Ngokuqhelekileyo xa abantu bejamelana nesimo esitsha nesichukumisayo-umsebenzi onzima kunzima, ulwalamano olunamava oluthatha ixesha lokuba luhlalutye, utshintsho kwinkqubo yokuphila evakalelwa "ukuhla" kwizinto ababenayo-baziva bexinekeke kwingcamango yokuba kufuneka bajongane nokuxinzezeleka kwexesha elide. Abantu abanenkxalabo malunga noxinzelelo lwangexesha elide banesizathu sokukhathazeka: ukuxinezeleka okungapheliyo, uhlobo loxinzelelo lwengcinezelo oluqhubekayo nolungaguqukiyo, lunokuthatha inzuzo enkulu.
(Jonga eli nqaku malunga nemiphumo yengcinezelo engapheliyo .) Abantu abajamelana noxinzelelo olungapheliyo banokuzibuza ukuba izinto ziya kuba lula-ukuba ziya kulungelelanisa.
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba kukho izinto ezinokwenziwa ukunciphisa uxinzelelo lwalo nawuphi na umqathango, nokuba ngaba imeko ngokwayo ikhona ukuhlala isikhashana. Ukuba ujongene nesithintelo esitsha, imeko engumngeni obunzima, okanye uyazibuza ukuba kulula kangakanani kwaye ukukhawuleza njani inkqubo, ezi zilandelayo ziyizicwangciso zokuncedisa uxinzelelo ezinokukunceda.
(Qaphela: Ukuba ujongene neengxaki zobomi okanye uxinzelelo oluxinzelelekileyo, ezi zinto zingakunceda kakhulu, kodwa ukufuna uncedo lwabaqeqeshi kunokuba luyimfuneko ngethuba elithile ukuba uxinzelelo alukwazi ukulawulwa.
Yiba nesimo esifanelekileyo
Asikwazi ukulawula rhoqo into esijongene nayo, kodwa sinokukhetha kwindlela esijamelana nayo. Sinokukhetha indlela esithatha ngayo, nokuba ngaba sibhekene nomngeni ngamnye njengengozi okanye umngeni .
Amanyathelo alandelayo anokukunceda ukuba ungene kwisakhelo esiphezulu sengqondo ukuba ufuna.
- Qonda Imisebenzi Yengqondo
Isimo sakho sinokukunceda ukuqonda indlela okuxhalabisa ngayo imeko, nendlela ojongene ngayo neendlela ozikhethayo. Enyanisweni, isimo sengqondo sinokuchaphazela okokukhethayo kwaye ungaboni, oku kunokuchaphazela amanqanaba akho oxinzelelo kunye nesiphumo sezenzo zakho. Funda ngakumbi malunga nendima yesimo sengqondo sakho esinokuyidlala .
- Hlola iimpawu zakho zokucinga
Iipatheni zakho zokucinga zivakalelwa ngokuzenzekelayo, kodwa ungakhetha apho ugxininiso lwakho lukho. Ukuqala ukwenza olo khetho, kunceda ukuba uqaphele iindlela zakho zokucinga. Lo msebenzi ungakunceda ukuba ubone ezi mpapasho ngokucacileyo , kwaye unokukunceda ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo kwinkqubo. - Ziqhelise UkuziThetha NgokuziThetha
Ukuzithetha ngokuzithethayo kuthetha ukusebenzisa ulwimi oluthembekileyo entloko yakho, kwaye ugxininise ngakumbi kwiimeko. Kuquka okungaphezulu nje kokuzama ukujonga kwicala elikhanyayo, nangona le nxalenye yalo. Funda iinkalo ezithile apho ungatshintsha khona ugxininiso lwakho kunye nenkqubo, utshintshe into enokwenzeka, kwaye ukukhathazeka okanye ukunyanzeliswa kobuhlungu ubomi bakho buvakalelwa njani.
Sitshintsha into onako
Ngamanye amaxesha kukho iinkalo ezithile zengxaki onokutshintsha, nokuba ungeke ukwazi ukutshintsha imeko yonke. Ngokomzekelo, unakho, ngenxa yezizathu zemali, awukwazi ukuyeka umsebenzi ongenakuwufumana, kodwa unokudibanisa nabasebenzi abasebenzisana nabo, utshintshe isimo sakho sengqondo xa usebenza, kwaye usebenzise ixesha lakho lokuphumula lokulawula uxinzelelo imisebenzi, yonke into enokutshintsha indlela ozivakalelwa ngayo xa ulo msebenzi. Amanyathelo alandelayo anokukunceda wenze utshintsho apho unakho khona, kwaye unciphise uxinzelelo njengoko wenzayo.
- Zama ukuCombulula ukuGxila kweSombululo
Ukujongana nokujongana nesisombululo kuthetha ukuthatha isenzo ukutshintsha ubomi bakho apho unakho. Olu tshintsho lunokuba lukhulu kumlinganiselo, okanye luncinci kodwa lujoliswe. Utshintsho ngokwalo lunokubangela uxinzelelo, ngoko kubalulekile ukukhetha utshintsho oluza kubaluleke kakhulu. Funda ngokubanzi malunga nokukhethwa kwendlela yokuqwalasela isisombululo . - Fumana kwaye ususe ukuxhatshazwa
Ukuxhatshazwa ngabo baxinzezelekileyo kwiindlela zokuphila ozenzayo ngokungaziqondi kakuhle, kodwa oku kukunika uxinzelelo olungapheliyo. Into enokunyamezela kukuba idibanisa ukunyamezela okukhulu. Ukuqhawula ukunyamezela kunokuzisa ukuxinwa kwengcinezelo ukuze ukwazi ukunyamezela izinto ezininzi ongazikwazi ukutshintsha. Funda indlela yokufumana nokuphelisa ukunyamezela ebomini bakho.
- Yenza isiCwangciso soBomi esitsha
Ukwazi apho ufuna ukuhamba khona, ukuba nesicwangciso sekamva, kunokukunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo okwangoku. Ukucwangciswa kocwangciso ngokuphathelele kwiimpawu zakho kunye nezinto eziphambili kukunceda kwaye kukhuthaze, nokuba ngaba awukwazi ukuzisa ezo zicwangciso ukuba zilungele ixesha elide. Funda indlela yokwenza utshintsho okwangoku kwaye wenze izicwangciso zekamva ukudala ubomi obungathanda ukuba nawo .
Ukwakha Ukuzinyameka Ngendlela Eyimpilo
Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza nayiphi na into ukutshintsha imeko yakho, unokunciphisa uxinzelelo ovakalelwa ngalo xa uphatha ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Imisebenzi ethile inokukhuthaza ukuzinza nokukunceda uzive ungaphelelanga ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ungaphantsi kancinci kubaxinzelelo abajongene nabo xa bekhupha iintloko zabo ezimbi. Ezi zilandelayo zizinto ezimbalwa zokuzomeleza ukuzomeleza ebomini bakho-xa zihlala ziba ngumkhwa, abaphantsi koxinzelelo bakho baya kukukhathaza!
- Ukuzinakekela
Xa sikhathele, silambile, siqhubekile, yonke into iyichukumisa ngakumbi. Sivame ukusabela kwixinzelelo kunokuba siphendule. Sivumela izinto zebhola. Gxininisa ekunyamekelweni komzimba wakho , kwaye uya kuba nekhono elikhulu lokusingatha uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo ebomini bakho ngokubanzi. - Ukuzivocavoca
Ukuzivocavoca ngenye yezo zinto ezixakekileyo zokuxinwa kwengcinezelo ezinokuthi zenze ukuzinza ngokukunceda ukuba uqhume umqhubi. Eyona nto ingcono, ukuzivocavoca rhoqo kunokukunceda ukuba ungasebenzi ngokuthe ngcipheko. Funda kabanzi malunga neenzuzo zokuzilolonga kunye nendlela yokwakha lo mkhuba ophilileyo kwimpilo yakho . - Ukucamngca
Ukucamngca kunokukunceda uhlale uhlala kwindawo yokuxinezeleka , kwaye kunokukunceda ukuba uphinde ufumane uxolo xa uziva ungabikho. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokucamngca ezisebenza kakuhle, ngoko uzama ezimbalwa uze unamathele kwindlela okanye ubabini abazithandayo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, kufuneka ufumane ukuphendula uxinzelelo kwaye ungakwazi ukuhlala uxolo kwaye uxolo. - Isimo sengqondo esihle
Ukugcina isimo sengqondo esilungileyo yinto enye ongayenza ukuze wenze konke okusemandleni akho kubonakale kulula. Isimo sengqondo esilungileyo sinceda ukuba uhambelane ngakumbi nabanye (oko kunokukhokelela ekuncedeni loluntu olukhulu kunye nenkqubela engaphantsi) kwaye kunokukunceda ukuba uhlale uziva kakuhle, nangona izinto ezikujikelezayo zingekho kakhulu. Funda kabanzi malunga nokugcina isimo sengqondo ngoku.
Akunakukwazi ukutshintsha yonke into ebomini bakho, kodwa ezi ngcebiso zingakunceda ukuba uzivumelanise ngokulula kwiimeko ezinokujamelana nazo.