Konke Okuzama Ukulawula
Ingaba utywala kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi ngumbandela okanye akunjalo, ubundlobongela basekhaya kunye noxhatshazo luyinkathazo enkulu kakhulu kubaxhoba kunye nabaxhaphazi.
Njengoko sibonile kwinqaku leveki elidlulileyo nangona iifomati zibonakala zibonise ezinye ikhonkco phakathi kokusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala / iziyobisi kunye nobundlobongela basekhaya, abanye bakholelwa ukuba yimiba emibini eyahlukileyo. Ukusetyenziswa gadalala kumakhaya akuthethi kakhulu "ngokulahlekelwa kolawulo" njengoko kuthethwa ngokulawula konke!
Okumangalisayo kukuba, abaninzi ababetha iimbambano abaziboni njengabenzi bobubi, kodwa njengexhoba. Le ngcamango iqhelekile phakathi kwabahlaseli. Abaninzi bangena iinkqubo zonyango ezixhaswe ngamandla kunye neenkqubo zokukhanyela ezenzelwe ukulungelelanisa okanye zithethelele izenzo zabo.
Yonke Yolawulo
Kukho iingcamango ezahlukeneyo malunga nezinto ezenza ababethatywayo basebenzise kakubi abo bafuphi. Enye imbono kukuba ababethatywayo banobugebengu obukhuni abenza ubugebengu babo ngendlela eqikelelweyo, ukuba bafezekise ukubaluleka kwabo bakholelwa ukuba amadoda anelungelo. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ukuphathwa kakubi yinto yemveliso yeengxaki eziphambili zengqondo kunye nophuhliso, ezingabalulekanga ngesini.
Iingcali ziye zafikelela kwisivumelwaniso kwizinto ezininzi eziqhelekileyo phakathi kwababetheli - zilawula, zixhaphaza, zihlala zizibona njengexhoba kwaye zikholelwa ukuba amadoda anqunywe ngaphambili ukuba aphethe zonke iinkalo zobuhlobo.
Olunye uphando lubonise ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi izenzo zobundlobongela basekhaya ziziphatha ngendlela yokuziphatha komtshato, oko kukuthi, izenzo ezithathwe ngumlingane omnye ukuzama ukugcina nokugcina ubudlelwane babo kunye nomnye umlingane.
Ukunyamekela kwabantwana
Kwabanye abahlukumezayo, ubudlova kuyisitoreji sokugcina iqabane labo elisondeleyo ekushiyeleni ubudlelwane okanye ukuyigcina ekubeni bangathembekanga, nokuba ngaba kuthetha ukuba baxinzelele ngokomzimba ukuba bahlale.
Omnye umbethi oye wangena ngonyango, uthi "ukubetha, ukuxhaphazwa ngamagama, kunye nosongelo konke kulawulo.
Kwakunjengokudlala umdlalo omtsha, "watsho." Ndaye ndafumana amaqhosha kwaye ndenza ukuba enze konke endikufunayo. Ndizama ukumsongela. Ndandifuna ukumlawula ngenxa yezizathu ezilula ukuba ndiyazi ukuba ndiyakwenza. Kwakwenza ndive ndikhulu. "
Ixesha lokuShatshazwa
Ngokubhekiselele kwiiNgxaki zeNtombi kunye nokuXhotyiswa kweNtlalo (i-WISE) yase-Australia, imiba yamandla kunye nokulawula ibalulekile ekuqondeni ulwaphulo lwasekhaya. Ubundlobongela basekhaya buvela ebuhlotsheni apho ingxabano yiphumo eliqhubekayo lokungalingani kwamandla phakathi kwamaqabane kunye neqabane elinye liyesabayo kwaye lenzakaliswa lenye, "bathetha.
Nangona iyakwazi ukuhluka ukusuka kwimeko ukuya kwimeko, kwaye ingacingi ngezinye iindlela zokusetyenziswa kakubi kwekhaya, i-WISE isebenzisa i- "Cycle of Violence" njengomzekelo wokuqonda ukuziphatha kogonyamelo. Inguqu elula yokujikeleza ikhona kwi-intanethi, kodwa ngokufutshane, yile:
- I-Phase-Up Phase - Uxinzelelo luyakha.
- Ukuma kweSigaba esiPhezulu - Ukuhlaselwa kwamagama kukunyuka.
- Isigaba sokuqhuma - Ukuqhuma kwintlanzi kwenzeka.
- Isiqhelo Sokuzisola - Akufanele ukuba ungandichukumise, kwakuyimpazamo yakho!
- Pursuit Phase - Akuyi kuphinda iphinde ibuyeke, ndiyathembisa.
- Isigaba seN Honeymoon - Yabona, asinayo ingxaki!
Lo mjikelo unxulumene nokusetyenziswa kakubi ngokomzimba. Ayinakucinga ngezinye iindlela zokusetyenziswa kakubi kwezilwanyana ezisetyenziselwa ukulawula, njengokusetyenziswa kakubi ngokwesondo, ukuxhaphazwa ngamagama, ukuphathwa kakubi ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo, ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokomoya, ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwezoqoqosho kunye nokuhlukunyezwa kweentlalo.
Bambalwa Izibonelelo okanye Uncedo lwabahlaseli
Kukho izibonelelo ezimbalwa ezifumanekayo kubabambisi, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo bathetha abaninzi banokufuna uncedo xa beyalelwe enkundleni ukuba benze njalo, kwaye amaninzi amazwe ayichithe iirhafu zerhafu kwonyango lwabatshayi, ngokuqhelekileyo banikela ngaphandle entolongweni okanye entolongweni njengesisombululo.
Ukubeka umxhaphazi entolongweni kuya kuphelisa ubundlobongela, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kuphela okwethutyana ukususela kungekho nonyango ekhoyo. Ingxaki kukuba, ukubandakanyeka kwamapolisa nokuboshwa kungabangela ubundlobongela obukhulu kwezinye iimeko.
Uncedo kumaxhoba okuxhatshazwa
Ubungozi bokulimala ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nokuzihlukanisa kwezoqoqosho kunye nokwenyama okuqhelekileyo ukuzifumana kuzo kwenza ukuba kunzima ngakumbi kunamaxhoba okusetyenziswa kakubi ekhaya .
Ukushiya ngokulula kunokukhupha ubundlobongela obuninzi.
Ulwaphulo-mthetho lwasekhaya lwasekhaya
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)