Yintoni enokuyilindela ngexesha lobhedlele
Umngcipheko wobuntu borderline (BPD) yimeko embi kangangokuba ngamanye amaxesha idinga unyango olunzulu lwezonyango kwisibhedlele sengqondo. Isizathu sokubhedleleka esibhedlele sisabisa kakhulu abantu abaninzi, kodwa ukwazi oko unokulindela kunokunciphisa uxhalaba lwakho.
Ubude beNyango yokuLawula abantu
Uninzi lwezibhedlele zezibhedlele ziza kwenzeka ngenxa yokukhathazeka ukuba isiguli singasengozini yokuzilimaza okanye omnye umntu, kwaye isigulane sikhululwe xa ingozi idlulile.
Kwixesha elidlulileyo, unyango lwe-BPD lunokuthi ludlule iinyanga okanye nokuba yiminyaka, kodwa ngoku unyango olunegulana lukhulu kakhulu, kuxhomekeke kwiimfuno zomntu ngamnye.
Ezinye izibhedlele zinikezela ixesha elide, ukunyanga okuzikhethela kwi-BPD, enokuhlala iiveki okanye iinyanga. Ngokubanzi, nangona kunjalo, uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba izibhedlele ezinde kakhulu zeengqondo azixhamli abantu abaneengxaki zomntu.
Ukuzithandela Ngokumelene Nokunyanga Okungenasifo Sonyango
Isifo esibhedlele esibhedlele esibhedlele singenza ngokuzithandela okanye ngokungenakuzibandakanya. Ukubhedlelelwa ngokuzithandela kwenzeka xa isigulane sisazi ukuba unesidingo esininzi kunokuba sinikezelwe ngonyango lwangaphandle. Ngokomzekelo, unokwazi ukuba unenkqubela yeempawu ezinamandla kangangokuthi akakwazi ukuzisebenzisela yena kunye nokuba ufuna iimfuno ezingaphezu kweyodwa okanye kabini ngeveki ukuze azigcine ephephile.
Kule meko, isigulane kunye nesipilisi sinokugqiba isigqibo sokuba kunye unyango olulungileyo luncedo.
Ukubhedleleka ngokungabandakaliyo kwenzeka xa isigulane singavumi ukungeniswa esibhedlele, kodwa ababoneleli bonyango baye bajonga le nqanaba lokunyamekela. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu uveza injongo yokuzibulala , kodwa wenqaba ukungena esibhedlele ngenxa yokhuseleko, ababoneleli bakhe bonyango kufuneka baphishekele izibhedlele ezizibandakanyekayo (ezibizwa nangokuthi "ukuzibophelela").
Yintoni enokuyilindela ngexesha loNyango lweZonyango
Yintoni onokuyilindela ukuba uhamba unyango? Oku kuyahluka ngoxhomekeke esibhedlele nakwinkqubo yokonyango.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, injongo yokugulisa izibhedlele ezingagulanga umntu ukugcina loo mntu unobungozi bomntu ongenamkhawulo uphephile ngexesha leengxaki zempilo yengqondo kwaye ufumane loo mntu uzinzile.
Njengoko isigulane, ngokuqhelekileyo uya kunikwa umntu othile okanye iqela le-psychotherapy , kunye nokulawulwa kwamachiza. Emva kokuba uzinzile, uya kukhutshwa kwiprogram yesibhedlele yesifo sengqondo okanye ukunyangwa kwezonyango.
Inkqubo yesibhedlele yesifo sengqondo esincinci, esaziwa njengesibhedlele sosuku, isisiteyuka kwisifo esibhedlele esibhedlele. Kule nkqubo, uhlala kwiprogram yonyango kuphela emini kodwa ungahlali khona ubusuku. Isibhedlele esincinane sinikeza ishintsho esincinci ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuya kwinto eqhelekileyo yemihla ngemihla, kwaye ijoliswe ekuncedeni ukubuyisela umntu kumkhondo.
Kukho iiprogram zesibhedlele zangexesha elide ezijolise ekuboneleleni ngoncedo olubanzi. Kunokuba nje ugxininise ekubeni uzinzile, ezi nkqubo zinokubonelela ngeengqondo zonyango ezinzulu (njengokonyango lwendlela yokuziphatha ), kwaye unokuhlala iiveki okanye iinyanga ezimbalwa.
Ezi nkqubo zexesha elide zivame ngokuzithandela kwaye zibandakanya iqela, umntu kunye nosapho lwonyango.
Ukuhlawula unyango lwezonyango
Ngubani oza kuhlawula unyango lwakho? Oku kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi.
Ukuba unesi-inshurensi, umgaqo-nkqubo ungabhalela i-bill. Ukuba akunjalo, i-Medicare, Medicaid, okanye isebe lakho lempilo yengqondo linokuhlawula unyango lwakho.
Ezinye iiprogram zibiza kakhulu kwaye aziqhelwanga nge-inshorensi. Ukuba, njengabantu abaninzi, unenkxalabo malunga neendleko zonyango lwakho, thetha inkampani yakho yenkampani yomshuwalense okanye uxhumane nenkqubo yomshuwalense wezempilo karhulumente.
Indlela yokufumana unyango lwe-BPD
Ukuba ucinga ukuba ungadinga ukuba ungeniswe kwiprogram yokunyanga isigulane (okanye ukholelwa ukuba umntu othandayo unokufuna olu hlobo lwenkqubo), indawo efanelekileyo yokuqala ukucela wakho okanye umthandi wakho okanye umthandi wakho wengqondo ngokuphathelele ukuthunyelwa .
Uninzi lwezibonelelo zonyango olwamkelekileyo luyamkela izigulane kuphela ngokudluliselwa okanye kwiimeko zokukhawuleza. Ukufumana unyango ngokuzithandela, kunokukho uluhlu lokulindela ukungena kwinkqubo ekhethekileyo, ngoko gcina le engqondweni uze uqalise ukukhangela kwangoko.
Ukuba wena okanye othandekayo unengxaki yezempilo yengqondo (ngokuzibulala ngokuzibulala okanye u-homicidal, umzekelo), biza u-911 okanye uye ekamelweni eliphuthumayo elikufuphi (jonga kwakhona Into enokuyenza Ngengxaki ). Ukuba abasebenzi bezempilo yengqondo esibhedlele banomuvo wokuthi unyango olungaswelekiyo luyimfuneko, wena (okanye umthandayo) ungadluliselwa kwiyunithi yesifo esibhedlele. Ukuba akukho yunithi yesifo sengqondo, unokuthunyelwa esibhedlele esithile kunye nenkqubo yesifo sengqondo.
Imithombo:
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