Kwaye izizathu ezi-3 zokungazifaki iziphumo zakho kakhulu
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Ukuba unabantu abaninzi, mhlawumbi ujabulise ukuthatha le mibuzo yabantu.
Uninzi lwazo luyolonwabo, kodwa ngezinye iindawo zibonisa iimpawu zeenyaniso kunye nobulumko ezikunceda ekukhanyeni iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobuntu, ukuziphatha kunye nokukhetha. Imibuzo enjalo isoloko ibonelela ngomthombo wokumangalisa ngexesha lokusebenza komsebenzi onomsebenzi, kodwa kungaba ngumsebenzi onomsebenzi wokuziqonda ngokwakho, nokuba uthatha isisombululo esinzulu seengqondo okanye ufumanisa ukuba nguHarry Potter onjani .
Ukongezelela kule mibuzo yokuzonwabisa, kukho ubuninzi beemvavanyo zengqondo ezisemgangathweni ezifumaneka kwi-intanethi ezinokukwazi ukukuxelela okuncinci malunga nawe. Umzekelo we- Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) , umzekelo, enye yezona zivavanyo zengqondo zithandwa kakhulu namhlanje kwaye abantu abaninzi bafunga ukuba ukwazi "uhlobo" lwabo kubancedise ukuba baqonde ngakumbi kunye nabanye.
I-MBTI yenzelwe ukuvavanya ukukhethwa kwengqondo kubandakanya indlela abantu abayibona ngayo ihlabathi, indlela abasebenzisana ngayo nehlabathi, nendlela abazenza ngayo izigqibo. Iqela lezintombi liye laphuhlisa uvavanyo olusekelwe kwiingcamango zobuntu zengqondo yengqondo uCarl Jung . Ukususela ngoko, uvavanyo luye lwaba luncedo kakhulu kwaye lusetyenziswa ngokubanzi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo zisetyenziswe ngabafundi beengqondo, abacebisi bezemisebenzi kunye nabaqeshi, uvavanyo luvame ukusetyenziswa njengeendlela ezikhawulezayo zokufunda ngokubanzi malunga nokuba abantu banjani na nokuba baya kuphumelela kwiindima ezithile.
Ngaba ukwazi ukwazi uhlobo lwakho lomntu kwi-MBTI nakwezinye iimvavanyo zobuntu kunceda ngokwenene? Ziziphi izinto ezintle ezinokuzenza ezi nyathelo zomntu?
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Izinto ezimbalwa owaziyo uhlobo lwakho lomntu unokunceda:
Inzuzo # 1: Ukwazi Uhlobo Lwakho Lobuntu lunokukunceda ukuba Uqonde kakuhle abanye abantu
Emva kokuthatha i-MBTI nokubona iziphumo zakho, unokuqonda ngokubhekiselele kuzo zonke iimpendulo ezahlukeneyo kunye nemibono abanye abantu abanokuba nayo kwiimeko ezifanayo. Sonke sinendlela eyahlukileyo yokubona kunye nokusebenzisana nehlabathi. Akukho hlobo lobuntu "lungcono" kunanoma yimuphi omnye - luhluke. Yaye nganye imbono ivelisa into entsha kwaye inomdla kwitafile.
Abantu bavame ukuwela kumgibe ngokuphosakeleyo bakholelwa ukuba abaninzi abantu babelana ngemibono efanayo, izimvo, iimvakalelo kunye neempawu abazenzayo. Ukuba neenketho zakho ezikhethiweyo zigqityiwe kwaye ziyakwazi ukujonga ezinye zeempawu abanye abantu abazoba nazo zinokuvula amehlo.
Ukuqonda ezinye zeempawu zakho zobuntu kunye nabantu obusondeleyo nabo luncedo kwizidlelwane. Ukuba, ngokomzekelo, ungumntu ogqithiseleyo kodwa umlingane wakho ungaphezulu, uza kukwazi ukubona iimpawu ukuba iqabane lakho liphelile kwaye lifuna ukuthatha ikhefu ekuhlaleni. Ngokungazi kakuhle iimpawu zobuntu, ungaphendula kakuhle iimfuno zabathandekayo bakho kwaye wakhe ukusebenzisana okunamandla.
Inzuzo # 2: Inokusinceda Uchonge ukuthanda kwakho nokungazithandi
Mhlawumbi uhlale uthiyile ukuthetha ngefowuni, kodwa akuzange uqonde ukuba kutheni.
Okanye mhlawumbi udla ixesha elithile lokucinga malunga nengxaki ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo .
Ngokufunda okungakumbi malunga nokuba ulalaphi kwi-extroduction / introversion kunye nokucinga / iimvakalelo eziqhubekayo, unokukwazi ukuqonda isizathu sokuba ukhetha izinto ezithile kwaye ungathandi abanye. Oku kungena ngokufanelekileyo xa uzama ukwenza izigqibo ezibalulekileyo ezinokuba nefuthe kwiklasi yobomi bakho, njengokukhetha iikholeji enkulu.
Ukukhetha i-intsebenzo enkulu kunye noxanduva oluhambelana kakuhle kunye nokhetho lwakho luthetha ukuba ugqiba ukonwaba kwaye ukwaneliseke ngokukhetha kwakho kunye nomsebenzi wakho ngokukhawuleza.
Inzuzo # 3: Unokuqonda ukuba zeziphi izimo ezikuvumela ukuba wenze okulungileyo
Ukufunda okungakumbi malunga nohlobo lwakho lomntu kunokukunceda ufumane iindlela ezintsha zokusingatha iingxaki. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uthanda ukuphakama kwi-introversion, unokunyamekela kwixesha elizayo ukunika ixesha elininzi lokuba ukhululekile kwimeko phambi kokuba uzenzele umntu osebenza naye omtsha, umzekelo. Ukwazi oko kusebenza kakuhle ngohlobo lwakho lunokukunika iingcamango ezintsha zokusombulula iingxaki , ukujamelana noxinzelelo, ukujamelana neengxabano kunye nokulawula imisebenzi yakho.
Inzuzo yesi-4: Unokukwazi ukuqonda kakuhle amandla akho kunye nobuthathaka
Ukukwazi oko kukuhle kubakho kubalulekile kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, nokuba ukhetha iikholeji enkulu okanye ucinga malunga nokuqhuba isihlalo kwibhodi yesikolo sakho. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uyazi ukuba ungumfundi we- ISTJ (ukungeniswa, ukuqonda, ukucinga, nokugweba) kwi-MBTI, unokwazi ukuba iinkalo ezithile zobuntu bakho zingaba namandla kwiimeko ezithile kunye nobuthathaka kwabanye. Ngelixa ubunzima bakho bezentlangano kunye nobume obujoliswe kwiinkcukacha zingabakho amandla kumsebenzi wakho, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuhamba nawe kwiimeko apho kufuneka uvumele abanye abantu ukuba bathathe iinqongo.
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Kodwa ukwazi "uhlobo" lwakho akusiyo yonke into. Iimvavanyo zomntu kunye nemibuzo ingaba nolwazi, yolonwabo, kwaye luncedo, kodwa nangona uvavanyo olunzulu kakhulu lwengqondo alunakuze lube yinto yonke, ekupheleni-konke xa kuziwa kukuvavanya ukuba ungubani, oko unokukufeza, indlela onokuyenza ngayo ethile imeko, kwaye ngubani onokuba kwixesha elizayo.
Ezinye izizathu zokuthi kungani ungazifuni ukuthatha iziphumo zazo zonke ezi zinto zibaluleke kakhulu:
- Ukwazi uhlobo lwakho akunakukuxelela ukuba uya kuthandana nomsebenzi othile okanye uphumelele emsebenzini wakho: Ukuthatha imibuzo yabantu okanye ukuvavanya kunokukunika ingcamango engcono yeyona ndawo ekubhenkisayo kuyo, kodwa kukho umehluko omkhulu phakathi kokuba nomdla kwi intsimi ethile kwaye ujongene nomsebenzi wangempela. Ubunjani bokuba ubuntu bungabonisa ukuba uza kwenza i-akhawunti enkulu, kodwa ungayifumana umsebenzi onzima kwaye ungazaliseki.
Ukunamathela kwiingcamango malunga nokuba "ungubani" kwaye "akunjalo" kunokukugcina ekuzame izinto ezintsha: Ngokomzekelo, i-extrovert inganqabela izinto eziqhelekileyo zenziwe njengemisebenzi yodwa okanye yodwa. Oku kunokukhokelela ekulahlekelweni kumava onokuyifunda okanye uyonwabele ngokwenene. Usenokuze uphoswe xa udibana nabantu abanomdla kuba abonakala bengabelana ngezici okanye iimfuno ezifana nawe. Zama ukungaxhomeki kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobuntu bakho okanye ukugxotha izinto ezinjengezinto ezingafaniyo nomntu onokuthi "uhlobo" lwakho.
- Ukubeka ugxininiso olunzulu ngobunjani bohlobo bakho bunokukugcina ekusebenzeni ubudlelwane bokwenene nabanye: Ukubambelela kanzima kwaye ngokukhawuleza kwiingcamango malunga nokuba uhlobo lwakho lomntu lungenza kube lula ukugatya abanye abantu ababonakala bengenawo "uhlobo" olufanayo. njengawe. Kodwa le mpazamo kuba nangona abaninzi balaba bantu banokuba neengcamango ezahlukeneyo kunye neendlela zokuphila, unokwazi ukufunda okuningi kubo. Ukungafaki abantu abathile ebomini bakho kunokukhokelela kwingqungquthela yentlalo ekhuselekileyo ebonakala nje ukuqinisa iingcamango ozibambe. Kungenzeka nokuba ufake umdaka kubomi bothando xa wenqaba ukunika abantu ithuba lokuba abayithandi izinto ezifanayo okanye benze ngendlela efanayo.
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Iimvavanyo zobuntu, kuquka ukuhlolwa kwangokwenyama kwengqondo kunye nokuzondla ukuzonwabisa okufunyanwa kuyo kwi-intanethi, kunokubangela ukuba ucingisise, kuqikelele, kwaye kumnandi. Isihluthulelo oku kungukuthi ulungele ukuxhoma kwiziphumo zakho. Khumbula ukuba ngoxa abaphandi befumene ukuba ubuqu bethu bendalo buyamangalisa ngexesha elide, ubomi bethu abuyiyo. Siyakhula kwaye sitshintshe njengoko sifunda izinto ezintsha kwaye sinamava amatsha, kwaye abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba bethu ubuqu bunokutshintsha kwakhona .