Funda kwimimiselo yenkinga yomntu ongenamkhawulo
Njengemizekelo emininzi yomngcipheko wobuntu bendoda (BPD), umzekelo ochazwe apha uqikelelwe. "IJordani" akuyena umntu ongokoqobo, kwaye nayiphi na into efanayo phakathi kwalo mntu oqingqiweyo kunye nawuphi na umntu ongokoqobo. Iimpawu kunye neempawu ezichazwe, nangona kunjalo, zifana nomntu ophethe i-BPD.
Infancy
Nangona xa iYordan yayisana oluncinane, kwakukho into ehluke ngayo ngaye.
Waphendula ngokugqithiseleyo kwizinto ezininzi. Wayethukuthele lula, akazange alungise ngokulula abantu abatsha okanye iindawo, kwaye kwakunzima ukuthuthuzela.
Kodwa wayeyintsana nje; kwakubonakala kungekudala ukuba ixhalabele. Abazali bakhe bacinga ukuba zonke iintsana zihlukile kwaye ukuba ukuziphatha kweJordani kwakungumlinganiselo oza kuphuma kuwo.
Ukuziphatha kwabantwana
Njengoko iJordan ikhulile, akazange akhuphe kwisigaba sakhe. Waqhubeka ekhungathekile kwaye kunzima ukuthuthuzela, yaye wayenenkxalabo enkulu yokuhlukana. Ukuba unina wayishiya egumbini, iJordani yayiya kumemeza ide ibuye.
Sekunjalo, abazali bakhe babengakhathazeki. Bakuvile ukuba ukuxhalaba okuhlukileyo kubonakala kubantwana abancinci, kwaye iJordan yayinempawu ezininzi ezintle. Ngamanye amaxesha, unokuba ngumntwana onothando kakhulu. Babesoloko benamathuba amahle ngokwenene.
Iminyaka Ekhulayo
Izinto zaqala ukutshintsha xa iJordan ibetha intsha yakhe yokuqala. Kwakukho amaxesha ambalwa kwaye ambalwa.
Waba nzima kakhulu kwaye wayenomsindo. Waqala ukwenza ngokubanzi nangakumbi-ukunyamezela abazali bakhe notitshala kunye nokuziphatha okungazenzisiyo , njengokubalekela ekhaya.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ixeshana, iJordani yayiza kuba nomhlobo osondeleyo okanye ezimbini esikolweni, kodwa bebengabangani ixesha elide. Iimbambano zazihlala zikhona, kwaye ubuhlobo buya kuphela.
IJordani yayithetha malunga nokuba yedwa kwaye yayibuhlungu njani, ukuba kwakungekho mntu uyayiqonda. Abazali bakhe babeqala ukukhathazeka ngaye, kodwa kuthekani ukuba indlela uJordan ayenza ngayo yayingumzekelo wokuziphatha osemtsha? Bekungakakulungeli ukufuna uncedo.
Ngethuba leJordani lajika eli-17, ubomi bakhe basekhaya beqala ukungafuni ukulawula. Wayevaleleka kabuhlungu ngokomzwelo , ukuguquka kwemizwelo yakhe kwakungenakulinganiswa ngokupheleleyo, kwaye unokutshintshisa imizwelo ukusuka kwimizuzu enye ukuya kwenye. Wayexabana nabazali bakhe phantse imihla ngemihla, ngokukhawuleza ukukhala nokuphonsa izinto. Ngamanye amaxesha wayebonakala eyikayika ukuba engenaye unina; ngamanye amaxesha wayeya kushiya indlu enomsindo omkhulu kwaye angabuyi iintsuku.
Ngelinye ilanga, umama wakhe waphawula imivumba eYordan. Xa unina waqala ukujamelana neJordan malunga nabo, iJordan yamxelela ukuba ikati yayimlumkile. Kodwa ke wavuma ukuba wayezilimaza , wazincoma ngenxa yokuba wayeziva elolo hlobo kwaye enesizungu kwaye le nto "eyona nto yinto eyenza ndiziva ndingcono."
Ngoku abazali bakhe bayazi: Babefuna ukufumana uncedo eJordan.
I-Misdiagnosis
Abazali bakaJordan bafumana umculi wengqondo kwindawo yabo abaye bamkela i-inshurensi yempilo yabo yentsapho baze bazisa iJordani ukuyibona.
Isifo sengqondo sichitha ixesha lixoxa neJordan kwaye simbuza yena nabazali bakhe ngeempawu zakhe. Ngokwale vavanyo elifutshane, isifo sengqondo sifumana iJordan nge- bipolar disorder kwaye imisela imithi ezinzileyo .
Amachiza amasha ayebonakala enceda, kwaye iJordan kunye nabazali bakhe babe nethemba lokuba izinto ziya kuphucula. Ukufuna ukuqonda ingxaki yakhe kakuhle kwaye ufumane ulwazi ngokumnceda ukuba abuyele, abazali bakaJordan bafunde ngentsholongwane ye-bipolar. Kodwa ke, oko bafunayo, abazange bafanelane neempawu zeentombi zabo. Ngokomzekelo, iimoya zeJordane zazibonakala ziguquka ngokukhawuleza kwaye rhoqo, ngoxa iimeko zenguqu yokuguquka kwengqondo zichazwe njengento engapheliyo.
Ukuchongwa ngokuchanekileyo
Ngenye imini, ngelixa esaphathwa ngentsholongwane ye-bipolar, iJordan yaya kwi-intanethi kwaye yakhubeka kwiinkcazo zemingcipheko yabantu (BPD). Njengoko wayefunda malunga neempawu zeBPD , waqonda ukuba, ngokokuqala ngqa, omnye umntu wayebonakala eqonda into eyenzekayo entloko yakhe. Wambiza umama waza wamfundela iphepha alifumene. Unina wavumelana neJordan-yabonakala ngathi banokugqibela baphendule.
Umama waseYordan wathola imithombo ye-intanethi eyamkhokelela eluhlu lweengcali kwi-BPD kwingingqi yabo. Benza ukuqesha kunye nomfo wezifo zengqondo, odibene neJordan ngamaxesha amaninzi. Emva kwentlanganiso yabo yesithathu, u-new psychiatrist waqinisekisa ukuba iJordani idibene neendlela zokuxilonga ze-BPD. Ingcali yesifo sengqondo yachaza iinkqubo zokonyango ezazifumanekayo, kuquka imithi kunye neengqondo zengqondo.
Ukuphucula ngokukhawuleza ukulawula
Nge-23, iJordan isenayo impawu ezininzi ze-BPD. Nangona kunjalo, unyango kunye nokudibanisa kwamachiza kunye neyeza lokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo (DBT) kuye kwancipha impawu zakhe. Akasayi kuzilimaza, usebenze ixesha lesithuba, kwaye unabamhlobo abasondeleyo.
IJordani inamaxesha apho eziva ephazamiseke kwaye eneengxaki ngomsindo nobudlelwane. Ngethamsanqa, ufunda izakhono zokujamelana nazo ezinokumnceda ukuba abuyele ekulawuleni aze alawulwe loo mpawu xa zivela.
I-Jikelele ye-BPD ye-Jordan: Ukuqulunqa
Icala laseJordan linye nje yemizekelo emininzi yemingcipheko yabantu, eyahluka kakhulu phakathi kwabantu abanalo. Umzekelo:
- Abanye abantu abane-BPD banemindeni exhasa, njengeJordani, ngelixa abanye bakhula kwiindawo ezikhathazayo (amava obomi adibeneyo nokuphuhliswa kweempawu ze-BPD).
- Abanye, njengeJordan, baqala ukubonakalisa iimpawu zeBPD ebusheni, ngelixa abanye bengenayo impawu baze bafike kwiminyaka engama-20.
- Akunabo bonke abane-BPD abaphendulayo kunye nokonyango njengoko uYordan enza, nangona abaninzi benza.
> Umthombo:
> Isiko leSizwe seMpilo yengqondo (iNIMH). Umngcipheko woMntu woMda. Ukuhlaziywa kweDisemba 2017.