswe ngumxinzelelo, ukuba wenza imisebenzi ethile yokuxininisa ingxaki, uya kuba negalelo elincinci kwiimpawu zokuxininisa xa uzifumana, kwaye uya kuba nako ukukwazi ukuziphatha xa ubhekene nazo. Ezinye zezi migaqo ziquka ukucamngca , ukuzivocavoca , kunye nesenzo esiqhelekileyo sokuzonwabisa. Unokufunda kwakhona izicwangciso zokuba ukhululeke ngokomzwelo .