Iingqungquthela ukuchaza, ukukhuthaza, nokukhuthaza
Abanye abantu babona ubomi njengemfazwe. Wonke umhlangano umzabalazo, kwaye ukuba abayiphumeli, bazive ngathi balahlekile. Abanye babecinga ubomi njengentengiso. Usuku olutsha luzisa amathuba amatsha ekuhloliseni, kwaye ukuba into ehamba kakubi namhlanje, kusoloko kusasa kusasa.
Ngokuqokelelene, izifaniso ezingabanceda nje abantu bachaze kwaye banengqiqo ebomini babo, kodwa bangaba ngumthombo wokukhuthaza, ukukhuthaza okanye ukubonga.
Kukho into eninzi ukuthetha ngayo ngemifanekiso yokuphila. Makhe sijonge ezinye zeengqungquthela eziqhelekileyo kunye nokuba zingasetyenziswa njani ukukukhuthaza (okanye kukunceda ukuba uphume kwi-rut) ebomini bakho bemihla ngemihla.
Imvelaphi yeengqungquthela
Ezi zifuzo zikhula njani? Njengabantwana, siqala ukuqonda nokuhlela ihlabathi. Ukuba sicinga ngengqondo njengekhabhinethi yokufakela, ngoko ubuntwana xa sivula ii fayile kwaye sibhala. Sivame ukuchitha ubomi bethu bonke ukubeka izinto ezintsha kwiifayile ezidala. Ukuba ubuntwaneni buphilile, ngoko ke sinokuba nenkqubo yokufakela kakuhle. Ukuba kwakumzabalazo, ngoko sihlala sibona ubunzima bobomi bethu bonke.
Asazi imvelaphi yezinto ezininzi zokuphila, kodwa abaninzi baye bazama ukuvavanya ixesha ngezizathu ezifanelekileyo. Izifaniso zisinceda njani ukuba senze ingqiqo ebomini bethu?
Ukusebenzisa iifetaphors kwi-Daily Life
Iimpawu ze-Metaphor zisisinceda sichaze kwaye sichaze amava, kodwa angasetyenziselwa ukuphucula ubomi bethu ngeendlela ezininzi.
Ukuba ujongene nomngeni, isalathisi sinokukunceda ubone umfanekiso omkhulu kwaye unike amandla; umzekelo umntu ohamba ngonyango lomhlaza unokujonga uhambo njengoko ekhuphuka entabeni.
Iingqungquthela nazo zinokubonelela umfanekiso onceda abanye bangene kwihlabathi lakho. Kuyinyaniso ukuba umfanekiso ufanelekile ngamawaka ayiwaka, kodwa umfanekiso wesimboli (isimboli) ngamanye amaxesha ungenza okufanayo.
Ekugqibeleni, isimboli esingathandekiyo sinokukunceda ubone ukuba awuzange uphile ubomi bakho ngendlela oyifunayo, kwaye unokuthi ube yintsikelelo oyifunayo ukwenza utshintsho kwangoku.
Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zobomi
Iingcamango zobomi azihlali zibonakala zikhona. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba simele sibuyele endleleni ende ukuze sibone iipateni ezifana nale nto ebomini bethu. Iingqungquthela zingaba zilungile okanye zibi. Ukususela kwindlela esibujonga ngayo ebomini-into elula kakhulu ukuyiqonda ngomfanekiso wesimboli (umzekeliso) -inokuba nempembelelo enkulu ekusebenzeni kwethu ubomi, kubalulekile ukucinga malunga neziphi izithobekiso ezingezantsi zilungele ubomi obuphila namhlanje. Le mizekelo nje, kwaye sinethemba lokuba uza kuthatha isikhashana ucinge ngezinye izalathisi ezingachaza ubomi bakho okanye zikuncede.
Umyezo
Ukuba ubona umyezo njengesiqingqiweyo ebomini bakho, unokubona ukuba ubudlelwane kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo banokulinywa njengeentyatyambo okanye imifuno. Ubudlelwane, njengeentyatyambo, kufuneka zihlambe rhoqo. Bafuna ilanga. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka bathathwe. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka udle umyezo (ukuphelisa abahlobo abanetyhefu.)
Isiphumo sokuphela kokunyamekela nokunyamekela, kunye neengenelelo ezifike ngexesha elifanelekileyo kwiintsholongwane okanye ukubola, kunokukhokelela kwizityalo (okanye ubudlelwane) ezikhulayo, ukuvelisa i-oksijini ekunceda ukuba uphefumule, kwaye udale ubuhle njengoko ziintyatyambo.
Imfazwe
Unokubona imfazwe njengesifanekiso ebomini bakho ukuba yonke into yinkcintiswano okanye umzabalazo. Ekulweni, uhlala uzuza okanye ulahlekelwa. Ukuba imfazwe ibonisa ubomi bakho, unokuba ufuna ukujonga indlela ubomi obungabi ngayo ngokuphumelela okanye ukulahlekelwa. Ubudlelwane, ngokukodwa, asisoloko lukhuphiswano. Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuba nothando kunokuba ulungile okanye uzuze.
Umsebenzi
Ukubujonga ubomi bakho njengemishini kunokuba yinto emihle okanye engalunganga. Unokuziva ukuba unetalente nezipho onqwenela ukwabelana ngazo ngokubanzi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ekukholweni ukuba unayo inyaniso, unokucinga ukuba kufuneka uqinisekise abanye ukuba i-point-of-view yakho ilungile.
Njengokuba kunye nemisebenzi kulo lonke iimbali, ubomi bakho bunokuba yiplani yokuzisa ubulungisa kwihlabathi, okanye endaweni yoko, ukubeka iinkolelo zakho kulabo abangafuni ukuva.
Uhambo
Uhambo luyinto eqhelekileyo yobomi njengoko kusikhumbuza ukuba indawo ayiyiyo yinjongo yethu kuphela. Njengawo nawuphi na uhlobo lohambo, kukho amaxesha apho iindlela zichanekile (ubomi bukho nakwi-keel) kunye namaxesha apho bahamba khona. Kukho ukuphakama kunye neentsikelelo kunye neempompo endleleni. Kwaye kukho iziganeko ezimangalisayo kunye nezinto ezonwabileyo ongazange uzibonele ukuba kwakungekho kwindlela oyikhethile.
I-Adventure
I-adventure ingaba yinto efanelekileyo yokuphila. Asisoloko sisazi apho sihamba khona, kodwa uvuyo lweendlela zethu zokuhamba (usuku nosuku oluhlala) lusishiya uvuyo kwaye silungele ukubona izinto ezintsha.
Isakhiwo
Isakhiwo sisimo esiqinileyo sokuphila kwaye sinokukhumbuza ukuba isiseko esinamandla siyadingeka ngaphambi kokwakha ngaphezulu. Emva kokuba unesiseko esiqinileyo kwindawo, nantoni na ukuba kuthetha ntoni kuwe, kulula ukuzongeza ngezantsi kunye namagumbi okuya kumela uvavanyo lwexesha kunye nemozulu.
I-Roller Coaster
I-coaster coaster ingaba ngumzekeliso wobomi ngokubanzi, okanye endaweni yoko, ichaza i-speed bumps esiye sihlangane nazo zonke. Ngokomzekelo, abantu abanomhlaza bayazi kakuhle igalelo lomqhubi we-coaster of diagnostic. Ukusebenzisa isalathisi se-coaster coaster ibonisa ukuba baninzi abantu abaye babunzima ukuqonda kakuhle. Awunakukwazi ngokupheleleyo amaqondo aphakamileyo ohambo lwakho ngaphandle kokungafani kwe-lows. Njengobungqina bwakutshanje beli qhinga, uphando ngoku lufumanisa ukuba ukufumanisa ukuba unomdlavuza utshintsha abantu ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye nokuzisa imingeni.
I Window egciniweyo-yeGlasi
Ifowuni yefestile edayiweyo ayibonakalisi nje iintlobo zezibane kunye nemibala eyenza ihlabathi lethu, kodwa ubuhle kuwo wonke umntu kunye nemeko. Ukuhlakulela isimo sengqondo sokubonga ngokuthatha ixesha lokubona into engabonakaliyo ngokukhawuleza kunokuboniswa ngolu hlobo.
Ukunyuka kweNtaba
Ukunyuka kwentaba kuyisimboli esikhulu kwiindawo ezininzi zobomi bethu. Ingakwazi ukuchaza imfundo yethu okanye amanyathelo esithathayo ekukhuphukeni kwinkampani. Ubomi kaninzi lubandakanya ama-hierarchies. Esi sifanekiso sibonisa ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha umsebenzi onzima, ukuzimisela, kunye namaxesha athile ukunyamezela ukufika apho sifisa ukuya khona. Ininzi iintaba zendlela azikho ngqo ekukhuphukeni, kodwa usikhuphe ezantsi kwimigodi ukuya kwisiqhamo esilandelayo. Ukunyamezeka kwemizwelo kukuvumela ukuba ulandele umzila njengoko wehla ngaphambi kokuba uphenduke kwikona uze uphindele kwakhona.
Uhlanga
Umncintiswano unokuba yinto ephilileyo kunye nebizo ebomini. Ngomxholo weBhayibhile wesalathiso, sibizwa ukuba sisebenze ngobomi bobomi kungekhona kuphela umvuzo. Umqhubi unokuba nesimo esifanelekileyo sokuthi "kwinqanaba lobomi" lobomi bethu, uchaza indlela ngamanye amaxesha esixakeke kakhulu sisuka kwenye indawo siya kwelinye ukuba asizange siyeke ukunandipha nayiphi na umzuzu. Ngomnye umqondo ongeyiphutha, uhlanga luyakuchaza indlela yokuhlala ihamba ngokukhawuleza, okanye ifuna ukuqhubeka neYeses.
Inkundla
Ukuba ubheka ubomi njengenkundla, inobomi bunokuba nzima. Enkundleni, yonke into ebomini ifanele ibe yinto enobulungisa. Ubomi boqobo, nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kulungile. Abantu abalungileyo bafa abatsha kunye nezigebengu zihamba mahhala. Ukuba uzama ukuphazamisa ubomi bakho kwisifanekiso senkundla yamatyala uvule ukuba udideke ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
Ukunyuka kwamatye
Amatye atyebileyo unokuba ngumzekeliso wobomi ngezindlela ezininzi. Ngengqondo engafanelekanga, amatye atyebileyo angachaza iimeko apho singakwazi ukukhululeka apho silapha phambi kokuba sifuna umsebenzi olungcono okanye indlu enkulu. Ngomnye umqondo, ukutyeba ngamatye kunokuba ngumfanekiso ococekileyo wobomi obuhlala kunye neenjongo engqondweni, kunye nolwazi olunezondo malunga namanyathelo afunekayo ukuze ufike khona.
Ngenye enye ingqiqo, njengalezo zithatha amatye awela umlambo kwintsimi yaseJapan, anokuchaza ukuba ngamanye amaxesha sithatha i-right trailer okanye sishiye endleleni yethu ukukhusela iimpembelelo ezingalunganga ukusuka nathi.
Iklasi
Ububomi igumbi lokufundela ngeendlela ezininzi kwaye zihlala zifundo ezintsha zokufunda kungakhathaliseki ubudala bakho. Esi sifanekiso sinokuba isikhumbuzo sokugcina ingqondo yakho isebenza kwaye ifunde ubomi bakho.
I ntolongo
I ntolongo ingaba ngumzekeliso wobomi obunokuziva ungalawulwa. Unokuvakalelwa kukuba awunalo ukhetho kwaye abanye banamandla. Ukuba ngaba nguwe, kunokuba luncedo ukujonga ngesoloko isitshixo ekungenako ukuphunyuka kwinkululeko yakho, kwaye oko kuthetha ntoni ebomini bokwenene. Ukufunda ukuhlaziya imeko efana nale inokutshintsha indlela ojonga ngayo kwaye utshintshe yonke into.
Ibhetri
Ibhetri ingaba ngumzekeliso wobomi bokuxutywa kunye nokuhlaziywa ebomini, njenge-drainage yamandla ngemihla enxulumene nomsebenzi, ilandelwa ngeeveki kunye neentsuku apho ziza kuphinda zizalise. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuthatha ixesha elincinci lokutshiza ixesha elide ukushiya ibhetri lakho lingenakufa (ulahlekelwe ngamandla onke).
Iinzuzo zeMpawu eziPhezulu eziNtle kunye neeNgcaciso zoBomi
Asinalo uphando oluthile olubhekisele kwiingcamango zobomi kunye nokuphila kakuhle, kodwa siyazi ukuba ukucinga okulungileyo kunenzuzo ngeendlela ezininzi. Isimo sengqondo esipheleleyo sokuthembela siye sahambelana nemilinganiselo ephantsi yomhlaza, isifo senhliziyo, isifo, isifo sokuphefumula, kunye nokusuleleka.
Ngaphantsi kwiifayile zakho zoBomi
Imizekelo elapha ngasentla imbalwa nje yeendlela zokuphila ezibonisa ubomi babantu. Ziziphi izifaniso (s) ezihambelana nobomi bakho? Ngaba bayakusebenzela okanye ngaba bangela iingxaki kwaye banciphise ukhetho lwakho? Kunokwenzeka ukutshintsha iifowuni okanye ukuguqula eyakho (njengokungongeza isitshixo kwiseli yejele) kodwa kunokuthatha inzame.
Ukuthabatha ixesha lokucinga malunga neengqungquthela ezilungele ubomi bakho zingasetyenziselwa ukufumana iipatheni ezingasebenzi kakuhle kuwe, ukukukhuthaza kwiindlela ezichanekileyo, kunye nokukunceda ukujamelana nemingcipheko sonke esinokujamelana nayo ngokukhawuleza. Cinga ngobomi bakho namhlanje, kodwa musa ukuma apho. Phinda uphinde ucinge ngempilo yakho. Ingaba ziimpawu ezixhasayo eziza kukuzisa uxolo kunye nokwaneliseka, kukunceda ufinyelele iinjongo , okanye ukuvumela ukuba ubone ubuhle obukujikelezile? Okanye ngaba ziimpawu ezichasayo ezikuphelisa ubomi bakho?
Iimpawu ezikhethiweyo ozikhethayo kufuneka zibe zimele wena, kungekhona omnye umntu. Impilo yengqondo efanelekileyo iquka ukuqulethwa kobugcisa obunceda ubone umfanekiso omkhulu wobomi bakho. Emva kokucinga malunga neengcamango zakho zobomi, funda ngezinye iindlela onokuba ngumcebisi othe tye kwaye unciphise uxinzelelo ebomini bakho.
> Imithombo:
> Kim, E., Hagen, K., Grodstein, F. et al. Ukuzikhethela kunye nokufa ngokucacileyo: I sifundo seCandelo eliPhambili. I-American Journal ye-Epidemiology . 2017. 185 (1): 21-29.