Abantu abaninzi abaneemilutha banqunyulwa ukufumana uncedo, kuba baye bakuva ukuba kukho inxalenye yokomoya yokubuyisela, kwaye abavakalelwa kukuba banokusebenza kwisakhelo esingokomoya. Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi ukuphulukana ngokomoya kunye nokulutha umlingo kuhamba ngesandla. Ukunyathela kwezinto ezi-12, ngokugxininisa kumandla aphezulu, kunokuba ngumceli ngakumbi.
Ezinye zezizathu zokuba abantu abanezidakamizwa bazive kakhulu malunga nale nto ziquka:
- Ukungenayo imvelaphi yonqulo, nokuziva ungazi malunga nenkolo kunye nokomoya.
- Uvakalelwa kukuba inkolo iphathelele ukulawula abantu, kwaye engafuni ukulawulwa okanye ukuba yinxalenye yendlela elawula abanye.
- Ukuqaphela indima yeenkolo kwiimfazwe nezinye izinto ezimbi, kwaye engafuni ukudibana nabo.
- Ukungakholelwa kuThixo - ukholelwa ukuba akukho Thixo.
- Ukungaqiniseki - ukukholelwa ukuba akukho ndlela yokwazi ukuba uThixo ukhona, ngoko uhanahanisi ukuzenza wazi ukuba kukho uThixo.
- Ukuba namava angamnandi okanye ahlaselayo kunye nelungu lebandla okanye inkolo, ngokukodwa ukuba bebukhokheli.
- Ukuba namava okanye ukubonela ukusetyenziswa kakubi kakubi, intlungu okanye intlungu, ukuba imbono kaThixo onokuyithintela loo nto ayinakucacisa nangendlela efanelekileyo.
- Uziva ungakhululeki ngcamango yokuba ezinye iimfundiso zentsapho zixhathisa ukubandezeleka kwabantu ngeempazamo okanye iimpazamo ezidlulileyo, kwaye "ngendlela efanele".
Zizo zonke izizathu ezifanelekileyo zokugatya okanye ukwenqaba ukubandakanyeka kwinhlangano yonqulo. Kodwa bona, ngokwabo, akubandakanyi kuwe ekufumaneni indlela yakho yokomoya.
Abantu abaninzi banako ukudibanisa indlela yabo yokomoya kunye nenkolo ehleliweyo, kodwa abanye abaninzi abafuni "inkolo."
Yintoni Ngokomoya?
Umoya luyingxenye yamava omntu apho sihlolisisa ukuba ngubani na kwaye yintoni ebomini bethu. Oku kungabandakanya ezinye zezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Ukuthintana nekhampasi yakho yokuziphatha - indlela yokwazi okulungileyo nokuba yintoni engalunganga ngokwakho neenkolelo zakho. Ezi nkolelo akudingeki ukuba zinikezelwe ngonqulo, unokuzifumana ngokuzihlola zakho iingcamango neemvakalelo zakho.
- Ukufunda ukusebenzisa icompass yakho yokuziphatha njengesikhokelo sendlela yokuphila ubomi bakho. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ukholwa ukuba kulungile ukuxoka , ufumana iindlela zokuphila ngokunyanisekileyo .
- Ukuzihlonela wena nabanye. Abantu abakhula kwiimeko ezixhaphazayo banokufumana oku kunzima, kodwa ekugqibeleni bayazaliseka xa befezekisa.
- Ukujonga ngendlela iingxaki zakho. Oku kubandakanya ukuqonda ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuphucula imeko yakho ngokunika amandla kunye nenkxaso.
- Ukuqonda ukuba sonke sinobuthakathaka babantu, kwaye siyeka ukukhukhumeza okunokufumana indlela yokucela uncedo ukuba uyayidinga.
- Ukufumana nokunika inkxaso kwabanye.
Ukuthatha oko
Nangona le mi sebenzi yokomoya enokukunceda kakhulu abantu abaninzi abasebenzela ukunqoba izilingo, kukho enye imisebenzi yokomoya enoba inani elincinci labantu liyakwazi ukuzibandakanya.
Ayibalulekanga kwinkqubo yokubuyisela kodwa ingakhokelela ebomini obonwabileyo. Ungazibeka phantsi kwengcinezelo yokwenza oku ukuba awulungele.
- Ukufumanisa izipho zakho ezikhethekileyo kunye neetalente, nokudala ubomi obasebenzisa.
- Abantu abaxolelayo abakwenza kakubi okanye bakuxhaphaze ngaphambili.
- Ukufuna ukuxolelwa kwabanye.
- Ukufumana ulwazi olutsha - "ukufunda" kumava akho okulutha.
- "Ukubuyisela" kuluntu, umzekelo, ukuzithandela okanye ukusebenza kwiinkalo zomlingo okanye kwiindawo ezinxulumene nazo.
Ezinye zeendlela ezintsha zokuphulukisa, ezifana nezindlela ezisekelwe engqondweni , zibandakanya izenzo zokomoya zaseMpuma, ngaphandle kwemfuneko yokukholelwa kumandla aphezulu okanye inkolo.
Le nto ingaba yindlela efanelekileyo yokudibana nomoya wakho, ngaphandle kokungena kwiintembelelo zakho, okanye iimvakalelo zokungahambelani phakathi kweyeza kunye neenkolelo zakho okanye ukungabi nako.