Ngaba ukusetyenziswa kakubi komntwana kubangela ukuphazamiseka komntu ongapheliyo (BPD)? Akukho mpendulo elula; Asikwazi ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba i-BPD, nangona ikholelwa ukuba yinto yokuxuba yezinto eziphilayo kunye nezendalo. Kukho ubungqina bokuba abantu abane-BPD banakho ukunika ingxelo ngembali yolunye uhlobo lokuxhaphazwa kwabantwana okanye ezinye izinto ezibangelwa ngabantwana .
Nangona kunjalo abantu abaninzi abaye bafumana ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana abangenayo i-BPD kunye nabantu abaninzi abane-BPD abazange baphathwe kakubi okanye baphathwe kakubi njengabantwana.
Yintoni Ubunzima Bantwana?
Igama elithi "ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana" liquka uluhlu olubanzi lwezengqondo nezokwenyama ezenzelwe umntwana. Iingcali ngokubanzi zikwabela isethi yamava kulolu hlobo:
- Ukuphathwa kakubi ngokomzimba: Ukulimala okanye ukulimala, njengokubetha okanye amathambo aphukileyo
- Ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokwesondo: Ukuxhomekeka kwimeko yezocansi okanye ukuxhaphazwa ngendlela yesondo ngomntu omdala
- Ukuxhaphazwa ngokomzwelo: Ukuhlaselwa ngokomzwelo, njengokuhlaselwa ngamagama okanye ukuthotywa
Ezinye iintlobo zokusetyenziswa gadalala zingadluli kakhulu, njengokuba kuthengelwa ukunyanzelwa komzimba apho umntwana enqatshelwe khona izinto ezisisiseko, njengokutya okanye amanzi. Kukho ukunyaniseka kwemvakalelo, apho iimfuno zengqondo zomntwana zinyanzelwanga. Akukho hlobo lokusetyenziswa gadalala lucatshangelwa kakhulu kunomnye; zonke iintlobo zokusetyenziswa gadalala zingaba nefuthe elide ngonaphakade kumntu kwaye ziyakwazi ukuma isimo sabo sengqondo.
Ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana kunye nokunyanzeliswa komntwana kunxulumene nophuhliso lweengxaki zengqondo. Ngamanye amaxesha igama elithi "ukuphathwa kakubi komntwana" lisetyenziselwa ukuchaza kokubili ukusetyenziswa kakubi nokunyanzeliswa kwabantwana.
Uphando malunga nokuShatshazwa kwabantwana kunye neNgcaciso yoMntu weBorderline (BPD)
Uphando lubonisa ukuba kukho ubudlelwane phakathi kokuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kunye nokuphazamiseka komntu (BPD).
Abantu abane-BPD babika amazinga aphezulu okuxhaphazwa ngokwesini, ukuxhaphazwa ngokomzimba, kunye / okanye ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokomzimba. Abantu abangama-40 ukuya kuma-76 e-BPD baxelele ukuba baxhaphazwa ngokwesondo njengabantwana, kwaye ama-25 ukuya kuma-73 ekhulwini avakalisa ukuba baphathwa kakubi. Ngoko ke, nangona kukho uphando olungileyo oludibanisa ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwabantwana kwi-BPD, kukho ubungqina bokuba malunga nesithathu sabantu abane-BPD ingxelo akukho kakubi.
Kukho ubungqina bokuqhagamshela i-BPD kwezinye iimeko zokuphathwa kakubi kwabantwana, njengokunganyaniseki ngokomzimba nangokwenyama. Enyanisweni, uphando oluthile lubonisa ukuba ukunyanzelwa ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama kungabandakanyeka ngakumbi ukuphuhliswa kwe-BPD kunokusetyenziswa kakubi ngokomzimba okanye ngokwesondo. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunzima ukuyiqonda, kuba abantwana abafumana kakubi ukuxhaphazwa nabo bafumana ithuba lokungahoywa.
Indlela Ubundlobongela Bokuba Ngabantwana Bungabakhokelela Kwimiba Yengxaki Yomntu
Ukuba ubundlobongela kwabantwana bungozi yengozi ye-BPD, yintoni enye indlela amava abantwana abangela ngayo ukuphuhliswa kwe-BPD? Ucwaningo olwenziwa ngo-2016 lubonise ukuba ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokomzimba kwakuhlobo olubaluleke kakhulu lokusetyenziswa gadalala kwi-BPD kamva kwaye ukuxhonywa kwabantu abadala kunokuba ngumlamli phakathi kokusetyenziswa gadalala kunye ne-BPD. Olunye uphando luye lwaphanda indima yokuxhaphazwa ngokwemvakalelo kwi-BPD kamva.
Ngoxa ezi zifundo zibalulekile ekukhangela izizathu ezinokuthintelwa, ziyakunceda ekuqaliseni indlela unyango olunokubanceda ngayo abantu abajongana nesifo, ngokukodwa, iindlela ezibandakanya umgaqo-mzwelo.
Ukongeza kokusetyenziswa kakubi ngokomzwelo, ukungaxhatshazwa kwemvakalelo kuye kwaxhaswa kwi-BPD, nangona kungenokuba kungqinisiswa ukuba imeko engafanelekanga yindlela yokuxhaphazwa ngokomzimba.
Ngaba i-BPD eyahlukileyo kulabo bahlupheke kakubi kubantwana?
Xa kuthelekiswa neempawu ze-BPD kulabo baphathwa kakubi njengabantwana kunye nabangenabo, kuye kwafunyaniswa ukuba ukuxhaphazwa ngokwesondo ngokobuntwaneni kubonakala kubandakanyeka kwengozi yokwenza ukuzibulala kwabantu abane-BPD.
Inqaku eliphantsi kokusetyenziswa kakubi kwabantwana kunye ne-BPD
Uphando lubonise ngokucacileyo ubudlelwane phakathi kwe-BPD kunye nokuphathwa kakubi kwabantwana. Oko kwathiwa, akukho bungqina obucacileyo bokuthi ukuphathwa kakubi kubangelwa i-BPD. Uphando olubonisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwezinto ezimbini alubonakali ukuba kukho isizathu phakathi kwabo. Ngokucacileyo, ngokuchaneka kwamanani okuxhaphaza abantwana okubonisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa kakubi kowesiqhelo ngakumbi kunokuba sinokuyicinga, kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba okanye kungengenye yezona zinto ezibangela ukuphazamiseka komntu .
Uphando olungakumbi lufunekayo ukuvavanya ubudlelwane obuchanekileyo phakathi kokuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kunye ne-BPD, kwaye ukuba ukusetyenziswa gadalala kuyisisusa, zeziphi iintlobo zokungabikho kakubi kwabantwana ezihlobene kakhulu nokuphuhliswa kwe-BPD. Kungenzeka ukuba i-BPD inxulumene nokudibana nenani lezinto ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanywa izinto eziphathekayo , i- temperament , i-biology kunye nezinye izinto ezingqongileyo.
I-BPD isifo esingaqondi kakuhle. Ukuba uhlala kunye ne-BPD okanye wazi umntu ophila ne-disorder, thatha ixesha lokufunda oko unokukwazi. Ngokuchasene nombono ogqithisileyo, i-BPD iyaphiliswa, kwaye abo abaphila nesi sifo banokuphila ubomi obunenjongo. Nangona kubekho iingxaki ezibalulekileyo kunye nolwalamano olusenyongweni , lo mbandela unokuphuculwa kakhulu kunye nokuqonda kwincinci yomntu ohlala neengxaki kunye nalabo abamkhathalelayo.
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