Ukuba unengxaki yomntu ongenamkhawulo (BPD) , sele usuqhelana kakuhle neempembelelo ezinkulu ezinokubakho ebomini bakho. Ukongeza kwiingxaki zobudlelwano , umsebenzi kunye nempilo yomzimba , abantu abaninzi abane-BPD nabo banenkxalabo yezomthetho. Enyanisweni, malunga nesithathu sabantu abane-BPD baya kuba netyala lolwaphulo-mthetho ebomini babo.
Izimpawu ze-BPD zinokubangela ukuba ungene enkingeni nomthetho, kodwa ukwazi okungakumbi malunga nemiba esemthethweni kunye nendlela abachaphazeleka ngayo yi-BPD kunokukunceda ukuba ubone iinkalo ezinokuba yingxaki.
Ukuziphatha okungaphethekiyo kunye noMthetho
Enye imvelaphi yenkathazo ebalulekileyo yomthetho yilawula ukulawula. Ukuba unayo i-BPD, unokuba nzima ukuthabatha izinto ngaphandle kokucinga ngemiphumo okanye ukuzibandakanya kwizenzo xa udibene okanye udidekile. Oku kubizwa ngokuthi " ukuziphatha okungazenzisiyo ," kwaye unako ukuhlalisa abantu abaninzi nge-BPD ngamanzi ashushu. Ukuqhuba ukuqhubela phambili, ukuthengwa kweentloba nokulwa, yonke imimiselo yokuziphatha okungafunekiyo engekho mthethweni. Ekubeni abaninzi abane-BPD bazivakalelwa kakhulu kwaye banemiphumela enzima, le ngxaki eqhelekileyo. A
BPD kunye neNtsapho yoMthetho
Ukongeza kwiingxaki ezinokuziphatha okungazenzisiyo, unokuba nobunzima obunzima kwiintsebenziswano . Ubudlelwane namazinga aphakamileyo empikiswano luyinto ebalulekileyo yeBPD. Ngelishwa, oku kuthetha ukuba abantu abane-BPD bangangena kwiimfazwe zomthetho ngokuqhawula umtshato. Ukongezelela, imiba yokugcinwa kweengxaki ingavela xa izibini zeBPD zihlukileyo.
Ekugqibeleni, ubundlobongela basekhaya lungabangela ingxaki enkulu kwiinkalo zeBPD. Ubudlelwane buya kuba buhlungu kakhulu xa unayo i-BPD, ngoko ukuqonda ukuba unokwenza ingxabano kunokukunceda uqhagamshelane ngokufanelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba kuvele imiba.
Abaselula abaneeNdaba zoMthetho kunye neBPD
Abaselula abane-BPD bangabaleka kwiingxaki zabo zomthetho.
I-BPD ihlala iqala ukubonakalisa ngexesha lobudala, ngoko abantwana abasemngciphekweni wokuziphatha okuyingozi kunye neengxaki zomthetho. Ngokomzekelo, abatsha abahluphekayo ne-BPD badla ngokuhamba ngokuya esikolweni kwaye banokugijima kwimimiselo yenkcitho. Oku kunokuchaphazela nabazali babo, ingakumbi kwiindawo apho abazali bajongene ngokomthetho ngokuhamba kwabo esikolweni kunye nezinye izinto zokuziphatha. Oku kungayinye indlela ulwalamano kunye nabathandekayo lunokuthi lube nzima kwiBPD.
UkuShatshazwa kwabantwana nokunyaniseka
Ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kunye nokunyanzeliswa yizona zizathu ezinobungozi bendalo be-BPD, nangona kungabikho bonke abantu abane-BPD abajongene nokuphathwa kakubi kwabantwana. Kodwa, ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kungaba nesiphumo seBPD. Imvakalelo enzulu kakhulu, kuquka ukufutheka komda , ingakhokelela umntu nge-BPD ukuba asebenzise kakubi abantwana bakhe okanye ukuba aphethwe yimizwa yakhe engayikhathaleli ngayo abantwana bakhe.
Kukho ezininzi kunye ne-BPD eneempawu zokufumana umzali onempumelelo. Abanye banokukhubazeka kakhulu ngenxa yeempawu zabo zokuba baxhatshazwa kakubi kunye nokungahoywa, ngamanye amaxesha kubangelwa ukuboshwa nokuvalelwa. Oku akuthethi ukuba uzimisele ukuba ngumzali omubi ukuba unayo i-BPD. Ngonyango olufanelekileyo kunye nonyango, abaninzi abantu abaneBPD banomdla obalaseleyo, abazali abanomdla.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba kunokwenzeka imiba yomthetho ukuze uhlangabezane ne-BPD.
Ukuhlukunyezwa kwesiyobisi
Ukongeza kwiimpawu eziphambili ze-BPD ezingakhokelela kwimibandela yomthetho, ezinye zeemeko ezihlala zihlangana kunye ne-BPD zingaba ngumthombo wazo weengxaki. Ixabiso lokusetyenziswa kotywala kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi kwi-BPD ziphezulu kakhulu. Ukuxhatshazwa kwezidakamizwa ezingekho mthethweni, kunye nokuziphatha okungekho mthethweni ukugcina umkhwa wenyama, kunokukhokelela ekubanjweni.
Ukuba unengxaki yokuguquka komntu, iimvakalelo ezinzulu kunye nokuphendula ngokukhawuleza kunokuba nzima ukulawula kwaye kunokukhokelela kwimicimbi esemthethweni. Ukuthintela ukuphela kokubambisana okanye ukulimaza ubudlelwane kunye nabathandekayo, kubalulekile ukufumana ugqirha othembela kukuncedisa nge-BPD kwaye ufundise ubuchule bokulawula iimpawu ezifanelekileyo.
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