Ukunyaniseka kunye nokugwenxa kuyimifanekiso ebomvu
Ngenxa yokuba uxinzelelo luqala ekuqaleni kwasebuntwaneni, abazali abachaphazelekayo bahlala becinga ukuba kukho izibonakaliso zokubandezeleka zokubukela kubantwana babo abancinci.
Ngokomxholo we- Journal of Clinical Child kunye ne-Adolescent Psychology , iimpendulo ezahlukahlukeneyo zenziwa ngabantwana basenkulumeni abadandathekileyo okanye besengozini yokufaka iimpawu, kunye nabantwana ababengenalo.
Ukungena phakathi kweempawu, ezinjengentloni ekhulu kunye nezikhalazo ezingakhange zichazwe, zidibene neempawu ezidityanisayo kwabanye abantwana.
Ekufundeni kwabo abaneminyaka emi-3 ukuya kweyesi-5 ubudala, bafumanisa ukuba abafana abadandathekileyo nabangengozini babonisa ingqumbo kunokuba nayiphi na enye iqela lokufunda kwaye iintombazana ezidandathekileyo nangobungozi babonisa ukudabuka ngokubanzi.
Oku kufunyaniswa kukubonisa ukuba iimpawu zengqondo zengqondo zisenokuba yixesha lokudandatheka kwabantwana. Ukongezelela koko, kubonisa ukuba le mpendulo yeemvakalelo ihluke phakathi kwamakhwenkwe namantombazana.
Izibonakaliso eziNyelelweyo zokuNyunyukiswa
Abazali bamele baqaphele iimpawu ezongezelelweyo zokudakumba ezingabonakala kubantwana abancinci. Abantwana abasebancinci banako ukukwazi ukuvakalisa oko bakuvakalelwa kunabantwana abadala okanye abadala. Kunoko, banokubambelela kumzali kwaye banqatshelwe ukuba bahlukane ngenxa yokwesaba into eyenzekayo embi, bahlala bekhalaza ngezifo ezingavaliyo zomzimba ezingenazo izizathu zonyango, okanye ukwenqaba ukuya esikolweni okanye ukushiya ekhaya.
Abazali, ootitshala okanye abanakekeli bangabika ukuba umntwana "akabonakali ngathi."
Ngokungafani nabantu abadala, apho iimeko ezidandathekileyo kunye ne-anhedonia zizinto eziphambili zokwenza ukuxilongwa koxinzelelo, ukucasula kubonakalisa uphawu lokudakumba kwabantwana kwaye ngokwenene kubangela ukuxilongwa kwengcinezelo yobuntwana, ngokwe- DSM-IV .
Ukutshatyalaliswa kungafika ngendlela yokuthukuthela, ukuphendula ngendlela engafanelekiyo, okanye nje ukukhathazeka.
I-Anedonia, okanye ukungakwazi ukufumana ukuzonwabisa, kuxhamla kakhulu kunye nokudakumba kwaye kunokuchongwa ngokucacileyo ngeminyaka eyi-3. Kubantwana, i-anthoniya ibhalwe ngokungakwazi ukufumana injabulo kwimidlalo efanelekileyo.
Yintoni ongayenza Ukuba uxhalabele
Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho omncinane unempawu zokudakumba, tyelela udokotela wezingane kuqala. Ugqirha unako ukulawula naluphi na uhlobo lwesifo esingabangela iimpawu zakhe.
Xa ugula ukukhubazeka, yenza umntwana wakho ahlolwe ngumqeqeshi wezempilo yengqondo oqeqeshwe ukuba asebenze nabantwana kunye nokuphathwa kwezifo zengqondo. Iingcali ziya kuhlola umntwanakho kwaye zifumane isigxina esifanelekileyo kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, unyango .
Ukuqaphela kwangaphambili ukuxinezeleka kubaluleke kakhulu, ngakumbi kubantwana. Unyango oluphumelelayo lunokunciphisa ubunzima bexesha lokudakumba kwengane.
Imithombo:
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UJoan L. Luby, MD, uMarilyn J. Essex, Ph.D., uJeffrey M. Armstrong, MS, uMarjorie H. Klein, Ph.D., uCarolyn Aahn-Waxler, Ph.D., uJill P. Sullivan, MS , kunye noHl Hill Goldsmith, Ph.D. Ukwahlukana kobulili kwiRactivity Reactivity kunye nase-KZN abasengozini yokufunda: Impembelelo yoBugcisa obuPhezulu beNkcazo yokuThuthukiswa kweSchools. I-Journal ye-Clinical Child kunye ne-Adolescent Psychology . Julayi 2009. 38 (4): 525-537.
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