Yintoni enokuyilindela kwiNtlanganiso ye-NA kunye nendlela yokufumana enye
I-Narcotics engaziwa (NA) yiprogram yeshumi elinambini apho abantu abanomlutha kwiziyobisi banokufumana inkxaso ekubuyiseni . Leli qela lokufumana izilwanyana eziluthayo zikuncedana ukuze zihlale zicocekile. Uncwadi lwe-NA lubuchaza njengenkqubo "yezilwanyana ezinqwenela ukulandela nokugcina indlela yokuphila engenazo iziyobisi."
Kukho iintlanganiso ze-NA ezikhoyo kwimihla ngemihla kulo lonke elaseMelika nasekumakhulu amazwe kumazwe onke.
Abantu abaninzi bafumana inkxaso abayidingayo ukuyeka ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa ezikhethiweyo. Yindawo efanelekileyo, ekhuselekileyo ukubuyela kuyo xa ufuna uncedo kwaye ufuna ukuhlambuluka.
Ziziphi Iingqungquthela Zingaziwa?
I-Narcotics Inonymous yasungulwa ngowe-1953 kwaye idla ngokubizwa ngokuthi "NA." Yintlangano yomhlaba wonke yokubuyisela izilwanyana zezilwanyana kunye neentlanganiso ezingama-67,000 ezihlelwe kwimihlaba kumazwe angama-139.
Akukho nto igxile kuyo nayiphina isilwanyana. Kunoko, injongo ye-NA ikwabelana ngesilingo kunye nokuphumelela okuza kukhwela umlutha nokubuyiselwa.
I-NA yiprogram yeshumi elinesibini efana nezoNxilongo ezingabonakaliyo (AA) kwaye inokwabelana ngemigangatho, imigaqo kunye nefilosofi. Injongo ye-NA kukudala uluntu apho izilonda zincedana ngayo endleleni yokubuyisela. Iintlanganiso zibandakanya abantu bazo zonke iindawo zabantu kunye namazinga ahlukeneyo okuphucula, ukusuka kwiminyaka emininzi ukuya kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuhlambuluka.
Njenga- AA "Incwadi Enkulu," NA isebenzisa isicatshulwa esiphambili esibizwa ngokuthi "IsiGaba esisisiseko." Amalungu asebenzisa le ncwadi njengesikhokelo sokubuyiselwa kunye nolwalamano, amava kunye neengcebiso zamanye amalungu.
Kuqhelekileyo ilungu elitsha ukuhlakulela ubudlelwane "nomxhasi." Lo mntu udla ixesha elide lokuhlambuluka kwaye uzive ekhululekile ekuncedeni amanye amathwala asebenze ngamanyathelo alishumi elinambini .
Akukho nxalenye ye-NA iyinyanzeliso okanye iyadingeka. Iintlanganiso zinokuthi "zivulekele" amalungu kunye nabangewona malungu okanye "zivaliwe" kumalungu kunye namalungu alindelekileyo kuphela .
Abavakatye abangenayo izilwanyana ngokwabo bayamenywa ukuba baye kwiintlanganiso ezivulekileyo.
Akukho ziindleko zokuya kwiintlanganiso kunye nabangewona amalungu abuzwa ukuba bangenele ekuqokeleleni kwemali yokuzithandela okugcina izinto ziqhuba. Oku kuvumela umbutho ukuba uhlale "uzinzileyo." Kodwa unako ukuthenga "isicatshulwa esisiseko" kwiindleko zeqela.
Ukungabonakali kuyisisiseko kwimpumelelo ye-NA. Amalungu ayaqonda kwaye avuma ukuba into ekuthethwa ngayo kwiintlanganiso kwaye abonwayo apho ihlala kwintlanganiso. Abazixubushe ezi nkcukacha ngokubanzi. Oku kudala indawo yokhuselo apho wonke umntu eziva ekhululekile ukuvula kwaye abelane ngamava kunye neemvakalelo zabo.
Imfuno kuphela yokuba lilungu leNarcotics Unonymous "umnqweno wokuyeka ukusebenzisa."
Ngaba NA Work?
Kwamalungu amaninzi ase-NA, le nkqubo yinto kuphela eyifumene ukuba yenzeni ukusebenza. Nabani na ojongene nomlingo uyazi ukuba ngumzabalazo kwaye omnye unokubonakala engathembeki ngamanye amaxesha. Amaziko ezonyango kunye ne-rehab , unyango kunye nokucebisa, kwaye ukuya kuyo yedwa akusebenzi kubantu abaninzi. Kweminye, i-NA yinto yokuqhubeka nokubuyiselwa kwimeko yokuphila kwangempela.
Ngesizathu esithile, inkxaso yommandla kunye namanyathelo alishumi elinambini afumaneka kwiintlanganiso ze-NA kubonakala ngathi ikhonkco elahlekileyo yabaninzi abanomdla abafuna ukuhlala bahlambulukile.
Ewe, akukho nto iqinisekisa ukuba awuyi kuphinda usebenzise kwakhona. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko besithi e-NA, "Sinokukwenza kunye into esingenakuyenza yedwa."
Yintoni onokuyilindela ekuqaleni kwakho NETlanganiso
Wonke umntu unomdla wokuya kwintlanganiso yokuqala . Unokuqiniseka ukuba wonke umntu ekamelweni sele ehlala kwindawo enye kwaye ininzi iyamkela abantu abatsha. Iintlanganiso ziyahluka kancinane kuba zilawulwa ngamalungu angingqi, kodwa kukho izinto ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo onokuzilindela.
Uya kuliva igama elithi "umlutha" rhoqo kwiintlanganiso ze-NA. Yile ndlela amalungu e-NA abhekisela ngayo. Iilutha zibandakanya abo basebenzise yonke into esuka ku-heroin kunye ne-cocaine ukuya kwiziyobisi zonyango kunye nezinye iindidi ezinokuguqula ingqondo.
Iintlanganiso zilandela enye ifomathi ezimbini: iintetho okanye ingxoxo evulekileyo. Kwiintlanganiso zesithethi, omnye umntu uvunyelwe ukuthetha ngexesha lokuxelela ibali lakhe. Ingxoxo evulekileyo ifana netafile ejikelezileyo apho wonke umntu angabelana ngamava abo ngexesha elincinane. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho isihloko esithile okanye ukufundwa "kwi-Basic Text" ekhonza njengesiseko sengxoxo.
Njengomtsha, unokucelwa ukuba uzenzele. Xa wenza njalo, sebenzisa igama lakho lokuqala nje ngokuba le nxalenye yenkalo engaziwa yeqela. Kwakhona, akudingeki uthi "Ndingumlutha" ngaphandle kokuba ukhululekile ukwenza njalo.
Imithetho yodwa kwintlanganiso kukuba iziyobisi kunye nezixhobo azivunyelwe. Kwakhona, intetho yomnqamlezo idangelekile kwaye amalungu-ingakumbi abatsha abahambayo-bakhuthazwa ukuba baphulaphule xa abanye bethetha. Kwakhona kufanelekile ukucima ifowuni yakho kwaye ungenayo ingxoxo.
Kuthiwani NgoThixo Nemithandazo?
Xa usitsha ku-NA, intetho ngoThixo kunye nokubandakanywa kwemithandazo kwiintlanganiso ezithile inokuyikrakra, ngakumbi ukuba awukho unqulo. I-NA ayingumKristu okanye inxulumene naluphi na unqulo, urhulumente, okanye nayiphina enye intlangano, nokuba ngaba intlanganiso ecaweni.
KwiiNqanaba ezilishumi elinesibini ze-NA, amalungu ayacelwa ukuba avume abangenamandla kwaye ukubuyisela kwabo kuxhomekeke kwi "Power Higher." Oku kunokuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye isigqibo somntu siqu. Abanye abantu bakhetha uThixo (nangayiphi na inkolelo okanye inkolelo) njengabo kunye nabanye. UNA uthi "yethu ingokomoya, kungekhona inkolo."
Zama ukungavumeli oku kukukhupha kwiintlanganiso. Kunoko, cela ilungu malunga naloo mntu kwaye banokuchazela ngakumbi.
Indlela yokufumana iNtlanganiso
Xa ulungele ukuya kwiintlanganiso zakho zokuqala, tyelela i-website yeNarcotics Inonymous ukufumana intlanganiso yendawo. Iintlanganiso zenzeka ngamaxesha athile emini kwaye phantse yonke imihla yeveki. Ngokuxhomekeka apho uhlala khona, kufuneka kubekho ukhetho olungakumbi olukhethwa kukho.
Ukuba uya kwintlanganiso enye kwaye awuqinisekanga ngokubhekiselele kuyo, iya kwesinye. Yonke intlanganiso inomoya wayo kwaye unokufumana ukhululekile kwelinye iqela kunezinye.
Oko kwathiwa, ekuqaleni, kunzima ukuziva ukhululekile kuba uvakalelwa njengomntu ongaphandle okanye u-newbie xa kubonakala ukuba bonke abantu bebonke. Oku akunjalo ngokwenene kwaye, njengoko besithi e-NA, ukuba "uqhubeka ubuya-kusebenza."