Kunzima kunokuba ukwesaba ubundlobongela obuninzi
Kuqhelekile ukuba amaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya anqume ukuphindaphinda ububungqina bawo kwaye angalandeli ngokuqhubela phambili iindleko ezichasene neqabane lawo elisondeleyo ukuba amanye amazwe adlulisele imithetho efuna ukubanjwa ngokusemthethweni nokutshutshiswa kweemeko nokuba ixhoba libandakanya okanye cha.
Ukuba ixhoba lenqaba ukunikela ubungqina okanye ukuphindaphinda kwaye lifaka ubungqina ukuba eso siganeko asizange senzeke, kwenza ukuba kunzima ukuthotywa.
Umxhaphazi ukhululwa entolongweni, akagwebi nemiphumo emibi kwaye umjikelezo wobundlobongela ukhululekile ukuphinda uphinda uphandle.
Ngoko, yintoni eyenza la maxhoba atshintshe amabali abo?
Iisongelo Zogonyamelo Olongezelelweyo?
Kwiminyaka emininzi, abacebisi kunye nabacebisi abasebenzisana namaxhoba obundlobongela basekhaya babecinga ukuba baphinde baxoxe ngamabali abo ngenxa yokwesaba udlame. Ingcamango yokuba amaxhoba ashintshile ingqondo yabo ngokuphishekela iindleko kuba abaphangi babatshutshisa ngobundlobongela.
Kodwa uphando lwangoku luye lwabonisa ukuba akuyiyo isoyiko abaxhaphazayo abasebenzisa ukutshintsha amaxhoba abo ekutshintsheni amabali abo, kodwa isibheno sengqondo esinobuchule esinobuchule esinobuchule obuqhubela phambili kwiinqanaba ezi-5 ezihlukeneyo ezenzelwe ukunciphisa izenzo zabo kwaye zenze uvelwano lwabaxhoba.
Inkqubo yokuPhinda
Ngenxa yezizathu zokhuseleko, amaninzi amabanjwa kunye namaziko okuvalelwa abhala iingxoxo zeefowuni ezifakwe ngamabanjwa.
Abathathi-nxaxheba bayazi ukuba incoko yabo ibhalwa kuba isaziso senziwe ekuqaleni kwefowuni.
Ngokufunda iiyure ezininzi zeengxoxo ezirekhodiweyo phakathi kweentolongo zamadoda ezijongene neentlawulo zamarhaxwa asekhaya kunye namaxhoba abo asebatyhini, abaza kugqiba ekubeni baphinde baphenduke, abaphandi bakwazi ukuqonda ingqalelo kwinkqubo yokuhlaziya.
Ukuxhatshazwa kwangempela, iiNkxwaleko zangempela
Ngokuphulaphula le ntshintshi phakathi kwabaxhaphazi bamambala kunye namaxhoba okwenene, abaphandi baye bafumanisa inkqubo enyathelo elihlanu ukususela kumaxhoba ngokuzimela ngokuzikhusela nokuphelisa kunye nabacwangcisayo kunye nomenzi wobubi ukuba bangatshintsha njani ubungqina babo.
Amanqanaba amahlanu anokuqikelelwa njengomjikelezo wobundlobongela obuphindaphinda ngokubanzi ubudlelwane bokuxhaphaza.
Iintlanu ezintlanu zokuPhinda kwakhona
Nazi iindlela ezihlanu ezichazwe ngabaphandi:
Inyathelo lokuqala: Uluqilima kwaye ulungelelaniswa - Iintetho zefowuni zangaphambili ziphela ngokugqithiseleyo malunga neemeko ezibangele ubudlova. Ixhoba, kulezi zingcingo zokuqala, liqine kwaye liphikisana ne-akhawunti yomenzi wenzi-mthetho.
Amaxhoba ahlala ecombulukisiwe ukuba abone umxhaphazi ushutshiso ngenxa yezenzo zakhe kwifowuni yokuqala okanye yesibini, kodwa njengoko iifowuni ziyaqhubeka, isisombululo siqala ukuphazamiseka.
Inyathelo lesibini: Ukunciphisa ukusetyenziswa kakubi- emva kokubizela, umenzi wobubi uzama ukukholisa ixhoba ukuba lesi siganeko asiyonto enzulu. Kodwa okubaluleke ngakumbi kule nqanaba, umxhaphazi uzama ukuvalelwa yintlongo ngokuzigxotha njengentlungu-intlungu ejele, ecinezelekileyo, mhlawumbi ukuzibulala, kunye nokumlahleka kunye nabantwana.
Oku kukuguquka okubalulekileyo kwinkqubo xa iqela lenene liqala ukubona umenzi wobugwenxa njengexhoba kwaye liqala ukuzama ukunyusa nokuthuthuzela umxhaphazi wakhe. Xa kwenzeka oko, amanyathelo amathathu alandelayo ayenzeka ngokukhawuleza.
Inyathelo lesithathu: Abayiqondi - Xa umxhaphazi sele ezuze uvelwano lwabaxhoba, baqala ukubophelela uthando lwabo komnye nomnye baze bahlangane kunye nokulwa nehlabathi elingayiqondi.
Inyathelo lesine: Uxela kum - ngoku ukuba bawachasene nenkqubo okanye urhulumente, okanye uluntu olungathandekiyo, umxhaphazi ucela nje ukuba ixhoba liphinde liphinde lichaze kwaye liyavuma.
Inyathelo lesithandathu: Ukuphuhlisa iSicwangciso - Emva kokuba ixhoba livuma ukutshintsha ibali lakhe, basebenzisana kunye nokuza kunye nokuphuhlisa amabali abo.
U-Amy Bonomi, umbhali ohamba phambili kunye no-professor onxulumene nophuhliso loluntu kunye nesayensi yenzululwazi kwiYunivesithi yase-Ohio State, wenza lo hlalutyo lobubele bokuqala ukuthetha phakathi kwabahlukumezi kunye namaxhoba abo. Ukholelwa ukuba ezi ziphumo ziza kubanika abacebisi kunye nabacebisi umzekelo omtsha wokusebenza kunye namaxhoba obundlobongela obusondelene nabo.
Ukulungiselela Kungaba YiNtloko
Ukuba ngaba amaxhoba afundiswa ukuba abahlukumezi babo banokusebenzisa imfesane kunye nezicwangciso zokuncitshiswa kwaye zilungiselelwe ngaphambi kwexesha, zingaphantsi kwehlelwa yinkqubo kunye nokunye okumele kwenziwe emva kokutshutshiswa.
Ngaphandle kwale ncediso, kunokuba nzima ukuba amanye amaxhoba azidibanise nobudlelwane obundlobongela, uBomomi uphetha.
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Imithombo:
Bonomi, AE, et al, "Ndihlangabezane Nentaba apho Sasisebenzisa khona ukuPaka": iiNkqubo zoNxibelelwano eziNxulumene neNkcenkcesho yokuHlulwa koNyango. " IzeNzululwazi nezeNtlalo .
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