Ngaba Le ndlela yokuvula iMemori eziPheleleyo?
Abantu abaninzi abaneengxaki zengqondo, kubandakanywa izilingo, xa bekhulile bayazibuza ukuba ngaba imbangela yokusetyenziswa kakubi ebuntwaneni babo ukuba bayalilibala okanye baphazamisekile. Ngokukodwa, abaninzi banokuzibuza malunga nokuba kwenzeka ukuxhaphazwa ngokwesondo , kodwa kukhutshwe. Basenokuba neemvakalelo ezingaphelelanga, kodwa bazive bengakhululekile, ngokukodwa xa bekhumbula ngomntu omdala.
Ukungakwazi ukukhumbula ngokucacileyo, ngokukodwa xa kukho izinto ezinokuthi zenzeke, ziyakhathaza, kwaye abantu banokuphazamiseka ngokucinga ngezinto ezinokwenzeka okanye ezingazange zenzeke kubo, kwaye bazibuze yona umbuzo othi, " Ngaba ndandidla ngesondo xhatshazwa? "I- hypnosis ingabonakala ngathi iyindlela yokuvula le mijondolo, kwaye ulungele umcimbi kanye kunye nabo bonke.
Ngelishwa, inyaniso ayikho into elula.
Imemori kunye noNciphiso
Kuyinyani ukuba abanye abantu abaxhaphazwayo njengabantwana bayalibala okanye bahlukane namava, kwaye ungakhumbuli ukusetyenziswa kakubi kubantu abadala. Le nto icingelwa ukuba iyinkqubo yokukhusela - ngokulibala isiganeko esibuhlungu, ivalwe ngaphandle kokuqonda, ukuvumela umntwana, kwaye kamva umntu omdala, ukuba akwazi ukujamelana neengxaki zangoku ngaphandle kokuxinwa ngeemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo. Kwabanye, iikhumbuzo ezinzima zingenzeka ngokuqhubekayo, kwaye ukukhunjulwa kunye nokukhumbuza okukhunjulwayo kubonakaliswa yinkinga yokuxinzelela emva kokudandatheka.
Ukukhumbula ngokukhawuleza kokusetyenziswa kakubi
Kuyinyaniso ukuba abanye abantu kamva bakhumbula izikhumbuzo zokuxhaphazwa. Esi sikhumbuzo singenzeka kumxholo wonyango oluthile okanye utshintsho kwiimeko zomzimba okanye zengqondo, kubandakanya i-hypnosis. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhumbula ukusetyenziswa gadalala kunokwenzeka ngaphandle kokungenelela okuthe ngqo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, abantu abaye bafumana ukukhumbula izigwenxa zokuxhaphazwa banako ukuqinisekisa ukuba kwenzekani kubo, oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni banokuphucula nokuziqonda. Ngamanye amaxesha, iinkumbulo azicaci, kwaye kunzima ukutolika. Ukufuna ukuqinisekiswa ubungqina kunokuba kungenakwenzeka, kungenakuqhamo, okanye kunokubangela ubunzima obuninzi namanye amalungu entsapho.
Imemori kunye ne-Hypnosis
I-hypnosis yimeko eguqulwayo yolwazi apho izikhumbuzo zihlala zifikeleleka ngokulula. Nangona kunjalo, yindawo apho ingqondo ivulekile kumbono kunye nokucinga. Kukunzima ukuxelela ukuba ukukhumbula isiganeko sokuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kukukhunjulwa kwesiganeko sangempela, okanye imbali.
Abantu abaninzi, abathengi kunye neengcali, bakholelwa ukuba imemori isebenza njengekhamera yevidiyo, ibhala yonke into eyenzekayo. Baye bakholelwa ukuba iikhumbuzo ezilibalekileyo okanye ezikhutshweyo zingavulwa ngeteknoloji njenge-hypnosis. Enyanisweni, abaninzi abaxhomekeke kwi-hypnotherapists baya phambili, kwaye bakholelwa ukuba abantu bayakhumbula ubomi obudlulileyo phantsi kwe-hypnosis.
Ezi nkolelo azixhaswa yi nyaniso yesayensi. Ubume bememori njengenkqubo yokwakhiwa kwakhona ngoku kusekwe kakuhle. Ingqondo ayifani nekhamera yevidiyo, ifana ne-scrapbook, apho izikhumbuzo zenziwa ngokuhlanganisana namava ovavayo ngokutolika kunye nemfesane.
Ngaphantsi kwe-hypnosis, abantu bavuleleke kakhulu kwisiphakamiso. Enyanisweni, oku kusisiseko sokuthi i-hypnosis isebenza njani. I-hypnotherapist ekholelwa kwimodeli yokurekhoda yevidiyo, ngokukodwa ukuba bayayikrokrela ukuba umthengi wabo uxhatshazwe, angayichaza ngokungaqhelekanga imembu yokuhlukunyezwa komntu phantsi kwe-hypnosis, ezinokubonakala zikhumbule umxhasi.
Oku akuthethi ukuba nabani na okhumbula ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwabantwana ekukhuleni kwabo kukucinga, nokuba ukukhumbula kunokuvela phantsi kwe-hypnosis. Akunjalo ukutsho ukuba i-hypnotherapists zondla ngamabomu abaxhamli beembulelo zabo zobuxoki. Oko kuthethwa kukuba i-hypnosis ayikho indlela ethembekileyo yokuqwalasela ukuba ngaba ungasetyenziswa kakubi ebuntwaneni ukuba awukhumbuli ngoku.
Indlela i-Hypnosis inokunceda ngayo abasindisi bokuShatshazwa kwabantwana
Nangona kungenakulungeleka kwe-hypnosis "yomsebenzi wobucuphesha," i-hypnotherapy iyasebenza kakhulu ekuncedeni abantu ababethathwe kakubi ngokwesondo ukuze banqobe iimpawu zabo zokuphazamiseka kwengxaki yokudandatheka. I-Hypnotherapy ibaluleke kakhulu ekuncedeni abasindileyo ukuba bahlaziyeke imemori yabo yokuhlukunyezwa ngokubanika amandla okulawula, kunye nokujongana neemvakalelo ezibuhlungu ezifana nokuzigweba. I-hypnosis inamandla kakhulu xa ijolise ekudaleni utshintsho olufanelekileyo kwiingcamango, iimvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha kwexesha elizayo.
Funda Ukuqhawulwa kwexesha lokuShatshazwa koSondo
Imithombo
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