Isicwangciso seNkcazo zeNtliziyo ezisemsebenzini
Njengabantwana, izicwangciso ezithile zokuphucula uxinzelelo zenziwa ngokuqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, njengabantu abadala, sinokulibala indlela yokunciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye sizifumane sisitya. Ukukhangela izicwangciso ezintsha zokunceda uxinzelelo, unokufuna ukujonga emva 'kwiintsuku ezindala' xa wazi indlela yokuphumla. Funda malunga nezicwangciso zokuphucula uxinzelelo lwabantu abakhulileyo ezinxulumene nexesha lethu lokungabantwana, kwaye nqakraza kwiinkcukacha zolwazi olungakumbi malunga nendlela yokuzibandakanya kwindlela ophila ngayo namhlanje.
1 - Ukuhamba
Njengomntwana, ininzi lethu sichitha ixesha nje senza amabali entloko zethu. Amaphupha omhla malunga namaxesha okuzonwabisa , ukuba yinto engcono kakhulu kwinto ethile, okanye ukulala nje kwintsimi enhle yizona zinto izinto ezininzi abantwana abazi ngayo ukudala, nokwenza ngokwemvelo. Umntwana wakho ongaphakathi angakwazi ukugcina ubu bungqina obuphilayo ngelixa kunciphisa uxinzelelo, ukwandisa ukuphila kakuhle, kunye nokudala uxolo lwangaphakathi kunye nemifanekiso ekhokelwayo kunye neziboniso, zombini iindlela ezivakalayo ezinokuthi zibe yinxalenye yesikhwama sokulawula uxinzelelo.
2 - Iphule
Njengomntwana omncinci, uyababathanda okanye ubazondayo, kodwa unamathuba, wathatha. Ngokudabukisayo, abantu abaninzi abadala badibanisa ukulahla nobudenge okanye ukungahambi. Nangona kunjalo, ukulungiswa kwisitulo esichubileyo okanye ulala phantsi kwidesi yakho ukuze ukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kuzisa ukuphumla kunye nokuveliswa kwemveliso kunye neenzuzo zezempilo. Akuyena wonke umntu onokuyifumanisa nendlela yokuphila ngayo, kodwa ukuba ungayifumana indlela, ukusebenzisa i-nap kwishedyuli yakho ihlawula ngokwenene. Umntwana wakho wangaphakathi uza kukubulela.
3 - Ukufumana iiHugs ezivela kubathandekayo
Kungenzeka ukuba ngandlela-thile ebuntwaneni bakho, xa ujamelene nexesha elixinzezelekileyo, ukukhukhuka kumama (okanye omnye umthandayo) kwakwanele ukwenza kube ngcono, okanye ubuncinci kukunceda uzive ukhuselekile kwaye uzinzile. Ngamanye amaxesha siyalibala amandla okuthintela kunye nenkxaso yoluntu njengabantu abadala. Ngexesha elizayo xa ujamelene neenkhathi ezinzima, ungalibali ukufumana inkxaso yemoya evela kubahlobo. (Kwaye ukuba ulwalamano oluxhasayo, musa ukunyanzelisa amandla omzimba .)
4 - Ukudlala Nezilwanyana
Xa abantwana bedlala nezilwanyana, unokubona uthando olusulungekileyo nolwabelana ngalo. Ukuba unesilwanyana njengomntwana, mhlawumbi ukhumbule eso silwanyana njengomhlobo, nokuba ngaba i-hamster, inja okanye ihashe. Kodwa njengabantu abadala, ngamanye amaxesha sikulibala ukuxhuma kunye nabahlobo bethu bezilwanyana. Izilwanyana ziye zaboniswa ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwegazi olungcono kunamachiza, ukwandisa indlela yokuziphatha enempilo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unike inkxaso engcono yoluntu kunabantu! Vumela abahlobo bakho abanomsolo bancede ukunyamezela umntwana wakho ongaphakathi.
5 - Ukucula
Njengabantwana, sihlabelele iitoni zeengoma, ukusuka kwi-Itsy-Bitsy Spider kuyo nayiphi na into eserediyo, engenakuziqonda. Kodwa ngaba uhlala udlala ngantoni na? Qaphela ukuba unokufumana umculo omningi ebomini bakho kwaye uzivakalise ngokuvakalayo, ngokuzithelekileyo, esidlangalaleni okanye kwi-shower kuphela. Musa ukukhathazeka ngokuba ngowokubalulekileyo, jongela nje. Ukuhlabelela kungabonwa ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza, kwintambo ye-cathartic kunye nokukhululeka kokukhululeka kwengqondo.
6 - Imidlalo yokudlala
Njengabantwana, sasisoloko sidlala imidlalo. Ukusuka kwi-Chutes ne-Ladders kunye ne-Twister kwiClue kunye ne-Go Fish, sazi indlela yokuzonwabisa. Njengabantu abadala, sinokuzifumana sixakeke kakhulu ukuba singadlala imidlalo, kodwa musa ukunciphisa iingenelo zokuxinwa kwengcinezelo yomdlalo okhawulezayo weBoggle okanye eminye imidlalo. Kwaye ngoku ukuba ukhulile, umntwana wakho ongaphakathi angadlala le midlalo ngqo kwikhompyutheni yakho!
7 - Ukudweba, ukuPenda, ukuKutywa
Kuthe malunga nomntu wonke wakhupha imifanekiso njengomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, ukubonisa into engaphakathi ngeekrayoni, iipensela okanye iipende zemizi akufanele nje kube yinto yokuzonwabisa yabantwana kunye nabantu abadala abanenhlanhla ababa ngabaculi beengcali. Ingaba uhamba neepenki ngelixa usenza ikhefu emsebenzini, okanye uthenge iimpahla zorhwebo kwaye uhambe kwinqanaba lakho, ixesha lobude bakho, ubugcisa bokusebenza ebomini bakho bunokukunceda usebenze iimvakalelo, uziveze, ukhulule uxinzelelo, kwaye ushiye enye into okanye ubuncinci baxhome efrijini.
8 - Amanqaku okubhala
Njengoko sikhulile, abanye bethu babegcina idayari, kwaye mhlawumbi sonke sasinandipha amanqaku okubhala kubangane bethu. Oku kusekhona iindlela zokulawula uxinzelelo lokuzicwangcisa ukuzenza njengabantu abadala. Impilo kunye nokuxininiswa kokulawulwa kweengxelo kuboniswe ngophando, kwaye unokwazi ukubhala ngeemvakalelo zakho, ukurekhoda amaphupha akho, okanye ugcine iphepha lokubonga. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukubhalela amanqaku kwakhona kubahlobo, unokutyelela iforum, uxhumane nabanye, kwaye wabelane ngeengcamango zakho.
9 - Iqela lezemidlalo
Sonke siyakhumbula amaqela ezemidlalo njengabantwana. Ukuba ingaba ibhola le-tee-ball, ibhola lebhola, ibhola ye-dodge okanye i-hide-and-seek, ukudlala imidlalo esebenzayo kwiqela inamalungelo amaninzi kubantwana. Njengomntu omdala, imidlalo yemidlalo inokunika inkxaso yezempilo kunye nokulawulwa kwengcinezelo yokusebenza, kwaye ukubandakanyeka kweqela kunokuqinisekisa ukuba uya kuhlala kuyo. Ungakwazi ukujoyina iqela elidala lomdlalo we-softball, udlale ibhola yebhola kwi-gym yakho, okanye ujonge ezinye imidlalo ezitholakala kwindawo yakho. Vumela umntwana wakho ongaphakathi aphume kwaye adlale!
10 - Ukucinga ngekamva
Uyakhumbula iimpendulo zakho xa ubuzwa umbuzo othi, "Ufuna ukuthini xa ukhula?" Yaye, uchitha ixesha lakho ngoku? Ukuba unengcinezelo eninzi ebomini bakho, unokufuna ukuhlaziya umbuzo. Ngaba ngokwenene wenza oko uvakalelwa kukuba ufuna ukuyenza? Zibuze ukuba ubomi bakho obuhle buya kubukeka njani, uze uthathe amanyathelo okufikelela kuloo mhle.