Nangona kukho inkolelo yokuba ubuntwana abukhathazeki, ixesha elivuyisayo, kwanokuba abantwana banokuziva bexakekile kwaye bacinezeleke. Nantsi indlela onokukunceda ngayo umntwana wakho ukujamelana neemvakalelo zokudakumba.
Ubunzima: Umyinge
Ixesha elifunekayo: Uhluleka
Nantsi indlela:
- Qinisekisa umntwana wakho ukuba ukudandatheka akuyonto into yokuba abe neentloni okanye udibana naye. Sonke siziva sibuhlungu ngenxa yeemeko ezibuhlungu. Abanye bethu banezifo ezenza kube nzima ukuba sibuyele ekudakaleni.
- Nika umntwana wakho ilungelo lokuba nale mvakalelo. Abantwana banokukwazi ukufumana ingcamango yokuba akunakulungele ukuziva becinezelekile kwaye baqale ukufihla iimvakalelo zabo kunokujongana nabo ngendlela enempilo.
- Tshela umntwana wakho inyaniso. Thina sifuna ukukhusela abantwana bethu kwiintlungu, kodwa abantwana bayakwazi ukukhawuleza xa kukho into engalunganga. Ngokunyaniseka nabo sibavumela ukuba basebenze intlungu.
- Nika umntwana wakho ixesha lokulila , nangaphezu kwezinto ezincinci. I-hamster yesilwanyana inokubonakala ngathi yinto encinci kuwe, kodwa inokuba ngumcimbi omkhulu kumntwana ongazange asebenze ngokulahlekelwa ngaphambili.
- Nika ingqalelo kwimpawu zomntwana wakho. Ukuba iimpawu zihlala ixesha elongezelelweyo okanye ubona utshintsho olubi kubuntu babo, kusenokuba ixesha lokufuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe.
- Fundisa umntwana wakho kulungile ukucela uncedo xa beyifuna. Banike uluhlu lwabantu abanokuthetha nabo, njengotitshala, okanye umcebisi.
- Musa ukunciphisa imizwa yengane yakho. Kungabonakala kukuncinci kuwe, kodwa oko kubalulekayo indlela evakalelwa ngayo kuye.
- Nangona ukuzibulala kwabantwana kungekho nto, kuya kwenzeka. Njalo uyenze ngokubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho uthi uvakalelwa ukuba ufuna ukufa.
- Qaphela iimpembelelo zakho iimpendulo ebomini zenzeka kumntwana wakho. Umntwana wakho ufunda izakhono zokujamelana nokubukela.
- Thetha nomntwanakho malunga nomatshini wokudandatheka ngokwemiqathango engayiqonda ngayo usebenzisa isigama esilungele ubudala bakhe. (Jonga iimpawu ezinxulumene namanye amanqaku ancedo)
Iingcebiso:
- Inyaniso yokuba umntwana wakho ecindezelekileyo ayithethi ukuba uya kufuna iziyobisi. Abantwana abaninzi basabela kakuhle kwiyeza kuphela.
- Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ufuna kuphi uncedo, umcebisi wesikolo somntwana wakho okanye ugqirha wakho wosapho unokukunika.
- Iimpawu zokubheka: ukudakumba, ukucaphuka, ukulahleka kwintlalo, ukutshintsha isondlo, ukutshintsha kwemizimba yokulala, ukhathala, iimvakalelo zokungabi nalutho, iingcamango zokufa.