Kwizengqondo zentlalo, i-term human person perception ibhekisele kwiinkqubo zengqondo ezahlukeneyo esizisebenzisayo ukudala iimpawu zabanye abantu. Oku akubandakanyi nje indlela esilwenza ngayo le mpawu, kodwa izigqibo ezifaniyo esizenzayo ngabanye abantu ngokusekelwe kumbono wethu.
Cinga ukuba kaninzi kangakanani ukwenza olu hlobo lwemiqathango yonke imihla. Xa udibana nomntu omtsha osebenza naye, uqala ngokukhawuleza ukuphuhlisa umboniso wokuqala walo mntu.
Xa u tyelela ivenkile emva komsebenzi, unokwenza izigqibo malunga nomntu osisigxina onokukuhlola, nangona ungazi kakhulu ngalo mntu.
Oku kusivumela ukuba senze izigwebo ze-snap kunye nezigqibo , kodwa kunokukhokelela kwimibono ephathekayo okanye engathandekiyo kwabanye abantu. Masiqwalasele ngokuthe ngqo indlela umntu ocinga ngayo esebenza ngayo kunye neempembelelo ezinokubambisana kwethu nosuku nabanye abantu.
Ziziphi iinkcukacha esizisebenzisayo ukuBumba iimpawu zabanye?
Kucacile ukuba umntu ukujonga ingaba yinkqubo ephantsi kakhulu enokuthi ithinteke ngenani lezinto eziguqukayo. Izinto ezinokuchaphazela ukubonakala kwakho uhlobo lwabanye abantu ziquka iimpawu zomntu owujongayo, umongo weemeko, zakho iimpawu kunye nezinto zakho zangaphambili.
Abantu badla ngokubumba abanye ngokukhawuleza kunye nolwazi oluncinane. Sisoloko siqulunqa ukubonakala kwethu kwiindima kunye nemigangatho yoluntu esilindele kubantu.
Ngokomzekelo, unokwenza umveleli webhasi yomqhubi webhasi ngokusekelwe kwindlela onokulindela ngayo ukuba umntu onalo daba aziphathe, ucinga ngempawu zobuntu kuphela emva kokuba udale lo mboniso wokuqala.
Iimpawu zenyama zikwadlala indima ebalulekileyo. Ukuba ubona ibhinqa egqoke i-suit-looking look, unokucinga ngokukhawuleza ukuba usebenza kwindawo esesikweni, mhlawumbi kwi-firm firm or bank.
Ubungqina benkcazelo esiyibonayo ibalulekile. Ngokuqhelekileyo, sivame ukugxininisa kwiindawo ezibonakalayo kunokuba siqaphele ulwazi olusemgangathweni. Inombolo engaphezulu okanye into ebonakalayo kukuba, sinokuthi siyiqwalasele ngakumbi. Ukuba ubona ibhinqa egqoke isitifiketi esifanelwe kunye neenwele zakhe ezifakwe kwi-mohawk ephazimulayo ephothiweyo, mhlawumbi unokubeka ingqwalasela ngaphezu kwekhanda lakhe elingavamile kunengubo yakhe yezobugcisa.
Udidi lweNtlalo
Enye yeenkcenkcesho zengqondo esisisebenzisa kumntu ukuqonda ziyaziwa njengeqela loluntu . Kwiinkqubo zentlupheko yoluntu, sibeka ngengqondo ngokwahlula abantu ngamaqela ahlukeneyo ngokubhekiselele kwiimpawu ezifanayo. Ngamanye amaxesha le nkqubo ivela ngokugqithisileyo, kodwa inxalenye enkulu, ukuhlelwa kweentlalo zentlalo zenzeke ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye zingacacanga. Ezinye zezona ziqela eziqhelekileyo zisebenzisa ukubandakanya ubudala, isini, umsebenzi kunye nohlanga.
Njengoko kuninzi olunqumleziweyo lwengqondo, ukuhlaliswa koluntu kunemiba emihle neyiyo. Enye yamandla enqanaba loluntu kukuba ivumela abantu ukuba benze izigwebo ngokukhawuleza. Ngokwenene, awunaso ixesha lokumazi ngamnye umntu odibana naye kumntu, ngesiseko sakhe.
Ukusebenzisa udidi lwezentlalo kukuvumela ukuba wenze izigqibo kwaye uqinisekise ukuba abantu baya kuziphatha njani kwiimeko ezithile ngokukhawuleza, okuvumela ukuba ugxininise kwezinye izinto.
Iingxaki kule nkqubo ziquka into yokuba inokukhokelela kwiiphene kunye nokunyanzeliswa okanye ukubandlulula .
Khawuqwalasele lo mzekelo:
Cinga ukuba ufumana ibhasi kodwa kukho izihlalo ezimbini kuphela. Isihlalo esinye siseduze nesincinci, isilivere-isilivere, umfazi osekhulile, esinye isihlalo siseduze nomntu onobunzima, ojongene nomsindo. Ngokusekelwe kwisicatshulwa sakho sokukhawuleza, uhlala kufuphi nomfazi osekhulile, osiba ngelithuba uya kuba nekhono ekukhetheni iipokotshi.
Ngenxa yentlupheko yoluntu, ngokukhawuleza wamgweba loo nto ibhinqa njengengozi kwaye indoda isongela, ekhokelela ekulahlekeni kwekhredithi yakho. Nangona ukuhlelwa kweentlalo kunokuba luncedo ngamanye amaxesha, kunokukhokelela kulezi ntlobo zokungazi.
IiNkcazo zoBuntu
Ingcamango yobuntu iyinto yokuqokelela iinkolelo kunye neengcamango esinazo malunga nendlela iimpawu ezithile ezidibene ngayo nezinye iimpawu kunye neempawu. Emva kokuba sisazi into ethile malunga nomsebenzi wamakhadikhasi , sicinga ukuba lo mntu ubonakalisa nezinye iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezidibaniswe naloo mpawu ebalulekileyo.
Umzekelo, ukuba ufunda ukuba umqeshwa omtsha osebenza kunye naye uyavuya kakhulu, unokucinga ukuba unobungane, unomusa kwaye unomusa. Njengoko kunye neentlupheko zentlalo, iimbono zezinto zobuntu zibanceda abantu benze izigwebo ngokukhawuleza, kodwa banokubangela ukuba babe negalelo lokutshatyalaliswa kunye neephene.
Iingxelo
Bargh, JA, Chen, M., & Burrows, L. (1996). Ukwenziwa ngokuzenzekelayo kokuziphatha kwentlalo: Imiphumo eqingqiweyo yendlela yokwakha kunye nokusebenzisiswa kweendlela zokusebenza. I-Journal of Personality and Psychology, 71, 230-244.