Kwiishedyuli ezipapashwe kwiintlanganiso ezili-12, ezinye zikhethwa njengeintlanganiso ezivulekileyo, kanti ezinye ziboniswa njengeintlanganiso ezivaliweyo. Iintlanganiso ezivulekileyo zivulelekile kuluntu ngelixa iintlanganiso ezivaliweyo zingamalungu kuphela-nangona kunjalo, izikhokelo zenkqubo nganye zichaza ukuba ubani obala njengelungu.
Iintlanganiso eziValiweyo
Ubutywala obungabonakaliyo, ii- Al-Anon zeeNtsapho , kunye ne- Children's Adult Children of Meetings of Alcoholic iintlanganiso zivame ukuqhutywa iintlanganiso ngaphandle kokuba kuchazwe ngenye indlela.
Iintlanganiso ezivaliweyo ziphela kumalungu kunye namalungu angaphambili kuphela.
Kuye kubantu ngabanye ukuchonga ukuba ngaba bafanelekile ukuba babulungu, ngokusekelwe kule migaqo elandelayo ukusuka kwiNkcubeko 3 yamaqela angama -12 :
- Utywala Ongaziwayo : Imfuno kuphela yelungu le-AA ngumnqweno wokuyeka ukusela.
- I-Al-Anon Iintsapho Zomndeni : Imfuneko yodwa yobulungu kukuba kukho ingxaki yokusela utywala kwisihlobo okanye kumhlobo.
- I-ACOA : Imfuneko yodwa yobulungu kwi-ACOA ngumnqweno wokubuyiselwa kwimiphumo yokukhula kwindoda yotywala okanye enye intsapho engasebenzi.
- I-Narcotics engaziwa : Imfuno kuphela yobulungu ngumnqweno wokuyeka ukusebenzisa iziyobisi.
- Abadlali beNgcakazo Abangabonakaliyo : Imfuneko yodwa yeGamblers Ubulungu obungabonakali ngumnqweno wokuyeka ukugembula.
- Abathengi abangaziwayo : Imfuneko kuphela yobulungu be-DA ngumnqweno wokuyeka ukufumana ityala elingakhuselekanga.
Izizathu zeeNtlanganiso eziValiweyo
Isiseko sokomoya sawo onke amaqela angama-12 anamazwi.
Amalungu eqela angakhetha ukuya kwiintlanganiso ezivaliweyo ukuba wonke umntu entlanganisweni ukhokelwa ngamanyathelo kunye nezithethe zeqela, ezikhuthaza ilungu ngalinye ukuba lihlale lingabonakali kwaye lingabonakali ngabanye kwintlanganiso.
Kwintlanganiso evaliweyo, amalungu angathetha ngokuvulekileyo nangokunyanisekileyo ngxaki okanye imeko yabo, eyazi ukuba wonke umntu eklasini uye wafumana iimeko ezifanayo.
Vula iintlanganiso
Ukuba intlanganiso iyintlanganiso evulekileyo , kunjalo, amalungu ayaqonda ukuba kunokubakho iindwendwe ezisuka kuluntu okanye nakwabemijelo kwiintlanganiso kwaye baziphathe ngokufanelekileyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kodwa kungekho rhoqo, iintlanganiso ezivulekileyo ziintlanganiso zesithethi, apho umntu omnye ukhethwe ukuba akhulume, axele ibali lakhe-ukuba kwakunjani, kwenzekani, kwaye ubomi bakhe bunjani ngoku. Isithethi siyazi ngaphambi kwexesha ukuba intlanganiso iyintlanganiso evulekileyo kwaye kunokubekho ilungu leendwendwe ezikhoyo.
Iintlanganiso ezivulekileyo zikhona nabani na abanomdla ekufundeni ngakumbi malunga nenkqubo yeqela leenkxaso. Iintlanganiso ezivulekileyo ziya kubakho abafundi, abaqeqeshi kunye nabanye abangewona amalungu abanomdla ekufundeni ngakumbi malunga neenkqubo zokubuyisela.
Injongo yePrayimari
Ukutyunjwa kwentlanganiso njenge "evulekile" ayitshintshi injongo yephambili yeqela.
Injongo ephambili yeNkolelo yesi-5 yobudlelwane ngabanye kukuthwala umyalezo weqela ngalinye kwiintlungu ezibuhlungu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa beya kwintlanganiso yesibini-12, amalungu awakhulumi ubulungu bawo kwamanye amaqela angama-12 ngexesha leentlanganiso, ukugcina intlanganiso igxile kwinjongo yaso ephambili.
Ukuba intlanganiso ayikhethiweyo okanye ivalwe kwishedyuli eshicilelweyo, kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo.