Iingcebiso zokunceda abazali bazi ukuba nini ixesha lokufumana uncedo lobuchwepheshe
Xa abantwana beqhubeka bevakalelwa yecala, kungabikho uphawu olubalulekileyo lokulumkisa. Abazali nabanakekeli babantwana banokufunda ukufumanisa xa isohlwayo lingabonakalisa ukuphazamiseka kwengxaki yokudakumba kunye nokuhlaziywa kwengcinezelo kunye necala kubafundi.
Yintoni Inkohlakalo?
Ukutyala kuyimvakalelo yendalo yonke kangangokuba bonke abantu baya kuziva ngelo xesha ebomini babo.
Abantu bavame ukuba netyala xa besenza (okanye bengenzi nto) ephula inkolelo okanye ixabiso.
Nangona kunjalo, iimvakalelo ezigqithiseleyo kunye neengxaki ezingapheliyo ziqhelekileyo kubantwana abaneengxaki zokudandatheka, njengengxaki enkulu yokudandatheka, iziphazamiso eziphazamisayo kwi-bipolar disorder kunye ne-dysthymia. Umntwana onenkxwaleko unokuzigxeka nayiphi na into engaphumelekanga, nangona kungabikho kolawulo lwakhe.
Ngelishwa, iimvakalelo zetyala zivame ukuvelisa ezinye iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo, ezinjengokudakumba, ukungabi nantoni , nokungathembeki . Umntwana onenkxwaleko unokuziva enetyala ngenxa yokungakwazi ukubandakanya imisebenzi yakhe yemihla ngemihla, eyenza ukuba azive engakumbi.
Xa Ukugwenxa Kungabonisa Uxinzelelo
Ngenxa yokuba isono sinomdla oqhelekileyo, kunokuba nzima ukukwazi xa kusabela ngokufanelekileyo kwaye xa kungaba ngumqondiso wento engakumbi, njengokudandatheka.
Abazali kunye nabanakekeli bangase baqale ngokubuza umntwana ukuba uziva unetyala ngani kwaye kutheni.
Ukuba unencazelo engqiqo yeemvakalelo zakhe kunye netyala lakhe liphela nje iintsuku ezimbalwa, kunokusabela ngokufanelekileyo.
Abazali banokufumana ulwazi malunga nokuziphatha komntwana kubantakwabo, amanye amalungu omndeni kunye nootitshala. Ingaba umntwana ubonisa kuphela iimvakalelo ekhaya, okanye umntwana ubonisa le mpawu, nokuba esikolweni okanye xa edlala nabahlobo?
Ukuqwalaselwa kwabanye kunokunceda ukunika abazali umfanekiso opheleleyo weimeko ezikhoyo.
Ukuba akukho kubonakala ngathi ingcaciso enengqiqo yemvakalelo yomsana wecala okanye iimvakalelo zomntwana zibonakala zingenakuqhathaniswa nale meko, qhagamshelana nezonyango okanye zempilo yengqondo. Oku kuhamba kabini xa ubona naziphi na ezi zilandelayo iimpawu ezibuhlungu.
- Iimvakalelo zakhe ziyanda
- Ukuthotywa kuhleli ngaphezu kweeveki ezimbini
- Unempawu ezongezelelweyo zokudandatheka kubantwana
- Akakwazi ukusebenza kwimisebenzi yakhe yemihla ngemihla
- Unengcinga okanye izenzo zokuzilimaza okanye ukuzibulala
Ikhonkco Phakathi Kobugwenxa nokuxhalabisa
Iimvakalelo zecala ziyimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokukhathazeka ngokuxhalabisa, ngoko kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ukuzithemba ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokuqhubekayo kwedwa akusoloko kubonisa ukuxinezeleka. Ingaba umntwana wakho uziphathe ngendlela exhalabileyo ekuphenduleni kwezinye iimeko?
Ngaba unengxaki yokukhathazeka okanye unamalungu omndeni akwenzayo? Kuya kufuneka ukuba uqwalasele zonke ezi zinto ngelixa uzama ukujonga ukuba iimvakalelo zomntwana wakho ziphilile okanye cha.
Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga neemvakalelo zomntwana okanye iziphathamandla zakho, khuluma nogqirha wezempilo okanye yengqondo yengqondo ukuba uhlaziywe ngumntwana wakho. Ngokukhawuleza umntwana wakho ufumana unyango olufanelekileyo, kungekudala umthwalo wesono esingadingekile unokuphakanyiswa.
Ukuba umntwana wakho okanye omnye umntu owaziyo unokuzibulala, qhagamshelana neNational Prevention Prevention Prevention 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255).
Imithombo:
Ukudandatheka kunye nokuzibulala kwabantwana nakwi-Adolescents. Impilo Yengqondo: Ingxelo Yogqirha Jikelele.
Abantwana kunye nabantwana abakhulileyo bafumana njani ukuxinezeleka? Isizwe seSizwe kwiMpilo yengqondo.