Ngamanye amaxesha ulwahluko phakathi kosuku oluxinzelelekileyo kunye nolunzima kunabo bonke, kwaye iicatshulwa ezimangalisa kwixinzelelo zingongeza ngokwendlela oyifunayo! Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ingqungquthela eyenziwe ngokukhawuleza ekuvulekele kwindlela entsha yokubukela imeko endala yinto omele uyenze ukubona izinto ngendlela entsha, okanye ukuba ufuna nje ukuhleka okuza kwindlela yokukhutshwa ngayo, ezi Iingcaphuno zoxinzelelo zingenza ukuba ingqondo yakho ishintshwe okanye iphakame.
Kwaye nganye icatshulwa ihamba kunye nesihloko esithile kwisimo sengqondo sokulawula uxinzelelo, kunye nekhonkco kwizixhobo ezongezelelweyo kwisihloko. Jabulela, kwaye uzive ukhululekile ukwabelana ngalabahlobo nabasenokufuna ukuphakanyiswa kwakhona.
Jane Wagner
"Eyona nto ibangela imbandezelo yokubandezeleka kwabo banxibelelana nayo."
Asikwazi ukutshintsha iimeko zethu, kwaye ukungahoyi iingxaki akuqhelekanga indlela yokujongana nabo, kodwa sinokumkela into eyiyo kwaye siyityebe ngexesha elifanayo kunye ne-humor kunye nokuxinwa okuncinci kancinci . Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokwenza oko ngempumelelo .
Yaziwa
"Jabulela, into eyona nto ingekaze ifike. Kulula, gcina ukhathazeke ngezinto ezincinci kwaye ulindele into enkulu kakhulu."
Kukulungele ukugcina imbono xa ukhathazekile ngokuthi "ntoni na" ebomini. Izicwangciso zokulondoloza kunye nokulungiswa kukuhle, kodwa ukuba wenze konke onokukwenza, kukulungele ukugxila ekuphumuleni imizimba yakho yokukhathazeka .
UJack Donaghy (iDwala eli-30)
"Imali ayikwazi ukuthenga ulonwabo; yinto yolonwabo."
Hayi ... kungekhona, kodwa isicatshulwa sasihlekisa kwaye sifanele sifakwe njengengqungquthela yokuxininisa ngokuqinisekileyo. Enyanisweni, izinto esiyicinga ukuba zisenza sivuyiswe zihlala zihluke ngokupheleleyo kwizinto ezenza sibe nolonwabo. Yintoni eyenza uvuyiswe?
Engaziwa
"Ndiye ndazama i-yoga, kodwa ndifumanisa ubunzima obukhulu."
Nangona i-yoga izisa iingeniso ezintle zokuxinwa kwengcinezelo , ukulawula uxinzelelo akukona ukulingana komlinganiselo-yonke imisebenzi. Ukuba ufumanisa ukukhathazeka ngezinye iintlobo "zokuthula" zokunceda uxinzelelo, jonga ukukhutshwa kwengcinezelo kwimisebenzi oyithokozayo.
UBill Watterson (uCalvin & Hobbes)
"Ndiya kuthi, ukuba amadolo akho ayilona eluhlaza ekupheleni kosuku, kufuneka uhlolisise ubomi bakho."
Nangona akudingekile ukuba udinga amadolo aluhlaza ukuze ubonise ukuba uyonwabela ubomi, okubonakalayo kuyisikhumbuzo esikhulu sokuba kufuneka senze izinto esizixhamlayo (phakathi kwezinto esimele senze nje ngabantu abadala), kwaye ukuba ukunandipha umzuzu ngamnye , uxinzelelo luya kuba neyona mininzi. Unokuzihlamba amadolo akho, kodwa uya kwenza ntoni ukuze ujabule namhlanje?
ESydney Harris
"Xa ndiva umntu ebubulayo, 'Ubomi bunzima,' Ndihlala ndihendwa ukuba ndibuze, 'Ukuthelekiswa yintoni na?'"
Ubomi bunzima. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukulindela kwethu kubangela uxinzelelo; xa silindele ukuba into ibe bhetele kunoko, sigxininisa ngakumbi. Ukuba sigxininisa into esinokuyibonga ngayo kwimeko nganye, sinokubona ngokuthe tye ngakumbi kwaye sizive sisincinci. Yintoni esinokuyixabisa namhlanje?
UCharles M. Shultz
"Yonke into oyifunayo yintando. Kodwa i-tshokoleta encinane ngoku kwaye ayibuhlungu."
Ngamanye amaxesha unonwabo olutyala-xa lunandipha ngokumodareyitha-lunokuba luncedo olukhulu loxinzelelo. Ngokomzekelo, i-tshokoleta inokufumana inzuzo enhle ngaphandle kokumnandi kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo xa ichithwa ngokumodareyitha.
URita Rudner
"KwiHollywood umtshato uphumelele ukuba uphumelele ubisi."
Sihleka malunga nemitshato yaseHollywood ehlala emfutshane, kodwa inyaniso kukuba imilinganiselo ephezulu yemitshato engekho e-Hollywood igqiba ngokuqhawula esinye isizathu. Ngenxa yokuba ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye nemitshato evuyayo inokuba yinto efanelekileyo yokugcina amanqanaba ophantsi, iingcebiso malunga nokugcina umtshato onolonwabo zingakugcina uxinzelelo olukhulu kwixesha elizayo.
Ziziphi iingcebiso zakho ezingcono?