Uphando olwenza umngeni kwizinto okholelwayo ngawe kunye nokuziphatha kwabantu
Yintoni eyenza abantu benze izinto abazenzayo? Abaculi, abalobi, iingqungquthela, izazifilosofi, izazinzulu, kunye neengqondo zeengqondo ziye zahlolisisa lo mbuzo oyintloko ngeeminyaka zeminyaka, kodwa ubuninzi malunga nengqondo kunye nokuziphatha komntu.
Sekuninzi izilingo zeengqondo zityhilele ukuqonda okuphawulekayo kwiingcamango nezenzo zethu, ekubeni siqonde uhlobo lobungendawo kwizigqibo ezimbi esizenzayo ngamanye amaxesha. Enyanisweni, ezininzi ezi zinto zifunyanisekile kwaye zicelomngeni oko ucinga ukuba uyazi ngawe.
Le mizekelo emithathu yovavanyo iphakamisa oko abaninzi abantu kunye neengcali ezininzi zesazi malunga nendlela abantu bacinga ngayo nokwenza. Uphando lunokwenza ukukhanya okutsha ngokuziphatha kwabantu. Ihlawulela ukuvulelwa ubungqina obutsha.
1 - Mhlawumbi awunayo iQaphela izigqibo zakho njengoko uthanda ukucinga ukuba unguye
Xa uhamba kwiipolon ukuvota, ubeka ivoti yakho ngokubhekiselele ekuqwalaseleni ngokucokisekileyo imiba kunye nokuqwalasela indlela iimbono zabaviwa ezibonisa ngayo iinkolelo kunye nexabiso, okulungileyo? Nangona oku kukuthi wonke umntu uyakuthanda ukukholelwa, uphando luyabonisa ukuba awukwazi kakuhle ukhetho owenzayo njengoko ucinga ukuba uyinto-into eyenziwa yiingcali ekukhethileyo .
Usebenza njani ngoku? Kwisifundo esithile, abaphandi bacela ukuba abathathi-nxaxheba bajonge imifanekiso yabasetyhini abahlukeneyo baze bathathe oko bafunyenwe kakhulu. Abaphandi babonisa ukuba abathathi-mfa nekiso womfazi ababethi babekhethiweyo. Enyanisweni, umfanekiso wawungumfanekiso ongabonakaliyo wesifazane ohlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Abathathi-nxaxheba kwisifundo bacelwa ukuba bachaze ukuba kungani bakhetha lo mfanekiso othile kwaye kutheni bafumene loo nto ibhinqa.
Ukuba abantu bebazi izigqibo abazenzayo, kuya kucinga ukuba abaninzi abantu baya kuphawula ngokukhawuleza le nkohliso. Nangona kunjalo abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba malunga nama-13 ekhulwini abathathi-nxaxheba baqaphela ukutshintsha. Mhlawumbi into ebamangalisayo kukuba, ke, ngaba abathathi-nxaxheba abaninzi baye bahamba nezizathu zokuba babakhethile umfanekiso kwaye kutheni bafumene loo nto ibhinqa. Abanye bathi banqwenela i-blondes, nangona imifanekiso ababeyifumene njengento ekhangayo ekuqaleni ibonisa i-brunette.
Kuthetha ntoni oku malunga nokukhetha esikwenzayo? Abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba ukukhetha ukungaboni akusebenzi nje kwizinto ezibonakalayo-kubandakanya nakwezinye iinjongo ezifana nokunambitha kunye nokuvumba.
Kwakhona kuthintela ukhetho esilwenzayo olusekelwe kwiintembelelo ezinzulu-iingqondo zethu zezopolitiko. Uphando lwe-2013 lufumanise ukuba abaphandi bangasebenzisa iimpendulo ezithatha inxaxheba kwimibandela ngemiba yezopolitiko kunye nabathathi-nxaxheba abayikuphela nje ukuphawula ukuba iimpendulo zabo zatshintshile, kodwa ukuba baya kuqhubeka bekhusela baze baqikelele "okukhethwa" nangona azikho iimpendulo ababezinikele kwindawo yokuqala.
Umgca ophantsi: Abantu abazi kakuhle izinto abazikhethayo kunokuba bacinga ukuba.
2 - Ukujonga ukuphumelela kwakho okunokubakhokelela ekukholelweni
Khetha enye incwadi yokuncedisa kunye nenye yeengcebiso ozifumanayo kukujonga ngempumelelo yakho ukuba ufuna ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba le ngcebiso iyinzuzo. Ucwaningo olwenziwa ngo-2011 olwenziwe kwiNgxelo ye-Experimental Social Psychology yaboniswa ukuba ukubonelelwa ngempumelelo kungekhona nje ukuphumelela- ngokwenene kwandisa amathuba okuhluleka .
Abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba ukucinga ngezinto ezintle, okanye ukucinga ngekamva elilindelekileyo, kubangele amandla angaphantsi kweengcamango ezingenanto okanye ezingathathi hlangothi. Ababhali bolu cwaningo ba bonisa ukuba iziphumo zibonisa ukuba ukubandakanya oku kuboniswa okwenene kunciphisa inani lemithombo yamandla kufuneka iqhubekele injongo.
Yintoni esebenzayo ukukhuthaza abantu ukuba bafezekise iinjongo zabo? Iingcali zibonisa ukuba ukulindela kusebenza kangcono kunengqiqo. Kwisifundo esithile, abaphandi bajonga indlela abantu abasabela ngayo kwimingeni yobomi kuquka ukufumana iqabane, ukufumana umsebenzi, ukuthatha uviwo, kunye nokuhlinzwa. Kwimiqathango nganye, abaphandi baphinde baqikelele ukuba ngaba bathathi-nxaxheba baqikelele kangakanani kwiziphumo ezintle kunye nokuba bangalindela kangakanani umphumo omhle.
Uthini umahluko phakathi kwefantasy kunye nokulindela? Nangona i-fantasy ibandakanya ukucinga ngekamva elilindelekileyo, ulindelwe ngokwenene lusekelwe kumava adlulileyo.
Bathini abaphandi? Iziphumo zityhila ukuba abo babecinga ngexesha elizayo babefuna ukugqithisa kwiimeko ezine. Abo babenelindeleke ngakumbi kwiimpumelelo kwimiba elandelayo, inyanga kunye neminyaka. Laba bantu babekho ukufumana umlingane, bafumana umsebenzi, baphumelela iimviwo zabo, kwaye baphucula ngempumelelo kwi-operesheni yabo.
Umgca ophantsi: Ukulindela okulungileyo kunempumelelo kunokuba uqikelele ngekamva elifunwayo.
3 - Abantu Bazimisele Ukuya Kakhulu (Ngezinye Amaxesha Abafileyo) Ubude obuya Kuthobela iGunya
Ukuba umphathi wakho wakuxelele ukuba wenze into owaziyo ukuba yayingalunganga, ukuziphatha kakubi, okanye kungekho mthethweni, ngaba uya kwenza oko? Ngelixa abaninzi abantu baya kuphendula umbuzo onjalo ngokuthi "Hayi," enye yezona zinto zidumileyo (kwaye ziphikisana ngokucacileyo ).
Kwinqanaba lezilingo eziqhutywe ngee-1960, isazi sengqondo senzululwazi uStanley Milgram safumanisa ukuba ama-65 ekhulwini abathathi-nxaxheba bekulungele ukunikela oko babakholelwa ukuba babenokuba buhlungu okanye mhlawumbi babulawa ngumbane komnye umntu ngenxa yokuba igunya libayala ukuba benze njalo. Enyanisweni, ixhoba lalingaphakathi kulo mvavanyo kwaye yayizenza nje ukuxhatshazwa ngamagetsi, kodwa abathathi-nxaxheba kwizifundo zikaMilgram bakholelwa ngokupheleleyo ukuba ukutshutshiswa kwakwenene.
Ucwaningo lukaMilgram lugxeke ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, kubandakanywa nemiba yokuziphatha kunye nokuxhalaba kwindlela yokuhlola, kodwa abanye abaphandi baye bakwazi ukuphendula iziphumo ze-Milgram kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Ezi mpendulo ezongezelelweyo ziye zafumanisa ukuba malunga nama-65 ekhulwini abantu baya kulandela imiyalelo, nangona kuthetha ukulimaza omnye umntu.
Kodwa ngaba ezi ziphumo zivela kwilebhu ziguqulela ngokwenene kwiimeko zehlabathi langempela? Cinga ngeentlungu zeMfazwe Yehlabathi II. Abaninzi abenza izinto ezinyantya kamva bacebisa ukuba ba landela imiyalelo baze benze oko babetshelwe ukuba benze. Imimiselo yakutshanje iquka ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwamabanjwa ngamagosa ase-Abu Ghraib okanye iziganeko zokukhwaza kwikholeji apho abafundi belimale ngexesha lokubambisana.
Umgca ophezulu: Abantu bavame ukuthobela ngakumbi kunokuba bacinga-kwaye ukuthobela igunya kunokuba yingozi ngezinye izihlandlo.
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