Kulula ukuchaza izifo zengqondo kunokuba uchaze impilo yengqondo
Kuye kube lula ukuchaza izifo zengqondo kunokuchaza impilo yengqondo. E-United States, i-American Psychiatric Association ngokuqhelekileyo ibe yintlangano ekuchazeni ukukhathazeka kwengqondo (ukuqala ukususela ngo-1917 xa yaziwa ngokuba yi-Association of Superintendents of American Institutions of Insane). Kutshanje, abaninzi baye babona ukuba impilo yengqondo ingaphezu kokungabikho kwengqondo yengqondo.
Nangona abaninzi bethu bengabandezeleka ngenxa yengxaki yokugula ngengqondo, kuyacaca ukuba abanye bethu baphila impilo engcono kunezinye. Nazi iimbono ezimbalwa eziye zafakwa phambili njengempawu zempilo yengqondo.
Ikhono Lokunandipha Ubomi
Ukukwazi ukuzonwabisa ubomi kubalulekile kwimpilo yengqondo. UJames Taylor wabhala ukuba "Imfihlelo yobomi iyonwabela ukuhamba kwexesha, nasiphi na isilumko sinokuyenza. Indlela yokucamngca ngengqondo yindlela enye yokuhlakulela ukukwazi ukuzonwabisa ngoku. Thina, kunjalo, kufuneka sicwangcise ikamva ngamanye amaxesha; kwaye kufuneka sifunde nakwixesha elidlulileyo. Ngokusoloko sizenza sibuhlungu ngoku ngokukhathazeka ngekamva. Ubomi bethu bezinto ezibalulekileyo zivumela ukuba sinandiphe ubomi.
Ukuhlaziya
Ukukwazi ukubuyisela emuva kwiinkathazo uye wabizwa ngokuthi "ukuzinza." Kuye kwaziwa ngokude ukuba abanye abantu baphatha uxinzelelo olungcono kunabanye.
Kutheni ezinye iVietnam zilwa nabasemagunyeni abakhubazekile ubomi, ngelixa abanye baba ngama-senators e-United States? Kutheni abanye abadala abakhuliswa kwiintsapho ezinxilisayo benza kakuhle, ngelixa abanye bebuhlungu ngokuphindaphindiweyo ebomini? Isiqalo 'sokuqina' sabiwe ngabo bajamelana nokunyamezeleka.
Ukulingana
Ukulinganisela ebomini kubonakala kubangela impilo engqondweni.
Sonke sifanele silinganise ixesha esichithwe kuluntu kunye nexesha esichithwa yedwa, umzekelo. Abo bachitha lonke ixesha labo bodwa bangabhalwa ngokuthi "baxhamli," kwaye banokulahlekelwa ezininzi zezakhono zentlalo. Ukuzihlukanisa ngokubanzi kwezentlalo kungabangela ukuhlukana kunye nenyaniso. Abo bangayihoyiyo imfuneko yezinye iimeko ezizimeleyo banokubeka umngcipheko lolo hlobo. Ukulinganisa ezi zimbini iimfuno kubonakala kubalulekileyo - nangona sonke siyalinganisa ngokuhlukileyo. Ezinye iindawo apho ibhalansi ibonakala ibalulekile ibandakanya ukulinganisela phakathi komsebenzi kunye nokudlala, ibhalansi phakathi kokulala nokuvuka, ukulinganisela phakathi kokuphumla nokuzilolonga, kunye nokulinganisela phakathi kwexesha elichithwe ngaphakathi kunye nesikhathi esichithwa ngaphandle.
Ukuzinza
Sonke siyazi abantu abanengcamango enzima. Akukho nxalenye yengxoxo inokutshintsha izimvo zabo. Abantu abanjalo bahlala bezinzela ukuxinezeleka ngokunyanisekileyo kwabo balindele. Ukusebenza ekwenzeni kwethu ukulindela ukuguquguquka kunokuphucula impilo yethu yengqondo. Ukuguquguquka ngokomzwelo kunokubaluleka njengengqondo yokuguquguquka. Abantu abanempilo yengqondo bafumana uluhlu lweemvakalelo baze bavumele ukuvakalisa le mvakalelo. Abanye abantu bavale iimvakalelo ezithile, befumanisa ukuba azivunyelwanga.
Ukunyaniseka kwengqondo kunokubangela ezinye iingxaki zempilo yengqondo.
Ukuzimela ngokwabo
Yintoni esiyenzile ngezipho esiye sinikwe zona? Sonke siyazi abantu abaye banqumla amandla abo kunye nabanye abonakala bechitha izipho zabo. Okokuqala sifuna ukuqaphela izipho zethu, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye inkqubo yokuqaphela iyinxalenye yendlela eya kwi- self-actualization . Abantu abanempilweni ephilileyo bayaqhubeka ekusebenziseni amandla abo. Ukuze sikwenze oku, kufuneka siqale sizive silondekile.
Ezi zimbalwa nje zeengcamango ezibalulekileyo ekuzama ukuchaza impilo yengqondo. Ukukwazi ukudala ubudlelwane obuhle nabanye kubalulekile.
Impilo yengqondo yabantu abadala kunye nabasetyhini zibandakanya iingcamango zokuzithemba nokuziphatha ngokwesini. Indlela esijongene ngayo nokulahlekelwa kunye nokufa kwakhona kubaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yengqondo.
> Umthombo:
> Taylor, James, 1977. Imfihlo O 'Life Album: JT; Amava obuchwephesha kwiminyaka engama-25 njengomsebenzi wezonyango wezengqondo.