Iimpawu kunye neempawu zokudandatheka kwabantwana
Ukuze uqaphele ukucindezeleka kubantwana, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele iimpawu kunye neempawu zokuzijonga. Ngenxa yokuba abantwana bengabonakali njengabantu abadala ekuvakaliseni iimvakalelo zabo, akunakwenzeka ukuba baya kuza kuthi bathi "Ndidandathekile" njengomntu omdala onokukwenza. Enyanisweni, abanokuzibonela bona ukuba into engekho yesiqhelo.
Abantwana bahlala kwihlabathi elilawulwa ngabantu abadala kwaye banokuziva bengenamandla kwinto eyenzekayo kubo. Oku kubeka uxanduva kithi njengabantu abadala ukujonga iimpawu zeengxaki kunye nokunceda abantwana bakwazi ukuhlangabezana.
Iimpawu zokwazisa zokudandatheka kubantwana ziwa phantsi kwiindidi ezine ezahlukeneyo: iimpawu zengqondo, iimpawu zengqondo (ezo zibandakanya ukucinga), izikhalazo zomzimba kunye nokuguquka kokuziphatha. Akuyena wonke umntwana odibeneyo ohlangabezana nazo zonke iimpawu.
Izimpawu Zengqondo Zengcinezelo Kubantwana
Imvakalelo engumzekelo okanye iimvakalelo ezibangelwa ngabantwana abaneengcinezelo ziquka:
- Usizi - Umntwana unokuziva ecinezelekile kwaye engenathemba. Basenokukhala ngokulula. Abanye abantwana baya kufihla iinyembezi zabo ngokukhutshwa.
- Ukulahlekelwa kwintlalo okanye inzala - Umntwana oye wahlala ethanda ukudlala imidlalo, umzekelo, unokugqiba ukugqiba ukungazameli iqela kulo nyaka. Basenokukrokra ukuba bazive "bebuhlungu" okanye balawule isithembiso sokuthatha inxaxheba kumsebenzi, abaye bahlala bekunandipha kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- Ukuxhalabisa - Umntwana unokuxhalabisa, kunye nexhala. Umthombo wokuxhalaba kwabo unokukunika inkcazelo kwizinto ezibangela ukuxinezeleka kwabo.
- Ingxubusho - Umntwana unokuziva exhalabile kwaye ecasulwa. Baya kuhlutha okanye baphuphe ngentukuthelo ngenxa yesigxina abaziva ngayo.
Iimpawu zeCressiness of Depress in Children
Isimo sokudandatheka singabangela iingcamango ezingalunganga, ezizimeleyo.
Ezi nkqubo zengcamango ezinokuthi zinganceda ukuqhubela phambili ingxaki kuba bangela ukuba umntwana anganyangeki kumagama akhuthazayo okanye iingcebiso. Xa ukuxinezeleka kuphakamisa, umntwana uya kuba mkhulu ukufumana uncedo. Imiqondiso yokukhangela yile:
- Iingcamango ezinzima zokucwangcisa - Abantu abanexinzelelo bahlala benengxaki yokugxila okanye ukukhumbula. Kubantwana, oku kungabonakaliswa iingxaki esikolweni okanye ukungakwazi ukugqiba imisebenzi.
- Umbono ongalungileyo - Abantu abanexinzelelo bangaba neengxaki, bazibona bona, ubomi babo kunye nehlabathi labo ekukhanyeni okubi.
- Ukungabi nantoni kunye netyala - Abantwana abaxinezelekileyo banokugqithisela ngenxa yeempazamo zabo kunye nokwehluleka kwabo, bazive benetyala elikhulu, baze bathi bangenanto.
- Ukungenakunceda kunye nokuphelelwa lithemba - Abantwana abacinezelekileyo bakholelwa ukuba akukho nto abanokuyenza ukuze banciphise iimvakalelo zabo. Ngokukodwa, umntwana onesifo se-dysthymia angaqonda ukuba le "yindlela nje" kuba eli liphela liva.
- Imiva yokuzihlukanisa - Umntwana oye wathatyathwa rhoqo uya kuba nobuhlungu kakhulu kwiinkwenkwezi zakhe.
- Iingcamango Zokuzibulala - Iingcamango zokufa azigcini kuphela kubantu abadala. Abantwana banokufisa ukuba bafile kwaye bavakalise ezi ngcamango.
Izibonakaliso zenyama zoxinzelelo kubantwana
Ukudandatheka akukhona nje ukugula kwengqondo. Kubangela ukuba utshintsho kuthi ngokomzimba ngokunjalo.
- Utshintsho kwisondlo okanye ubunzima - Abantu abaninzi abanexinzelelo bafumana ukuba ukutya kwabo kunciphisa okanye kwanda. Abantwana abanesidlo esinempilo banokuphelelwa ngumdla ngokukhawuleza. Abantwana banokuphendula ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kodwa badla kakhulu ukuzinyamekela zabo iimvakalelo.
- Ukuphazamiseka kokulala - Abantwana abanexinzelelo banokuba nobunzima bokulala baze bahlale belele xa besenza. Basenokuvuka kusasa okanye balele. Basenokuba neengxaki zokuhlala bephapheme emini esikolweni.
- Ubuqhophololo -Iintsapho zixinezelekile zihlala zixoxa, zisabela, zihambe zihambe. Basenokungabi nxaxheba kwaye badlale ngaphezu kwexesha eliqhelekileyo.
- Ukuxhalabisa - abantwana abadandathekileyo bangabonisa iimpawu zokuphazamiseka ngokukhupha okanye bengakwazi ukuhlala.
Iimpawu zokuziphatha koxinzelelo kubantwana
Le miqondiso iya kuba yinto ecacileyo kwaye kulula ukuyifumana.
- Ukuphepheka nokuhoxiswa - Abantwana abanexinzelelo banokuphepha yonke imihla okanye imisebenzi enomdla kunye noxanduva. Basenokurhoxisa kubahlobo kunye nosapho. Igumbi lokulala lingaba yindawo eyithandayo yokuphepha kwaye ufumane ukuhlala wedwa.
- Ukunamathela kunye nokufuna - Umntwana ogxininisekile unokuxhomekeke ngakumbi kulwalamano oluthile kwaye aziphathe ngendlela yokunyaniseka.
- Imisebenzi engaphezulu - Umntwana ogxininisekile unokubonakala engenakho ukulawula malunga nemisebenzi ethile. Unokuchitha ixesha elide edlala umdlalo wevidiyo okanye ukondla ngokutya.
- Ukungenasiphelo - Ukungazinzi okuziswayo ngokudakumba kunokukhokelela ekuziphatheni okunjalo njengokungabonakali, ukwenza umsebenzi eklasini, okanye ukuziphatha kakubi
- Ukuzilimaza - Abantu abanexinzezelekileyo bangabangela intlungu okanye bathathe ingozi eyingozi. Ukuzilimaza ngumzekelo omnye wokuziphatha okunjalo.
Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba umntwana uxinezelekile, isinyathelo esilandelayo sifuna uncedo lwezakhono ekufumaneni ukuxilongwa nokunyangwa.