Izinto Ezincinane Omele Uzazi Ngomxholo Wokuziphatha Kwezenhlalakahle
Inzululwazi yezeNtlalo yinto ekhangayo eyenze uphando oluninzi malunga nendlela abantu abaziphatha ngayo kumaqela. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iziphumo zezilingo ezininzi ezidumileyo ziphikisana nendlela onokulindela ukuba abantu benze ngayo kwiimeko zoluntu.
Nazi izinto ezilishumi ofuna ukuba wazi malunga neengqondo zentlalo:
1. Ukuba khona kwabanye abantu kunokuba negalelo elinamandla ekuziphatheni.
Xa inani labantu libona into enjengengozi, abantu abangabonakaliyo kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu uya kuqhubela phambili ukuncedisa.
Oku kwaziwa ngokuba yimpembelelo yokumelana.
2. Abantu baya kufikelela ubude obukhulu ukuthobela igunya lomntu.
Abantu baya kukhulu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bayingozi, ubude bokuthobela amanani amanani. Kwimisebenzi yakhe ehloniphekileyo yokuthobela , isazi senzululwazi uStanley Milgram safumanisa ukuba abantu baya kukulungele ukutshatyalaliswa kombane komnye umntu xa beyalelwe ngabahloli.
3. Imfuno yokuhambelana ikhokelela abantu ukuba bahambe kunye neqela.
Uninzi lwabantu luya kuhamba kunye neqela, nokuba ngaba bacinga ukuba iqela liphosakele. NgoSolomon Asch ukulinganisa ukulinganisa , abantu babuzwa ukuba bagwebe ukuba yiyiphi imide emithathu. Xa amanye amalungu eqela athatha umgca ongalunganga, abathathi-nxaxheba babekho amathuba okukhetha umgca ofanayo.
4. Le meko ingaba nefuthe elikhulu kwizenzo zentlalo.
Imimandla yeemeko ingadlala indima enkulu ekuziphatheni kwethu kwentlalo. Kwisilingo saseJongweni saseStanford , isazi senzululwazi uFilipu Zimbardo safumanisa ukuba abathathi-nxaxheba babeza kuthatha iindima ezazinikezelwa ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba uvavanyo lwalufuneka luyeke emva kweentsuku ezintandathu.
Abo babekwe kwiindima zabagcini beentolongo baqala ukusebenzisa kakubi amandla abo, ngoxa abo babenendima yababanjwa baba nexhala kwaye bagxininiswa.
5.Abantu bathambekele ekukhangela izinto eziqinisekisa izinto abaye bakholwa ngazo.
Abantu bajonga izinto eziqinisekisa iinkolelo zabo ezikhoyo kunye nokungawunaki ulwazi oluphikisana noko bakuye bacinga.
Oku kwaziwa ngokuba nguqinisekiso lokulindela . Idlala indima enkulu kwinto eyaziwa ngokuba yi- bias confirmation , uhlobo lweengcamango zokuqonda. Olu tyekelo lokufuna ubungqina lukhokelela kuthi ngamanye amaxesha sikuphephe ulwazi oluneengxaki ngendlela esicinga ngayo ngehlabathi.
6. Indlela esibahlula ngayo abanye isinceda sibe neengqiqo zehlabathi, kodwa oku kukhokelela ekuboneni izinto ezingabonakaliyo.
Xa sibeka uluhlu ngolwazi malunga namaqela oluntu, sivame ukunyanisela ukungafani phakathi kwamacandelo kunye nokunciphisa ukungafani phakathi kwamaqela. Le nxalenye yeso sizathu sokuba kutheni izinto kunye nokubandlulula kubakho.
7. Izimo zengqondo zineempembelelo ezinzulu kwizenzo zentlalo.
Isimo sethu sengqondo , okanye indlela esivavanya ngayo izinto ezahlukeneyo kubandakanya abantu, iingcamango, kunye nezinto, zingabonakala zicacileyo kwaye zicacile. Izimo zengqondo ezicacileyo yizo esizenzayo ngokuqaphelayo kwaye siyazi kakuhle. Ngesinye icala, iifom kwaye isebenze ngokungazi kakuhle kodwa isineempembelelo ezinamandla ekuziphatheni kwethu.
8. Ukulindela kwethu kuthintela indlela esijonga ngayo abanye kunye nendlela esicinga ukuba kufuneka baziphatha ngayo.
Iimbono zethu zabanye abantu zihlala zixhomekeke kwizinto ezinjengeenkalo ezilindelweyo, iinkqubo zentlalo kunye nokuhlaliswa kweentlalo. Ekubeni silindele ukuba abantu abanendima ethile okanye inxalenye yeqela eluntwini ukuba baziphathe ngendlela ethile, ukubonakala kwethu kokuqala komntu kudla ngokuxhomekeka kule miqhoqo yengqondo ukwenza izigwebo ezikhawulezayo zendlela esilindele ukuba abantu baziphathe ngayo.
9. Sichaza imikhosi yangaphandle kwiingxaki zethu, kodwa sigxeke abanye ngenxa yamatyala abo.
Xa sichaza indlela yokuziphatha, sivame ukubonakalisa inhlanhla yethu kwimibandela yangaphakathi kunye neziphumo ezingekho emandleni angaphandle. Xa kuziwa kwabanye abantu, ngoko ke, ngokuqhelekileyo sichaza izenzo zabo kwiimpawu zangaphakathi. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba sifumana ibakala elibi kwiphepha, yiphutha lootitshala; ukuba umfundi ofunda naye ufumana ibakala elibi, kungenxa yokuba akafundanga nzima ngokwaneleyo. Olu tyekelo luyaziwa ngokuba yi- actor-observer bias .
10. Ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukuhamba kunye nesihlwele kunokuba kubangele indawo.
Emaqela, abantu bahlala behamba kunye neembono ezininzi kunokuba babangele ukuphazamiseka.
Le nto iyaziwa njengeqela kunye kwaye ithambeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo xa amalungu eqela ekwabelana ngokubanzi ngokufanayo, xa iqela liphantsi koxinzelelo, okanye phambi kobukhokheli obushushu.
Ezi zimbalwa zezinto ezinomdla ezichaphazela ihlabathi leentlalo. Dive deep in the psychological psychological society ukuze ufunde kabanzi malunga nezinto ezininzi ezichaphazela ukuziphatha kwethu kwezentlalo, iingcinga kunye nokusebenzisana.