Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, abatsha abanakho ukukhula okufunekayo ukujongana nemingcipheko kunye noxanduva olunxulumene ngesondo. Kwaye, xa bejika ekuziphatheni kakubi ngokwesondo ukuhlangabezana neengxaki zabo zokudakumba nokungafaneleki, kunokudala ezininzi izimo eziguqula ubomi, ezifana nokukhulelwa, ukukhupha isisu, izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo kunye nobuzali.
Kutheni abantu abasebasha bebandakanyeka kwi-Sexual Risk
Ephulwe phantsi kwinqanaba elilula, le miqathango yonke isuka kwixinzelelo kunye nokuzithoba. Aba bafana baziva bebuhlungu ngabo kwaye badinga kakhulu uthando kunye nokuvunywa. Iimvakalelo ezithandanayo zesondo zivakalelwa njengezibonakaliso zothando. Amantombazana asetsheni angaphinda afune ukuzalisa ukungabikho ebomini babo ngokukhulelwa ngokuzithandela ukuze babe nomntwana ukuba bathande.
Ngubani Osemngciphekweni
Bonke abantu bayabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kokuba kukho ingxaki yengqondo okanye yenyama eyikhuselayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufikelele kwiminyaka yobudala, sekuyisikhathi sokuba uqale ukuwaqwalasela njengezilwanyana zesini.
Abantwana abanesimo esiqinileyo sokuzihlonela kunye nokuzihlonipha abayi kuhlonyelwa kwiimfuno zesondo, kodwa baya kuziphatha ngeendlela ezivuthiwe. Iintsholongwane ezithandabuzwayo ngokwabo zizinto ezizibakalayo zithatha izigqibo ezingenangqiqo ngesondo.
Imiqondiso Yesixwayiso Kubazali Ukufuna
Ngaphandle kokuba ube nolwalamano oluvulekileyo kunye nomntanakho, ungeke ukwazi ukuba bayabelana ngesondo kuze kubekho ingxaki ekhuphayo njengokukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, ukugula okanye ingxaki yobunzima.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uthandana, cinga ukuba kungenzeka ukuba baya kulala ngesondo. Ukuba unenhlanhla yokuba nobudlelwane obukhulu kakhulu nomntwana wakho, banokuza bacele uncedo. Ukuba akunjalo, unokufumana iimpawu zokukhulelwa okanye uqinisekiso lokuba umntwana wakho ufuna ixesha lokuba yedwa kunye nekhenkce okanye intombi kwixesha langasese.
Noko ke, iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo kukuba, ukuba usebenze kunokulinda iimpawu. Thetha ngokunyanisekileyo nomntwana wakho ngesondo. Sebenza ngokuzimeleyo ukuqinisekisa ukuba babeka ixabiso eliphezulu kubo kunye nekamva labo.
Thintelo
Ingxaki yokuxinezeleka kunye nokuzithemba ingabhekiswa ngonyango kunye neyeza. Abaselula abathathwe ngokwesondo nabo baya kufuna imfundo engekho isigwebo malunga nemingcipheko kunye nexanduva lokuziphatha ngokwesini, kubandakanywa nokunonyango olufanelekileyo lwezonyango apho kufanelekile.
Imisebenzi ephakamisa ukuzithemba, ithemba lekamva, kunye noxanduva lomntu ngamnye luncedo ekuncediseni intsha ukuphepha iingozi zokuziphatha ngokwesini.