Ndiyazi oku kungaphantsi, ukuthetha okuncinci, kodwa ukukhulisa umntwana nge-ADHD kunzima ... ingakumbi xa iimpawu zivele zibonakaliswe ziselula. Ukuba ufunda ukuqaphela iimpawu ze-ADHD kwangaphambili , uya kuqonda into ojongene nayo kwaye unokufumana ukungenelela endaweni.
Utshintsho lwendalo
Nanini na kukho utshintsho oluphazamisayo kumsebenzi wabantwana, umbuzo wokuqala ukuqwalasela ukuba ngaba akukho na utshintsho lwakutshanje olunokubangela uxinzelelo lobomi ebuntwaneni njengokuhamba, ukulahleka, umntwana olutsha, utshintsho isenzo, okanye ukungabikho kokulala.
Abantwana abane-ADHD kaninzi banokuba nexesha elinzima ukulungelelanisa utshintsho okanye iimeko ezintsha, ngoko unokubona ukuziphatha okunyukayo kuquka ukunyaniseka nokunyuka.
Kufuneka Uncedo olungakumbi
Umntwana wakho angasabela ngokusesikweni kumanyathelo akho kodwa angase afune ukungenelela okungakumbi. Oku kungabandakanya ukuphindaphinda okuphindaphindiweyo kunye nempendulo kunye neminye imivuzo enokukhawuleza kwaye enamandla. Kwakhona kunceda ukuba uqaphele iziganeko kunye nesicwangciso seemeko zengxaki kubandakanya ukudlala indima nokufundisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo. Qhubeka uhlala ungaguqukiyo, ngokunjalo.
Amacandelo okuBala abazali
Abantwana abanomdla bafumana ixesha elinzima ukulawula nokukhusela iimpawu zabo zokuziphatha kunye nezimpendulo. Basabela ngaphandle kokuqwalasela iziphumo. Kananjalo kaninzi abadibanisi izenzo zabo kwimiphumo eya kulandela, ngokukodwa kule ncinane. Yingakho izicwangciso ezicwangcisiweyo ezifana nokulungisa, ukukhumbuza rhoqo, ukulungelelanisa utshintsho, ukugcina usuku oluhle kakhulu, ukuhambisa amandla angaphezulu ngokunyakaza, ukunika ukhetho ukumnika umqondo wokulawula, ukunika izikhombisi-ndlela, kunye nokufundisa amaqhinga okuzinzisa, ngokwenene Nceda.
Vala ukuLawula nokuBheka
Qhubeka uqaphele umntwana wakho ngokusondeleyo. Uya kufuneka ahlale esongweni malunga nabantakwabo abancinane. Zama ukuqaphela izinto ezibangela ukuqhuma komntwana wakho ukuze ungenelele kwaye uqondise iindlela ezilungileyo ngaphambi kokuba uziphatha lube lonakalisayo kwaye lukhuthele. Ngaba ukutshatyalaliswa kubonakala ngathi kwenzeka ngexesha elithile?
Malunga namaxesha okutshintsha? Xa umntwana ehlaselwa? Ngaphezulu? Ukukhathazeka ngomsebenzi okanye ukuzama ukuthetha okanye ukuthetha nomnqweno?
Hlalani Uthobile, Fumana inkxaso kwaye Musa ukulibala Ukuzinakekela
Kunzima, kodwa zama ukuhlala uxolo njengoko kunokwenzeka . Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ntoni nabantwana abane-ADHD iimpawu zabo ziba nzima kakhulu kwaye zixakeke ukuba abazali baqale ukuphendula ngeendlela ezingenakusebenza ngokufanelekileyo (mhlawumbi ukuphendula ngokungahambelani okanye ukungavumelani nomsindo). Oku, ngokukhawuleza, kwandisa ukwenziwa komntwana. Ayikwazi ukuphindaphinda ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntwana ongumzali one-ADHD unzima. Kudinga ukunyamezela nokunyamekela kunye nokungenelela kwendalo kumzali. Ingakwazi ukucoca, ngoko sebenze kunye neqabane lakho okanye inethiwekhi yentsapho kunye nabahlobo ukufumana iindlela zokuzinyamekela . Ngale ndlela, unamandla kumzali ngokuzinzileyo nangokucwangcisa. Qinisekisa ukuba uhambelana kwaye, ukuba umkhaya onomzali omibini, qiniseka ukuba usekhasini elifanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunceda ukudibanisa neengcali zokuxhasa inkxaso nabazali. Unokukhangela kwakhona iqela leNkxaso yeCADD kwingingqi yakho.
Xoxa ngokucacileyo kunye nodokotela wakho wengane
Yabelana ngeenkxalabo zakho kunye nezingane zakudala.
Inqanaba eliphantsi lemithi enomdla linokucetyiswa ukuba utshintsho lwezendalo kunye neendlela zokuziphatha azivumelekanga ukuphucula kakhulu iimpawu. Ukuba umntwana wakho abekwa kumachiza, kuya kubakho ukuqapha ngokukhawuleza kwaye uthethe rhoqo kunye nogqirha ukwenzela ukuba iziphumo zecala zicitshiswe kwaye impilo yengane yakho ilungile. Ukuba umntwana wakho sele esele kumachiza, utshintsho luya kucetyiswa. Naluphi na indlela, ukuthetha ngokukhululekile nodokotela kubalulekile.