Kutheni abashadile beGay amadoda kunye namaLesbi bengaba ngabokugqibela
Amaqabane abantu abesilisa nabasetyhini basoloko beyokugqibela ukuba bazi ngokukhohlisa kwabo babini babo. Abantu abesilisa abangamaLesbi, amadoda angama-gay, okanye abantu abathandana nabo abatshatileyo abatshatileyo abatshatileyo baya kuphumelela ukufihla ukuxhatshazwa kwabo ngokwesondo iminyaka emininzi. Ukufihla intleko akusoloko kunzima kubo.
Unokwazi Njani Ukuba Umlingani Wakho Ungumntu We-Gay okanye uLesbian okanye uBisual?
Ngokwenene, ngaphandle kokuba iqabane lakho livuma ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokwesondo, awukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo.
Izinto ezibizwa ngokuba yimpawu zengqungquthela, njengendlela yokugqoka, iintetho, ukuhamba, ukujonga, ukhetho lwezesondo zesilwane, ukungasebenzi kwe-erectile, ukubukela i-porn, ukuziphatha kakubi komntu, ukuzithengela okanye ukuxhoma kunye nabahlobo bobulili obufanayo zihlala ziphethe iimpawu zokuziphatha kwabantu abathandana nabo.
Musa ukuya kwizigqibo
- Ungacingi ukuba umthandi wakho ungumlingani okanye umlingani wesibini ukuba akafuni ukulala ngesondo nawe. Kukho ezinye ezininzi izizathu zokungabikho komnqweno wesini.
Ukunxibelelana ngokunyanisekileyo yindlela efanelekileyo
- Thetha kunye nomlingane wakho kwaye ubonise ukukhathazeka kunye nokwesaba. Ukuba iqabane lakho lingayi kuthetha nawe nge-sex libido ye-sex okanye enye imibandela emtshatweni wakho, kufuneka ufune isiluleko somtshato.
Xa Kuyisikhathi Sokuhambela Ubomi Bakho
Akunandaba nokuba ulwalamano lwakho lomlingani wesini, ukuba ngaba ezininzi zezi nkcazo zichaza umtshato wakho, kufuneka uzibuze ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukutshata nomntu onokuthembela kancinci kwaye ongabonakali ukuba uyakukhathalela ukuba umtshato wakho uhlala.
- Umlingani wakho akayi kubona umcebisi nawe.
- Nina bobabini ubonakala bekhetha ukukhetha-nye.
- Ukungafuneki komtshato wakho kuye kwanda.
- Nawubini ugcina amanqaku malunga nobani owenzayo nini.
- Awunakuboni nantoni na ngaphandle kweempazamo zakho kunye neendlela ozifunayo ukuba azitshintshe.
- Ubomi bakho bobulili kunye nomnye buye lwaphela.
- Uhamba ngamaqanda e-eggshell malunga nomlingane wakho ukuphepha ingxabano.
- Ababini benu bayeka ukufumana imihla okanye ixesha kunye kunye.
- Uziva uzixakeke, ukhubazekile, okanye unqatshelwe.
- Uziva unqanyuliwe omnye komnye.
- Ukuthembela emtshatweni wakho kuye kwaye kwaphuka kwimeko apho ucinga ngokuhlola ulingane wakho.
Nangona ukuba unamathele kwintuthuzelo nokhuseleko, zibuze-Ngaba ufuna ngokwenene ukunyathela emtshatweni wokufa?
Ukuba awukwazi ukubona naluphi na ukukhanya ekupheleni kombane, kwaye nangona mhlawumbi kungenye yezona zigqibo ezinzima kunakuze ufanele ukwenze, kufuneka uvula amehlo akho kwinto eyenzekayo kwaye mhlawumbi ulandele indlela entsha. Umcebisi angakunceda uhambe ngendlela yakho ngokusebenzisa le nkqubo yokwenza izigqibo.
Uninzi lwabantu luyazi nje ezintliziyweni zabo ngexesha lokuhamba.