Amandla Afanelekileyo Angabakho!
Ukuzithethelela okungafanelekanga kunye namandla angalunganga kunokuchaphazela ngeendlela ezininzi kwaye kukubangela uxinzelelo olongezelelweyo. Ngenxa yoko, ukuphucula ukuzithetha ngokwakho kukubalulekileyo indlela yokunciphisa uxinzelelo ebomini bakho. Unokukunceda uhlale unesimo esihle sengqondo-esiza kukunceda ngokuzithetha-ngokuzenzekelayo ngamandla enu ebomini bakho.
Unokufumana oko ngokufaka izinto ezilandelayo ebomini bakho:
Umculo ophakamisa
Ukuphulaphula umculo ongekho nje ingoma yomculo oqabulayo kodwa umyalezo ophakamisayo, unokuba luncedo ekuphuhliseni intetho efanelekileyo. Ngaba uke wahlabelela ingoma 'entanyeni yakho' kwiiyure ezimbalwa okanye iintsuku, amazwi aphinda abuyele engqondweni yakho? Ukuba loo maculo ayakhawuleza kwaye ayakhuthaza, loo nto yayiyinto enhle. Ingqondo engcono kakhulu yengqondo yokuba neengxolo, ukugxekwa okanye iingcamango zokuzikhawulela, okanye iingoma eziye zineengoma ezidakisayo okanye ezibuhlungu. (Xa amaxesha enzima, ndihlala ndicinga ngeklasi yeWilson Phillips, "Gcina" , kodwa kukho ininzi yezinto ezilungileyo ngaphandle apho). Kukho nezinye iingeniso kumculo wokuxinwa kwengcinezelo , ngoko ke isicwangciso esiqilileyo sokugcina engqondweni.
Books Inspirational
Iincwadi ezinamandla, amandla akho, ukukhanyisa, okanye ukuzinceda kunokuba luncedo ekuncedeni utshintshe umbono wakho nezinto ozixelela zona.
Esikhundleni sokubangela iingcamango zokuzikhusela, unokufumana ucinga ngezinto ezintsha ezinokuyenza xa amaxesha enzima. (Ukutshintsha iiparadim yakho, ndiyathanda uGary Zukav "Inhliziyo yoMphefumlo", okanye uSara Ban Breathnach weklastiki "Okulula Kulula".) Unokufunda kwakhona iincwadi kwizinto eziqhelekileyo okanye ezithile zokulawula uxinzelelo ukuze utshintshe ulwalamano lwakho lonke noxinzelelo.
Nazi ezinye zeencwadi zam ezizithandayo ekulawuleni uxinzelelo , kuquka nam.
Abantu abahle
Enye yezona ndlela ezibalulekileyo ongayifumana (kunye nokugcina) amandla angileyo ebomini bakho yinkampani ogcinayo. Ngaba abahlobo bakho bayakuphakamisa, okanye bakulethe? Ngaba zibalulekile, okanye ziyancedisa? Ubuhlobo obulungileyo bubonelela ngenkxaso xa uhlehla, ujabule xa usuphelile, ubulumko xa ulahlekile, kwaye unobulumko. Abahlobo abalungileyo banokukukhuthaza ukuba ufikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, kwaye ubone amandla akho nangona ungahlali. Qaphela indlela abahlobo bakho abakwenza ngayo ukuba uzive, kwaye ukuba bengaphantsi kokuxhasa, qalisa ukubeka amandla kunye nexesha lakho kubantu abalungele ukuba ngumhlobo wakho. (Funda ngokubanzi ngenkxaso yoluntu nakubungane beli sayithi.)
Zenza iziqinisekiso
Iimpawu ezintle ziyakwazi ukutshintsha ngokuzenzekelayo ukuzithetha kwakho kwizinto ezimbi ukuya ezilungileyo. Oku kungenza umehluko omkhulu ebomini bakho ngeendlela ezininzi. Ukuba ubona izinto ezininzi ngokwemigangatho yamathuba kunokuba kunqongophe - njengento enokuyenza ngaphandle kokungenako, kwaye uqale ukugxila ngakumbi kwizisombululo kunengxaki, kwaye oku kunokunciphisa amanqanaba akho oxinzelelo ngokukunceda uzive ungakumbi ukulawula. Jonga eli nqaku ngeendlela ezithile zokudala ukuze uqale usebenze iziqinisekiso ezintle ebomini bakho.
Yenza Ukucamngca Ngomusa Wothando
Olu hlobo lokucamngca alusebenzi nje ukulula, kodwa lunokwandisa iimvakalelo zakho, amandla akho okuxolela, kunye nolwazi lwakho lokuxhamla nabanye. Kwakhona kunokunyusa ukwamkela kwakho, oku kunokukunciphisa uxinzelelo ngokwalo. Lo msebenzi uzisa iinzuzo eziqhelekileyo zokucamngca, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba wenze. Kuquka ukugxila kwiimvakalelo ezilungileyo kuqala, uze uzikhulise nakwabantu abanomdla kakhulu, ngokokuba ngabahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo, ke abo basekuhlaleni kwakho, ilizwe lakho, kunye nehlabathi jikelele ukuya kwisiqulatho esandayo sabantu.
Thatha Iingcinga Zakho Eziziwayo
Ukuba usichitha ixesha ucinga ngezinto ezinokuthi uzilungiselele ukulungisa iingxaki, uya kuziva ungagxininiswa kakhulu kunokuba uchitha ixesha ekuphumeni , ugxile kwiimvakalelo ezimbi oye wazifumana kumava adlulileyo. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ugxininise kakhulu kwizinto ezingalunganga, zenze ngenyameko ingqondo yakho kwizinto ezilungileyo ebomini bakho, okanye ubuncinci kwinto enokuyenza ukufudlulela kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo xa usuqwalasele iimvakalelo zakho. Ukugxininisa ekudaleni ubomi obunzulu obungakumbi kunokukunceda ukuba uzive unamandla angakumbi kuwo onke. Ukugcina iphepha lokubonga ngenye isicwangciso esilungileyo kule nto - uzisa amandla enu ngokwakho ngokucinga ngezinto zonke eziphambili ebomini bakho imihla ngemihla, kwaye ke unayo irekhodi elihle ukuba ufunde emva koko xa ufuna i-pick-me- phezulu. (Funda ngokubanzi malunga nokuba kutheni iimvakalelo ezintle zikunceda uxinzelelo .)