Ziziphi Iingenelo Zokubuyisela Utywala?

Ukuphila Ngaphandle Kotywala Kuphela Kuvakalelwa Kulungile

Xa uyeka ukusela emva kweminyaka yokusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala, kungekhona nje ukuba umzimba wakho uza kuqala ukuguqula umphumo wokusela utywala emzimbeni wakho, uya kuziva ulunge ngakumbi. Uphando lubonisa ukuba omnye umonakalo obangelwa ebuchosheni, isibindi kunye nesimo senhliziyo kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kokusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala kuza kuqala ukuphulukisa.

Xa uqala ukusela, uzakuziva ukhululekile okwethutyana kweempawu zokuxotha, kodwa njengoko utywala usebenza ngendlela yokuphuma kwenkqubo yakho uya kuqala ukuziva ungcono, mhlawumbi ungcono kunokuba unayo iminyaka.

Ibali likaRobin lokubuyiswa kotywala

Ndiyaphila, ndonwabile, ndingazibandakanyi kakhulu, ndiba neenkuthalo ezininzi, ndivuke ingozi, ndilahlekelwe iipounds ezi-5, kwaye ndifumene itoni yengqiqo.

Ndiphupha ngakumbi, zombini ngokomfanekiso nangokwenene. Ndilala kakuhle. Ndinesidlo kwakhona. Ukusebenza kwam sebenzi kwansuku zonke kufumene kakhulu, kulunge ngakumbi kuba andisayi kutyhafaza yonke ixesha. Xa ndihleli nabantu endikukhathalelayo, ndilapha ngokwenene.

Yonke into itshintshile

Ndivakalelwa kukuba inkululeko endiyifumanga ngayo kwiminyaka. Kulungile ukuba ungayimise kwaye uthabathe ipakethe ye-12 okanye ukuphuma kwimozulu ye-crappy ukwenza njalo. Ndiyakha kwakhona. Ndifunda phambi kombhede endaweni yokuphuma nje. Ndiyadlala igitare kwakhona. Ndiyifumene ukuzimela kwam.

Ndiyakwazi ukuqhubeka nokuqhubeka, kodwa ndiza kuzibiza ngokuthi yonke into ishintshile. Kwaye oko, bahlobo bam, yinto enhle kakhulu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ndithandekile ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ndingenalo bhiya esandleni.

- Robin

Unokuziva Ulunge ngakumbi

NjengoRobin, nawe unokuguqula ubomi bakho kwaye uzive ungcono kunokuba uneminyaka. Izimpawu zokurhoxisa onokuzifumana xa uqala ukuyeka ziza kuchitha ixesha elifutshane nje. Emva koko uza kuqala ukuziva ungcono ngokomzimba.

Kukho unyango olukhoyo oluya kunciphisa okanye luphelise iimpawu zokurhoxa kwexeshana.

Ukuba ufuna ukuyeka ukusela, kukho uncedo oluninzi kunye nenkxaso ekhoyo kuwe.

Kuzama Ukuhlala Unengqondo

Kodwa, utshintsho olukhulu ebomini bakho aluqhubi nje ngenxa yokuba uyeka ukusela. Ukuba konke okwenzayo ukuyeka ukusela nokunye okunye, impilo yakho ingaphucula, kodwa ungeke ufumane izibonelelo ezinokuthi uRobin uchazwe ngentla.

Kwakhona kunceda ukuba usebenze ekuphumeni kwakho kunye nendlela entsha yokuphila ngaphandle kwempahla . Okokuqala, ngokungaxhomekanga kunye nabantu abafanayo owakwenzayo ngenkathi usebenzisa kunye nokwenza abahlobo abatsha .

Ukuphuhlisa indlela entsha yokuphila

Inceda ekuphuculeni ukutya kwakho kwaye uqalise inkqubo yohambo , jongana nempembelelo edlulileyo kwaye uxhomekeke kwiimeko zakho zemali . Ukufunda indlela yokujongana nomsindo wakho kunye nokuba ungayifaka njani umlutha omnye komnye okanye enye indlela yokunyanzelisa, kubalulekile.

Ukuphuhlisa indlela yokuphila engekho ngotywala kunye nokufezekiswa kwexesha elide kuthatha umgudu omkhulu kunokuba ungaphinda uphuze. Uphando lubonisa ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi indlela oye wayisebenzisa ngayo ukuba ube nengqondo kwindawo yokuqala, unethuba elingcono lokufumana ubungqina obunaphakade ukuba uthatha inxaxheba kwiqela elixhasa inkxaso .