Nangona izinto ezinobungozi obunokutshatyalaliswa ngokuphathelele ekusebenziseni umsebenzi kunye nemibandela yokuphila, iimpawu ezithile zobuntu zingabangela ukwanda kwamava oxinzelelo, okwenza ube negalelo lokutshiswa . Nangona ubuninzi bebuntu buzalwa, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele indlela ukuzenza nokwenza kwakho izinto kunokuthintela njani ukunyamezela kwakho, ngoko unokulungisa utshintsho lwakho.
Ezi zinto zilandelayo ziyakuchukumisa izinga lokunyamezela kwaye zibeke ingozi enkulu yokutshiswa.
Tendencies
Ukuzama ukwenza okusemandleni akho kukubonakalisa ngumsebenzi onzima kwaye unokuba nomgangatho ohle okhokelela ekugqibeleni. Nangona kunjalo, ukugqibelela kungabangela uxinzelelo oluninzi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha lukhubaze. Uthini umahluko phakathi kokuzama ukugqwesa kunye nokuba ngumphelelisi? Abaphengululi bazibetha xa zonke izinto zingagqibekanga , kanti nje abasebenzi abanobugcoba bemihlali ngokusebenza kakuhle. Amaxesha athile awanakuze azame ukufeza umsebenzi ngenxa yokuba bekwesaba kakhulu 'ukungaphumeleli' -okuchazwa njengento engaphantsi kokugqibeleleyo! Ukuba ulungele ukuphelelana, kufuneka uxolele ngokuzixolela ngokuba ngumntu, kwaye uvuyiswe ngokuba unkulu (nangona ungumuntu).
Ukunyaniseka
Iindwendwe zivame ukubona ihlabathi liyesongela ngakumbi kunokuba ithemba.
Bakhathazeke ngakumbi ngezinto ezihamba kakubi, balindela izinto ezimbi ngaphezu kokulungileyo, bakholelwa ngokwabo ngaphantsi, kunye nezinye izinto ezingundoqo . Ama-Pessimists azibangela uxinzelelo olungadingekile kwiimeko ezininzi zemihla ngemihla, bazibeka engozini yokwanda. Ngethamsanqa, ithemba lingafundwa , kwizinga.
(Awuqinisekanga ukuba unethemba okanye unesifo sengxaki? Thatha le mibuzo.)
U kuvuya
Abanye abantu bahlala benomdla ngaphezu kweminye. Bafumana impendulo enamandla kunxininiso, kwaye ibangela ukuba kube lula. (Le ngxabano ingabonwa kwiintsana ezincinci kwaye zihlala zizinzile ngaphezu kobomi bomntu.) Akukho nto ongayenza ukuze utshintshe i-chemistry yakho yomzimba, kodwa unokwenza ukuxhatshazwa kokunciphisa izicwangciso ezinokukunceda uhlalise xa ufumana ugxininisekile, kwaye unokwenza izicwangciso zokuzikhuluma ngokuzenzekelayo ukuze uqikelele iimeko ezingasongela.
Thayipha Ubuntu
Mhlawumbi uye wakuva 'Uhlobo lweBantu', olubeka abantu kwingozi yokugula kwesifo senhliziyo kunye nezinye iinkathazo zempilo kunye nendlela yokuphila. Ngelixa abantu abaninzi bayazi ukuba uhlobo luka-'A A 'luphi, iziganeko ezikhawulezileyo zi-1) ixesha lokunyamezela kunye no-2) ubundlobongela obukhululekile. Ukuba 'Uhlobo A' (okanye usebenze ngokusondeleyo nomntu okhoyo) kunokubangela uxinzelelo olongezelelweyo nolunaphakade, ukwandisa ingozi yokutshiswa. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba unesineke nabantu kunye neentsholongwane ezincinane zobomi kwaye unenkathazo yokugcina ukuphuma kubantu, unokuthi 'Uhlobo lwe A'. Ukuba kunjalo, nantsi ezinye iindlela zokuhlangabezana nokuthambekela kohlobo lwe-A.
Ukungahambi kakuhle kwiJob
Ingaba uyi-oriented-oriented, okanye ukhangele umfanekiso omkhulu? Ngaba uhlala ukhululekile, okanye ukhululekile kude nabantu abaninzi? Ngaba uthanda isakhiwo okanye uguquguquko?
Ukuba umsebenzi wakho wobomi udinga izakhono ezivumelanisa amandla akho, uya kuziva unwabileyo nento oyenzayo; Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubuntu bakho abuyi kutyunjwa nomsebenzi wakho, uya kuziva uxinezeleke ixesha elide, kwaye ube ngumngcipheko ophezulu wokutshiswa.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba wena kunye nendlela ophila ngayo ngumdlalo omhle? Olu vavanyo lunikezelwe ngokubanzi ukunceda abantu baqonde indlela iimpawu zabo zobuntu ezihluke ngayo kwabanye abantu kwaye zibone amandla abo abazalwa kunye nokubuthathaka.
Thatha ukuze ukwazi ngokwakho ukuze ukwazi ukuba wena nomsebenzi wakho ngumdlalo ohle.
Ukungabi Nokholo Kwizinto Ozenzayo
Eminye imisebenzi ayihlawulwanga kakuhle, kodwa inika imivuzo emikhulu ngokwenza umehluko kwimpilo yabanye kwaye yenza umhlaba ube yindawo engcono. Kwabo bakholelwa kwizinto abazenzayo, ukuxinezeleka akuncinci; Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awukholelwa kwimisebenzi yobomi bakho, kunzima ukubekezelela ubunzima obuza nalo.
Ingaba udidekile ngomsebenzi wakho, uye waya kwintsimi yakho ngenxa yezizathu ezingalunganga, ixabiso lakho liphikisana nelo nkampani osebenzela kuyo, okanye awuzange ukholelwe ngokwenene into oyenzayo kuqala, ukuba bakho ubomi Umsebenzi ungqubuzana neempawu zakho, ukuxilongwa kwengqondo ekudalwe ngokwenza into ongakholelwa kuyo imihla ngemihla inokuthatha i-toll kwaye ibangele ingozi yokutshiswa.