Umntu owaziyo uyahluke njani kwesazela? Ngamanye amaxesha amagama amabini ayadideka ngokuqhelekileyo ekusebenziseni imihla ngemihla, kodwa ngokwenene athetha izinto ezahlukileyo kwiinkalo zengqondo. Masiqwalasele ngokuthe ngqalelo ukuba nganye ithetha ukuthini kwaye ungayahlula njani phakathi kwezi mbini.
Isazela kunye noNonophelo
Isazela sakho siyinxalenye yobuntu bakho obukunceda ukuba uqonde phakathi kokulungileyo nokungalunganga.
Yiloo nto eyenza uzive unetyala xa wenza into embi kwaye ulungile xa wenza into enomusa.
Kwiingcamango ze Freudian , isazela sinxalenye ye- superego equlethe ulwazi malunga nokubhekiselele kokubi okanye kakubi ngabazali bakho kunye noluntu-zonke iimpawu ozifundileyo kwaye uzibandakanya ngexesha lokukhuliselwa kwakho. Isazela siphucula ixesha elide njengoko ufumanisa ulwazi malunga noko kuthethwa okulungileyo nokungalunganga ngabaxhasi bakho, oontanga, kunye nenkcubeko ohlala kuyo.
Ingqalelo yakho , ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukuqonda kwakho kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezayo. Kwimiqathango eqhelekileyo, kuthetha ukuphaphama nokuqonda. Ngengqondo, ingqondo eyaziwayo iquka yonke into ngaphakathi kwimiba yakho yokubandakanya kuquka izinto ezifana nokuqonda, iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo, iingcamango, iinkumbulo kunye neengcamango.
Nangona isazela kunye nokuqonda zizinto ezimbini ezihluke kakhulu, ukuqonda kunye nokuqonda ngokuqinisekileyo zihlobene nomnye.
Ukuqonda kwakho kubhekisela kumava akho awaziyo, ukuqonda kwakho ngabanye ngeengcinga zakho zangaphakathi, iimvakalelo, iinkumbulo kunye neengcinga. Uqhelo luvame ukucingwa njengomlambo, uhlala uguquka ngokubhekiselele kwimpembelelo yakho kunye namava ehlabathi elikujikelezile.
Ukuqonda kunye nokuqonda kungenzima ukuyihlawula. Njengoko i-psychologist nefilosofi uWilliam James wachaza, "Intsingiselo yakhe siyayazi kangangokuba akukho mntu ucela ukuba sikucacise." Noko ke, ezinye iingcali zibonisa ukuba ukhangelelwa into ethile ukuba unako ukuyibeka kumazwi.
Unonophelo kunye noNonophelo: Iinkcazo kunye nokuThengwa
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa zokuphawula ezinokukunceda ukugcina le mibini emibini engqondweni yakho. Ngokomxholo we-Freud's psychoanalytic of personality , ingqondo ivame ukufaniswa ne-iceberg. Inxalenye yeqhankqalazo engabonwa ngaphezu komgangatho wamanzi ibonisa ukuqonda. Yiloo nto esiyiqondayo kwaye sinokuchaza nokucacisa ngokucacileyo. Inxalenye enkulu ye-iceberg ngokwenene ilele ngaphantsi kwamanzi, apho uFrud kuthelekiswa nengqondo engenalwazi, okanye zonke iingcamango, iinkumbulo, kunye nezibongozo ezingaphandle kwesaziso sethu.
Ezinye iingcali ziqaphele ukuba ukuqonda akuyona nje ingqondo yodwa. "Ubulumko buchazwa ngokubanzi njengeengcinga zakho, izenzo, iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo, iingcamango, kunye nezinye iinkqubo zengqondo," kuchaza ababhali uBernstein, uPenner noRoy.
"Le nkcazo ibonisa ukuba ingqalelo yinkalo yeenkqubo ezininzi zengqondo kunokuba ibe yinkqubo yengqondo ngokwabo. Ngokomzekelo, iinkumbulo ziyakwazi, kodwa ukuqonda akusiyo imemori nje. "U
Izazela, ngakwelinye icala, yinto egcina usebenze kwiimfuno zakho ezisisiseko kunye neminqweno. Isazela sakho siyisiseko sokuziphatha esikukhokelela ekuziphatheni komsebenzi kwaye kukukhokelela ukuba uziphathe ngendlela efanelekileyo yamanye amazwe kunye neendlela ezingathandekiyo .
Xa ucinga ngezi ngcamango ezimbini, khumbula nje ukuba ukuqonda kuthetha ukuba uphapheme kwaye uqaphele ngelixa unembeza kuthetha ukuqonda kwakho okulungileyo nokungalunganga .
ILizwi
Nangona le migama emibini idla ngokudideka, i-conscious and conscience iya kwizinto ezahlukeneyo. Njengoko kuchaziwe ngasentla, ukuqonda kwakho kukuqonda kwakho kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezayo. Isazela sakho kukukwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokulungileyo kunye nokungalunganga. Ingqondo yakho ikuvumela ukuba uqaphele indawo yakho kwihlabathi, ngelixa isazela sakho sikuvumela ukuba uziphathe kweli hlabathi kwiindlela ezamkelekileyo zokuziphatha nezentlalo.
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