Iintsapho zithinteka njani iimpawu zeengxaki zomntu? Umngcipheko wobuntu bomda we-Border (BPD) yimeko yempilo yengqondo engonakaliyo nje ingathintela umntu ophethe i-BPD . Kwakhona kuthinta wonke umntu abelana naye ubudlelwane kunye, kuquka nabangani, intsapho kunye kunye namaqabane abathandanayo.
Ekubeni kunemiba eninzi yentsapho echaphazeleka ngokuthe ngqo kwiimpawu zomntu ongenamgama kunye nokuziphatha , yonke intsapho yomntu onomda ongenamdaka unokuhlupheka.
Le ngenye yeempembelelo eziqhelekileyo ze-BPD kwintsapho kunye nendlela yokufumana uncedo njengentsapho.
Ukuxinezeleka
Ukubukela umntu obathandayo kunye ne-BPD ihlupheke kwaye ijongene nobunzima bezilwanyana iimpawu ze-BPD zixinzeleleke kakhulu kumalungu entsapho. Amalungu entsapho amaninzi abavakalelwa bengenakunceda ngelixa bebukele umthandayo wabo nge-BPD bazibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuzilimazayo. Oku kunokwenene kubazali okanye abanonophelo bentsha kunye ne-BPD , obonakala ngathi akalawulwa.
Ukongeza kokuxinzeleleka okungapheliyo kokunyamekela umntu obathandayo kunye ne-BPD, amaninzi amalungu omndeni we-BPD aya kuba noxinzelelo olunzulu lwengqondo ngenxa yezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezinobungozi obuphezulu ezinxulumene ne-BPD. Ngokomzekelo, abantu abaninzi abane-BPD bazibandakanya ekuziphatheni kakubi , njengokukhahlela okanye ukutshisa. Ezi ziphatha zinokuba nzima kangangokuthi zingakhokelela ekufeni ngokukhawuleza. Ukongeza, abantu abaneBPD banomlinganiselo ophezulu wokuzibulala .
Amalungu omndla amaninzi ukulawula ezo ziphene ezinobungozi obuphezulu (umz., Ukuqhubela umthandana wabo kwigumbi lexakeka emva kokuzama ukuzibulala) kwaye unokufumana uxinzelelo lweengqondo (ezinokuthi, kwiimeko ezinzima, zikhokelela kwiingxaki ezinjenge-post-traumatic uxinzelelo lweengxaki).
Ukuthotywa kunye noxanduva
Uninzi lwamalungu entsapho yabantu abane-BPD bachaza ukulwa nzima kunye neemvakalelo zetyala.
Uphando malunga nezizathu ze-BPD ibonisa ukuba ukungabikho kakubi kwabantwana ngendlela yokuxhaphazwa okanye ukungahoywa kungabandakanywa nokuphuhliswa kwe-BPD. Kukho ubungqina bendima ephezulu yemfuza . Ezi ziphumo zikhokela amalungu amaninzi entsapho, ingakumbi abazali, ukuba bazigwebe okanye bazive benetyala, nokuba ngaba ukuphuhliswa kweBPD wabo omthandayo kwakungaphandle kolawulo lwabo.
Ngokumalunga neengxaki zangaphakathi malunga noxanduva lokuphuhliswa kwe-BPD, amalungu amaninzi entsapho anzima ukucinga ukuba yiyiphi imbopheleleko ababenayo yokuba bafunyanwa ngabathandekayo babo kwi-BPD. Ezinye iintsapho zizama ukuxhasa kodwa zixhalabele ukuba ukuba ziyaxhaswa ziza kuvuza ezinye zeendlela zokuziphatha ezihlobene ne-BPD, njengokuzilimaza. Abanye bafuna ukuxhasa kodwa bavutha ngumntu ophethe i-BPD malunga nokuziphatha kwabo. Ekugqibeleni, abanye banzima ukuxhasa ngenxa yeengxaki zabo zeengqondo. Umzekelo, ngenxa yokuba i-BPD ihlala isebenza kwiintsapho, abanye abantu kwintsapho banokuba neBPD.
Imiba phakathi kwe-BPD yeNtsapho kunye neNkqubo yezeMpilo yengqondo
Uxinzelelo lokujongana neempawu ze-BPD othandayo luxakiniswe ngongxaki yokulawula unyango lwabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iikliniki zithembele kwiintsapho zeBPD ukunceda ukuququzelela unyango lwelungu lentsapho, elinokubandakanya ababoneleli abaninzi kunye namaqela kunye namanqanaba amaninzi okunyamekela (kubandakanywa unyango lwangaphandle kunye nesikhala esibhedlele okanye esibhedlele ).
Amalungu entsapho angabizwa ukuba abone utshintsho kwiimeko zabo (umz., Ngaba iimeko zabo ziphantsi kunexesha eliqhelekileyo okanye ziyeke ukuthabatha amayeza njengoko zichazwe?), Zinikezela ngezothutho kwiindawo zokuqeshwa okanye ziququzelele uphando olutsha lwezonyango. Ukuxoxisana nale nkcukacha kunye nenkqubo enkulu yempilo yengqondo akuwona msebenzi olula kwaye unokubeka omnye umthwalo kwiinkqubo zeentsapho ze-BPD esele zixininisekile.
Imiphumo ebanzi yeBPD
Ngelishwa, ukuxinezeleka, ukujamelana neengxaki kunye nenkxaso enxulumene nokuba nomntu onentsapho ye-BPD kwintsapho inokuthi ibe nemiphumo kwintsapho esondeleyo kunye nentsapho.
Abazali abaselula kunye nabantu abadala abane-BPD bachaza uxinzelelo olunzulu olunyamekela umntwana kunye ne-BPD lunokungenisa ukutshata komtshato. Akuqhelekanga kule nqanaba yoxinzelelo ukukhokelela kwingxaki emtshatweni kunye nokuhlukana okanye ukwahlukanisa.
Ukongeza, abantakwabo bachaphazeleka ngeendlela ezininzi. Abanye abantakwabo banokuthi bathathwe kwinqanaba lokunyamekela, ngelixa abanye banokuzihlukanisa nentsapho ukuze bazikhusele (okanye yabo imitshato, abantwana, njl njl njl njl) okanye ukuphepha uxinzelelo lwengqondo olubandakanyekayo ekubeni nolwalamano olusondeleyo kunye umntu ophethe i-BPD.
Uluntu olwandisiweyo lunokuchaphazeleka; ootatomkhulu, oomama, oomama kunye nezinye izalamane ziyingxenye yenethiwekhi yenkxaso yeentsapho ze-BPD, kwaye banokuvakalelwa ukunyamekela umntu ono-BPD.
Uncedo kwiNtsapho yeBPD
Akusoloko kulula kubabathandayo ukufumana uncedo nenkxaso abayidingayo ukunakekela ilungu labo losapho ngeBPD . Ukuba uzinikele ekuncedeni, nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela kunye nezixhobo ezikhoyo.
Okokuqala, ukuba uyakrokreka ukuba umthandayo wakho unayo i-BPD, kwaye abangekho unyango, unokubakhuthaza ukuba bancede uncedo. I-BPD isifo esibi kakhulu sengqondo esidinga uncedo lwezakhono; awukwazi ukunceda wakho umthandayo.
Kukho izibonelelo ezifumanekayo ngokufanelekileyo kumalungu entsapho. Umzekelo, i-National Alliance ye-Borderline Personality Disorder (NEA-BPD) inikezela iNkqubo yoxhumano lweNtsapho kwi-United States. Le nkqubo yiklasi yeeveki ezili-12 ezenzelwe ukunikela ngemfundo, ukuqeqeshwa kwezakhono kunye nenkxaso kumalungu entsapho abantu abane-BPD. Ukuze ufunde kabanzi malunga neprogram, tyelela iphepha leNxulumano lweNtsapho ye-NEA-BPD iwebhusayithi.
Umthombo:
UGiffin J. Ulwalamano lweNtsapho yoLuntu oluPhezulu lwengxaki. Uhlobo lweNtsapho yeeNtsapho ze-Australia kunye neNew Zealand . 29: 133-138, 2008.