Ukuqonda uloyiko lwezesondo
I-Erotophobia yixesha eliqhelekileyo eliquka uluhlu olubanzi lwezoyiko. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuyaqondwa ukuba kubandakanye nayiphi na i- phobia enxulumene nesondo. I-Erotophobia ivame ukuba yinkimbinkimbi, kwaye abaninzi abanesifo banokutya ngakumbi. I-erotophobia engabonakaliyo inokuba yingozi kwaye inokubangela ukuba abagulayo bangaphepheli kuphela ubudlelwane bokuthandana kodwa kunye nezinye iindlela zokudibana.
Phobias ecacileyo
Njengeyiphi na i-phobia, i-erotophobia iyahluka kakhulu kwiimpawu zombini kunye nobunzima. Ukwesaba okwenziwe ngumntu, kwaye akukho babini abanezifo abanokuzifumana ngendlela efanayo. Uyakwazi ukubona ezinye zakho zokwesaba kuloluhlu.
- I-Genophobia: Eyaziwa nangokuthi i-coitophobia, oku ukwesaba ukulala ngesondo. Abantu abaninzi abane-genophobia bayakwazi ukuqala ubudlelwane bokuthandana, kwaye banokuzonwabisa ngezinto ezinjengokubamba nokukhwaza kodwa bayesaba ukunyuka ukubonisa uthando.
- Ukwesaba Ulwalamano: Uloyiko lolwalamano luvame ukuba, nangona kunjalo, lugxininiswe ukwesaba ukulahlelwa okanye iwele layo, ukwesaba ukutshatyalaliswa. Abo bayika ulwalamano olusenyongweni abayiloyiko ngokwesenzo ngokwabelana ngesondo ngokwaso, kodwa bayesaba ulwalamano olusenokungeniswa ngalo.
- I-paraphobia: Ukwesaba ukuguquka kwesondo ngokwawo kuyinkimbinkimbi. Abanye abantu bayesaba ukuba banokuguqulwa ngokwabo, ngoxa abanye besaba ukuguquka kwabanye. Abanye abantu abanengxaki yokuzibandakanya ngokobulili banakho ukufumana ubudlelwane bobulili bendabuko obufanelekileyo kakuhle kwiikhowudi zabo zokuziphatha, ngelixa abanye besaba ukuba nayiphi na indlela yolwalamano olusondeleyo.
- I-Happhobia: Eyaziwa nangokuthi yi-chiraptophobia, ukwesaba ukuchukumiseka kufuthi kuthintela bonke ubudlelwane, kungekhona nje kuphela kwintando yothando. Abanye abantu bafumana ukukhawulelana noqhagamshelwano nesihlobo, ngelixa abanye besaba nje ukuchukumisa ngokukhawuleza.
- I-Gymnophobia: Uloyiko lobunqunu luba nzima. Abanye abantu besaba ukuba behamba, abanye abantu behamba ngeenxa zonke kubo. Olu loyiko luyakubonakalisa imiba yomzimba okanye iimvakalelo zokungafaneleki, nangona kungenzeka kuphela.
- Ukwesaba Ukuxhatshazwa: Njengokwesaba ulwalamano olusondeleyo, uloyiko lobuthathaka luvame ukuboshwa ukwesaba ukulahla okanye ukwesaba ukutshatyalaliswa. Abantu abaninzi bayesaba ukuba xa bebodwa, abanye abayithandi. Uloyiko lobuthathaka lunokuchaphazela ubudlelwane obuninzi, ngokwesini kunye nabangatshatanga.
- IFilimaphobia: Eyaziwa nangokuthi i-philematophobia, ukwesaba ukumanga kungabangela ezininzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo unamathele kwiinkxalabo eziphathekayo, ezifana nenkxalabo yokuphefumla kakubi okanye i- germ phobia.
I-Erotophobia Causes
Njengokwesaba kakhulu umntu, i-erotophobia ingaba nezizathu ezingenakubalwa. Kwezinye iimeko, kunokuba nzima okanye akunakwenzeka ukuphawula isizathu esithile. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu basenokuba ngumngcipheko omkhulu ngenxa yeziganeko ezidlulileyo okanye zangoku ebomini babo.
- Ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokwesondo: Nangona bonke abantu abane-erotophobia babedlwenguliwe okanye baxhatshazwa ngokwesondo , abo baye baxhatshazwa bengozi kakhulu ekwakheni uhlobo oluthile lwe-erotophobia.
- Olunye u-Trauma: Abantu abaye bafumana izigulane ezinkulu banomngcipheko ophezulu wokuba neengxaki zokuxhalabisa eziquka i-phobias. Ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kwasemzimbeni, ungase ube nempumelelo yokuphuhlisa i-erotophobia enxulumene nomnxeba, ngelixa abo baye bafumana uxhatshazo lwengqondo okanye lwangokuxhatshazwa kwimizimba kunokuba banokuthi babe nobuhlobo obusondeleyo okanye obunobungozi.
- Umntu, iNkcubeko, kunye neNkolo yeNkolo: Nangona iinkolo kunye neentlanga ezininzi zithandana ngokulalana ngaphandle kokuzala, ukulandela le mithintelo akuyiyo i-phobia. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abantu bafumana ubunzima xa bezama ukulinganisa iinkolelo ezidlulileyo kunye zangoku. Ukuba ususuke kwimvelaphi engqongqo kodwa ukwesaba ukutshintsha iipatheni zangaphambili zengcamango nezenzo, unokuba usengozini yokuphuhlisa i-phobia .
- Ukuxhalabisa ngeNtsebenzo: Ngamanye amaxesha, akunjalo ngokwesini esinoyiko nonke. Kunoko, sinokukhathazeka ngokukwazi kwethu ukukholisa iqabane. Ukuxhalabeleka komsebenzi kubonakala ngokuqhelekileyo kulabo abaselula okanye abanamava kodwa kungenzeka kuzo zonke iindawo namazinga ngamava.
- Ukukhathazeka ngokwemvelo: Abanye abantu banenkxalabo yokuba ubulili buya kulimaza. Abanye bazibuza ukuba baya kuba nako ukwenza ngenxa yesimo somzimba. Uloyiko olunezizathu zonyango olusemthethweni aluqwalaselwe njenge-phobias. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu bafumana ukwesaba okungaxhomekekanga kumlinganiselo wemeko. Ukuba ukwesaba kwakho akufanelekanga kwimingcipheko yangoku, unokuba ne-phobia.
Ukuphatha i-Erotophobia
Ngenxa yokuba i-erotophobia yinkimbinkimbi, uphuhliso lwezobugcisa luyimfuneko ngokubanzi. Abaphandabuli bezesondo banamaphepha oqeqesho lwezempilo yengqondo abaye bagqiba uqeqesho olongezelelweyo kunye nesatifikethi, kwaye abaninzi abantu banomuvo wokuthi uyona nto ikhethekileyo yokunyanga iingxaki zesini. Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kubalulekile ukufuna isifo somzimba, njengoko abaninzi abaneengcali zempilo yengqondo banakho ukulawula i-erotophobia.
I-Erotophobia ngokubanzi isabela kakuhle kunyango, nangona i-erotophobia eyinkimbinkimbi ingathatha ixesha kunye nomgudu wokulungisa. Ngokuxhomekeke kwisitala sakho sempilo kunye nesikolo sengcamango , unokufuna ukujamelana neemvakalelo ezinzima kunye nezibuhlungu ukuze uphucule kwaye uqhubeke phambili. Ngenxa yokuba uhlobo loloyiko lusebuntwini, kubalulekile ukuba ufumane umcali onokuziva ukhululekile.
Nangona ukubetha i-erotophobia akukaze kube lula, abaninzi abantu bafumanisa ukuba umvuzo uyafaneleka. Yiba nesineke kuwe, kwaye uthembeke kunye nomgqirha wakho. Ngexesha elide, ukwesaba kwakho kuya kuncipha kwaye ufunde ukuzonwabisa lwakho uluhlu lwesondo lakho.
Umthombo
Umbutho wezeMpilo waseMerika. (1994). Incwadana yokuxilonga kunye neenkcukacha zeengxaki zengqondo (4 Ed.) . Washington, DC: Umbhali.