Khetha umkhwa omnye okhangayo kuwe
Sonke sijamelana nokucinezeleka ebomini bethu kwiimilinganiselo ezahlukeneyo; ezinye zazo zingabonwa kwaye zincitshiswe, ezinye zisibangalisa kwaye zingenakukhunjulwa, kwaye ezinye zexinzelelo esizijamelana nazo zihlala zingapheli kwaye ziqikeleleka, kodwa zingasayi kugwenywa ngokupheleleyo. Eyona nto ibhetele esinokuyenza kukuba ukulawula uxinzelelo oluza kwindlela yethu kwaye sifumane iindlela ezahlukileyo zokuyiphucula . Indlela edibeneyo yokulawulwa kwengcinezelo iyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu - enye equka iindlela zokunciphisa uxinzelelo apho kunokwenzeka khona, ezinye iindlela ezisinceda sicinge ngezinto ngendlela engathintekiyo xa singenakuziphepha, kunye neendlela ezongezelelweyo ezakha ukuzinza ukuze sinokujamelana nantoni na into ezayo.
Nangona kunjalo, ininzi yethu, ngokuqondakalayo, sifuna 'umlingo wendlela' yokuxinwa kwengcinezelo - enye into esinokuyenza imihla ngemihla ukuze sikwazi ukuxinwa kwengcinezelo yosuku lokutya. Kwaye ukuba nomoya okhuselekileyo wemihla ngemihla kuya kunikahluko omkhulu kwizinga lokuxinezeleka esizivelayo. Ukubanjwa? Into enye ingaba yinto eyahlukileyo kuwo wonke umntu. Nangona ukuxinwa kweengxaki zemihla ngemihla kungekho ubungakanani obufanayo-bukho konke, kukho iindidi ezimbalwa zokuxhaswa kwengcinezelo ezisebenza ngokukhethekileyo kubantu abaninzi:
U kuhamba
Uphando lubonisa ukuba zininzi iingenelo zokungena , ngokubhekiselele kwimpilo yomzimba nangokomzwelo, okwenza ukuba kubekho ixesha elifanelekileyo lotyalo-mali olungafanelana ngokufanelekileyo kwixesha lexesha lesondlo okanye ngokuhlwa, okanye lunokudibanisa nabantu abaninzi. Unenketho ezininzi malunga nendlela yokuhlela iphepha lakho; Nazi ezinye izikhokelo zenkqubo yokubhala ngokuphumelelayo.
Ukucamngca
Ukucamngca kungathatha iindidi ezininzi kwaye kufumaneka kuzo zonke iikholi njengempilo kunye nokomoya.
Ingaba ucamngca imizuzu emihlanu okanye iyure, ufumana iintlobo ezininzi zeenzuzo ngokuzibandakanya kwaye wenze usebenze imihla ngemihla. Kwaye ngelixa iseshwankathelo esifutshane singakwazi ukuzisa iingenelo, ukusetyenziswa kwexesha elide kungakha ukuzinza. Nazi ezinye iinkonzo zokucamngca , kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokucamngca .
Ukuzivocavoca
Abaphandi bezeMpilo bancoma umthamo wemihla ngemihla yokuzivocavoca impilo efanelekileyo kunye nokuphepha kweemeko ezifana nomhlaza kunye nokukhuluphala, kunye nokuzivocavoca kwakhona kukuxininisa kakhulu. Kulabo abaya kuhamba ngeklasi, bahambe inja ekuseni okanye bafumane ezinye iindlela zokusebenza ngokomzimba kwimihla yabo, kukho iinzuzo zezempilo kwimida emininzi. Kodwa ungeke uqaphele ukuba ukuvuthwa kwandisa ukunyamezela kokunyamezela xa kuphucula ixesha elide kunye nomgangatho wobomi. Le ngenye yezinto ezinzima kakhulu zokuxinwa kwengcinezelo ukuqala nokunamathela, kodwa yenye yezona zivuyisa kakhulu. Nantsi indlela yokuqalisa.
Umculo
Izibhedlele kunye nabagqirha basebenzisa umculo kwiipropati zayo zokuphucula impilo, kwaye ungayisebenzisa ukuze unciphise uxinzelelo. Umculo unokunciphisa amava okuxinezeleka, emzimbeni nangokomzwelo, kwaye ukushiye uzive ukhululekile kwaye ukhululekile ngaphandle kokuba uphakamise umnwe. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokusebenzela umculo kumhla wakho , kwaye uya kufumana iindleko zokulawula uxinzelelo xa uyenzayo. (Umzekelo, ukudlala umculo ozithandayo ngexesha lokuhamba kwakho kunokunciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye uziva ungcono xa ufika.) Ukuba ufuna ukwenza utshintsho olulula oluye luchukumise ukuba lube lugxininisekile suku ngalunye, faka nje umculo kumhla wakho - akunandaba nokuba luhlobo olunjani nangona ukuba uyonwabile, ngoko-ke weqa i-classical (ukuba awuyithandi umculo we-classic) kwaye uvule iingoma ozithandayo!
Yenza Into Eyenza Uvuyiswe
Uphando malunga neempembelelo ezintle - kuba nesimo esihle sengqondo - sibonisa ukuba xa abantu benza izinto ezincinci eziphakamisa imizwa yabo, kudala 'ukunyuka okuphezulu' kwemizwa emihle ekhokelela, ngokulula, ukunyamezela kokunyamezela. (Ingcaciso elula ngakumbi kukuba bayandisa ulwazi lwakho ngamathuba akho, indlela yakho yokuphucula iqhubela phambili ekukhuthazeni amathuba oku, kwaye ukuthambekela kokwakha izixhobo kubangela ukuba kube nemimoya emihle; Ngoko ukwenza into encinane intsuku nganye kunokudala into enkulu kakhulu enokukunceda ukuba unqobe uxinzelelo kwaye uhlale uncumo ngobuso bakho ngexesha elifanayo.