Umbuzo oqhelekileyo onokuwufumana kumsebenzisi uthi: "Kuba ndide ndikhumbule, ndizamile ukunqanyulwa kwizinto zonke ezijikelezile. Ndandisoloko ndinenkathazo esikolweni ukuhamba ngentsuku kwaye ndingayithobeli ingqalelo, kwaye ndiza Zama ukungena nto yonke into. Abazali bam babengazange bandibonele. Ngeminyaka eyi-13, ndisebenzisa i-marijuana, kwaye ndizame zonke iziyobisi ukususela ngoko.
Ngexesha elineminyaka engama-18, ndandisoloko ndiyilwa ne-heroin. Ngoku ndi-28, kwaye ezininzi izilingo endaziyo eziye zaza zaqaphela ukuba ziye zaxhatshazwa ngokwesondo njengabantwana. Abanye babo abazange bakhumbule baze bafumane unyango. Andizikhumbuli ngokuphathelele ebuntwaneni bam, ngoko ke ndixhatshazwa nje ngunyana? "Le, kunye nemibuzo enxulumene nokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesini, iphendulwa ngezantsi.
Okokuqala, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokubuza le mibuzo. Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwezesondo ngobuntwaneni ngenye yezona zinto zihlelelekile kwiindawo zethu. Ukuxhaphaka kokuxhaphazwa ngokwesini kubantwana kunokuba kunzima ukulinganisa ngokuchanekileyo-kwaye nangona ngelinye ilanga liqhelekile, asinakuthetha ngokungaqhelekanga ngalo ngokucacileyo. Ukujongana nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo njengoko umntwana ethatha isibindi esikhulu, kodwa unokuba nakho ukuphilisa.
Kuyinyaniso ukuba ukuxhaphazwa ngokwesini kwabantwana kungabonakali kakhulu kubantu abahlakulela izidakamizwa kwizidakamizwa ezifana ne-meth ne-heroin, kwaye kuphakamileyo kakhulu kubantu abahlakulela ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kunye ne- anorexia yesondo , kunye nalabo abahlakulela ukulutha kokutya kunye nezinye izifo zokutya .
Umzekelo wokuzama ukuxhuma kwihlabathi elikujikelezile, owaziwa ngokuthi ukuhlukana , uqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantu abanobudlelwane bokuxhaphazwa ngokwesini ngexesha lobuntwaneni. Abanye baye baphathwa kakubi ngokusetyenziswa kakubi kweeminyaka-okanye kwamashumi eminyaka-kuphela ukuyikhumbula emva kokudala, ngamanye amaxesha kunyango.
Inyaniso yokuba awukhumbuli ubuninzi bakho buntwaneni kwakhona uyisibonakaliso sokuba uye wavelelwa kwisiganeko esibuhlungu-oko kukuthi, into eyayinzima kakhulu ukuba ubhekane nayo ngexesha-ngexesha lobuntwaneni. Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini ngohlobo lweentlobo zentlungu, lukho uhlobo oluthile lomonakalo, kodwa kukho ezinye ezininzi ezinokuba nempembelelo efanayo, kubandakanywa ubundlobongela okanye ukufa, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngokomzwelo , okanye ukufumana ingozi, ukulimala okanye ukugula okukhulu.
Kodwa nangona iindawo zebali lakho zibonakala zihambelana namava amaninzi ahlobene nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, oko akuthethi ukuba ulwaxhatshazwa ngokwesondo. Nangona kuphazamiseka xa ungazikhumbuli izinto ukusuka ebuntwaneni bakho, kunokukwenza unobungozi kunokuba ulungele ukuzama kwaye "uqaphele" nokuba uchithathwe kakubi ngaphandle kohlobo oluthile lobubungqina bekhonkrithi. Ububungqina bobungqina bunokuquka ukukhumbula ukuthintwa kakubi njengomntwana, umntu ekuxelela ukuba ngokwenene uxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, okanye omnye umntu ozayo kwaye uthetha malunga nokusetyenziswa kakubi, owayengumntwana kwimeko efanayo. Lo mntu unokuba ngumntakwenu okanye umntu omdala owayenesikhundla solawulo phezu kwakho-njengotitshala okanye umqeqeshi-ovuma okanye ofunyenwe unetyala, ukuxhaphazwa ngokwesondo ngokobantwana abakwinkathalo yakhe.
Kwaye ke, ukuba awuyikhumbuli, akunakwenzeka oko.
Ezinye iinkalo zengqondo zingakhokelela ekulahlekeni kwememori, ngoko uzama ukungagqiba kwizigqibo. Ukuba uziva ukulungele ukujamelana nayo nayiphi isizathu ngenxa yeengxaki ozijongene nazo, ngoku kungakho ixesha elifanelekileyo lokufuna uncedo lokuphuma kwezidakamizwa kanye kunye nokufumana unyango kwiingxaki zakho zengqondo. Ukuba uziva unako, xela ugqirha wakho malunga nesicwangciso sonyango esihle. Kwaye ukuba ungaziva ulungele, biza i-National Sexual Assault Hotline kwi-1.800.656.HOPE, enokukunika indawo yokuthetha ngolu hlobo uze uzive ulungele.
Inhlanhla enokuhamba ukuya ekuphiliseni. Amadoda nabasetyhini abaninzi baye bafumana izilwanyana kunye nokususelwa kwintsapho yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini, kwaye baqhubeka bephila ubomi obonwabileyo.
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