Njengokuba kukho iindidi zobuntu kunoma yimuphi umntu omdala, ukufumana umntwana onamahloni esikolweni akunzima ukwenza. Amaxesha amaninzi, iintloni zintloni kwaye asikho isizathu sokukhathazeka, ingakumbi ukuba utitshala womntwana ubalisa ukuziphatha kakuhle eklasini. Kodwa, kukho iimeko apho iintloni ziba ngumqondiso wento ethile.
Into esiyicinga ukuba yintloni elula ingaba ngumsebenzi wokuzibandakanya okuba ngumqondiso wokudakumba.
Kubantwana abakuyo le nyaniso, kuye kwacatshulwa kakuhle ukuba ukunyaniseka kunye nokuziphatha okufana nokuhlehliswa kwezenhlalakahle, kubangelwa ukugqithisa iziphatho eziphazamisayo okanye ezinobudlova-ngakumbi kwizikolo. Oko kukuthi, into eyenziwa ngaphakathi ifihliwe yintoni esinokuyibona ubungqina. Nangona unamahloni, umntwana ocinezelekileyo angenakuyenza ngale ndlela, inhlanganisela ingabonakalisa ukuba kukho isizathu sokukhathazeka.
Ngamaxesha amaninzi Ngaba Iintloni Ziwuphawu Lokudakumba?
Oku kunzima ukuthetha. Ngokwe-American Academy ye-Pediatrics, malunga ne-3% yabantwana banenkinga yokudandatheka. Ngoxa bengekho abantwana abadandathekileyo abaqeqeshelwa ukuziphatha ngaphakathi, ininzi ibonisa iimpawu zokuxothwa kwezenhlalakahle okanye ezemfundo. Ukongezelela, amantombazana abikwa ukuba abe nokuziphatha okungakumbi kunamakhwenkwe.
UDkt. Leslie D. Leve kunye noogxa, abashicilele isifundo sesihloko kwi -Journal ye-Psychology engaqhelekanga ngo-2005, bafumanisa izinto ezine ezinokubangela ukuba abantwana baqhube ukuziphatha.
Bafumene ukuba abantwana abanomama ogxininisekile, bavelele ekuqeqesheni ngonya kunye / okanye ukulwa kwabazali, kwaye ngubani obenamahloni kunye nesimo esinoyiko kunokwenzeka ukuba angabonakalisa ukuziphatha kwangaphakathi kunabo abangenalo.
Kakade ke, ezi ziphumo azikhombisi ukuba ezi ziimeko ziyasebenza kubo bonke abantwana abanexinzelelo kunye / okanye ukuziphatha ngokuziphatha.
Ngaba Umntwana Wangazange Afundise Umfanekiso Wokuphuma Ukuba Kukho Ingxaki?
Kwiklasi lokuxakeka, abantwana abathulile bahlala becinga ukuba baziphatha kakuhle xa kuthelekiswa nabalingani babo bekhwenkethi nabaphazamisayo. Ingaba umntwana uyathula ngenxa yokuba uyaziphethe kakuhle okanye ngenxa yokuba eneentloni okanye ukwesaba ukuthetha into enokuthi iphunyuke kwisakhono sokuba uthisha oxakekileyo unokuphanda.
Ucwaningo lukaDkt. Leve lubonise ukuba ootitshala bathetha amazinga aphezulu okuphazamisa okanye ukugqithisa ukuziphatha eklasini ngabazali babika ngabantwana babo - ngoko ewe, utitshala unokwazi ukuzazisiza ingxaki, ingakumbi ukususela ekubeni kucacile ukuba ukuziphatha okuphazamisayo ukuziphatha kakubi kubakho eklasini . Abantwana abanokuziphatha okuphazamisayo banokuthi bafune ukuqeqeshwa kwaye ngoko bathunyelwe kumcebisi wesikolo okanye kwi-psychologist, okanye nangaphandle kwonyango. Oko kwathiwa, akukho siqinisekiso.
Kwakhona, nangona ukuziphatha kakubi kuyinto ebangela ukukhathazeka kumntwana onamahloni, kungekhona wonke umntwana onamahloni onxinezelekileyo oya kwenza ngale ndlela. Ngaphezu koko, iintloni ayisoloko isisigxina sokudandatheka. Abazali bafanele baqaphele oku, kubandakanywa nokunciphisa eklasini, kwaye baqhagamshelane nodokotela wengane kunye / okanye ubuchule besikolo ngaphandle kootitshala beklasi ukuqonda indlela yokuziphatha komntwana.
Izikhalazo ZePhysical Can not Explaints Ingaba Yi-Sign Of Warning Signing
Umntwana unokufumana iimpawu ezimbalwa ezibonakalayo zokudakumba. Nangona kunjalo, iimpawu zomzimba ezingachazwanga - ezifana nentloko, i-bellyache, i-nausea, intlungu epheleleyo, iingxaki zokulala, ukuguquka kwesondlo, kunye nokuguquka kwesisindo - zizikhalazo eziqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana abaxinezelekileyo abaziphatha kakuhle. Xa ugqirha akakwazi ukuchonga imbangela yonyango yezi zikhalazo, unokugqiba ukuba zibonisa uxinzelelo lomntwana okanye uxinzelelo.
Ngokutsho kukaRobin Adair Shannon kunye nabalingane, abashicilele isifundo kwi -Journal of Nursing School ngo-2010, abantwana abanezimpawu ezingabonakaliyo eziqhelekileyo banamaxesha amaninzi kwiofisi yomhlengikazi wesikolo kunye neakhawunti yemali ebalulekileyo yezibonelelo zempilo zesikolo.
Enyanisweni, abahlengikazi besikolo banokuba nombono oyingqayizivele kumntwana ogxininisekile, kanti ootitshala beklasini abanako ukuqonda.
Kwenziwe ntoni
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba iintloni ayikho uphawu lokudakumba - okanye ukuba nayiphi na into ayiphumelekanga ngumntwana wakho, ngenxa yento. Iintloni ngumntu wobuntu. Ukuxinezeleka, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kudla ukuba yi-episodic - imeko apho umntwana efumana khona.
Iimpawu ezongezelelweyo zokudakumba kubantwana zivakalelwa kukuba aziqondi kakuhle okanye zineenetyala; kubonisa ukuhla kwezemfundo eziphambili; ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kwizinto zangaphambili; ukukhala okungachazwanga; ukunamathela kumzali, nobunzima ukugxila okanye ukwenza izigqibo.
Nangona umntwana wakho engayitholi imibiko yokuziphatha engalunganga, xubusha ukuziphatha komntwana wakho eklasini kunye notitshala wakhe. Iingxelo ukuba umntwana wakho unamahloni kakhulu, akathethi eklasini okanye kwii-frequents i-ofisi yomongikazi ingaba iimpawu ezilumkiso ezimele ziphandwe kwakhona. Yaye ukuba kubonakala ngathi ukudandatheka akuphazamisi umntwana wakho kwaye ukuba nje uhlazileyo, kuyafaneleka ukuba nencoko ngeendlela zokwenza umntwanakho umxhwele kwinkqubo yokufunda ngaphezulu.
Kubalulekile ukuthetha nomntwana wengane yakho nayiphi na ixesha xa ubona iimpawu zokudakumba. Ukuchonga nokuphathwa kwengcinezelo kubalulekile, ngakumbi kubantwana.
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